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My problems... if anyone wants to listen....I had this gf well just recently we plan for her to spend the night at my house. and i live with my parents... which sucks... and they hate when i go out.... so her spending the night at my house will be ok.. My parents think shes a "friend" hehehe well anyways my parents tell me to go ahead and spend the night at her house cuz our house was dirty.. i was in shock cuz my parents never want me to spend the night anywhere... but i call her and tell im going to her house instead.. she says ok... then later i figure.. well hey might as well go clubbing.... so i text to see if she wants to go. she says yes she does want to go.... soooooo im all excited.. i have my girl and im going clubing .. I decide to invite my friends 2 girls.. if it makes any difference .. i call 5 minutes before i go to her house and say "we will be there in 5 min"
shes like what do u mean.. we.. I was like ahhhhh darn......... she gets pissed and says i dont care and i dont want to be with her..... and that i dont want what she wants but clearly i do.... and now she doesnt want to be with me.... Im just extremely depressed.. need some advice or guidance to get through this... notice i get the best feedback from strangers

just talk to her, tell her exactly how you feel. it sounds like there's a trust issue: you trust her but she doesn't seem to trust you. honesty is usually all you need.

i did let her know ... that i was sorry... and i do want to be with her... but .. she says in toooo young!! its pretty much over..theres nothing i can do.. is there?..

How old are you two?

well if age is a factor, that's a whole different story. she just needs to see things from your point of view. if age has been a factor in the past, somehow prove to her that you can both overcome that if you both try hard. or u can just do what i do & try to remind her the potential misery that can occur to both of you if you're not together. then again, that' probably the reason i'm single.

im 19 she will be 21 in january =/ not a big difference at all

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Originally posted by xTranceGurlx My problems... if anyone wants to listen....I had this gf well just recently we plan for her to spend the night at my house. and i live with my parents... which sucks... and they hate when i go out.... so her spending the night at my house will be ok.. My parents think shes a "friend" hehehe well anyways my parents tell me to go ahead and spend the night at her house cuz our house was dirty.. i was in shock cuz my parents never want me to spend the night anywhere... but i call her and tell im going to her house instead.. she says ok... then later i figure.. well hey might as well go clubbing.... so i text to see if she wants to go. she says yes she does want to go.... soooooo im all excited.. i have my girl and im going clubing .. I decide to invite my friends 2 girls.. if it makes any difference .. i call 5 minutes before i go to her house and say "we will be there in 5 min" shes like what do u mean.. we.. I was like ahhhhh darn......... she gets pissed and says i dont care and i dont want to be with her..... and that i dont want what she wants but clearly i do.... and now she doesnt want to be with me.... Im just extremely depressed.. need some advice or guidance to get through this... notice i get the best feedback from strangers

So if I understand this correctly: You were gonna spend your first night with your gf, but you wanted to go clubbing first AND invited 2 other girls to go out with you both?

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Originally posted by Mister_Michel So if I understand this correctly: You were gonna spend your first night with your gf, but you wanted to go clubbing first AND invited 2 other girls to go out with you both?

oh no go clubbing then drop the other girls home.. and then it would be just her and i

ps nice avatar

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Originally posted by xTranceGurlx oh no go clubbing then drop the other girls home.. and then it would be just her and i

Well don't you understand that your girlfriend wanted to spend the whole night with you and you alone, you know like in a romantic night, a date? She probably had high hopes of the evening and bringing those other girls killed the mood.(must you have brought girls, why not guys? at least that would have been less of a disaster).


And thank you, yes my ass is superb.

well see i mean its a club... how could it obviously just be her and i....? u know... i could of seen my friends there... i dont know.. im just not understanding

im gonna have to agree with mister michel here, becuase if someone i knew did the same to me i'd be kinda pissed too

becuase she wants to spend time with you, and your taking away that time by inviting other people

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Originally posted by xTranceGurlx im just not understanding

Appearantly not

damnnnnn it.

as i said already, try and speak to her, ask why she's upset. try and arrange another night whatever.

i still think could b saved...and im sure all the boys would love it to be saved Yarr!

lol oh wow i like ur avatar and sig.... oooooo hehehehehe

So your a bloke and your called trance gurl?? And you would rather go out with other girls and have your girlfriend tag along than spend your first night together. You have so many issues.

Edit : Ahh your a lesbian - ok well then you def should have taken guys clubbing rather than girls, unless of course your one of those man hating dyke types.

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My problems... if anyone wants to listen....I had this gf well just recently we plan for her to spend the night at my house. and i live with my parents... which sucks... and they hate when i go out.... so her spending the night at my house will be ok.. My parents think shes a "friend" hehehe well anyways my parents tell me to go ahead and spend the night at her house cuz our house was dirty.. i was in shock cuz my parents never want me to spend the night anywhere... but i call her and tell im going to her house instead.. she says ok...

This sounds like the perfect night! Just the two of you alone *hint-hint*

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then later i figure..

Oh? Is there a change of plans?

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well hey might as well go clubbing....

No shit. What could be more fun then spending an evening at a noisey, smokey, and crowded club as the pungent odor of cigerette butts and body odour linger throughout the air?

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so i text to see if she wants to go.

You TEXT her? Oh. How thoughtfull of you

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she says yes she does want to go....

Supposedly caring so much for you and wanting the night to go right i would have asked "what about our sleepover?"

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soooooo im all excited..

But I'm crying! What ever happened to our night alone toghether?

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i have my girl and im going clubing..

You're not listening to me

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I decide to invite my friends 2 girls..

You did what?

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if it makes any difference .. i call 5 minutes before i go to her house and say "we will be there in 5 min"

empahise on the WE i suppose? And yes, bringing other people does make a fucking difference

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shes like what do u mean.. we.. I was like ahhhhh darn......... she gets pissed and says i dont care and i dont want to be with her..... and that i dont want what she wants but clearly i do.... and now she doesnt want to be with me.... Im just extremely depressed.. need some advice or guidance to get through this... notice i get the best feedback from strangers

blah, blah, blah....If you can't see what the problem is, I don't think you deserve her

well, all the best to you!
and have a merry christmas

I think I said this before, but Women and Logic are like Oil and Water.

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Originally posted by Orbax I think I said this before, but Women and Logic are like Oil and Water.

these words have wisdom.

trancegirl, re-read GelatinPufF and Mister_Michel posts over and over again until you get it.

Sounds like you are still in that party stage of your life (running around clubs, etc.), and she might be interested in a committed relationship. She's more mature than you, anyway aplologize for being an idiot that night and take it from there...

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Originally posted by igottaknow trancegirl, re-read GelatinPufF and Mister_Michel posts over and over again until you get it. Sounds like you are still in that party stage of your life (running around clubs, etc.), and she might be interested in a committed relationship. She's more mature than you, anyway aplologize for being an idiot that night and take it from there...

no kidding.... i do see the problem.. well said gelatinpuff. man i totally messed this up ... i dont deserve her

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Originally posted by xTranceGurlx no kidding.... i do see the problem.. well said gelatinpuff. man i totally messed this up ... i dont deserve her

Yah you could think of it this way.

But I don't believe things would be equal now...

I'm pretty sure 'she'll just need some time to think about it, and it's in your best interest to do just that. So let it be, and hope things will turn out best for later days.

I guess she's just upset that she was expecting to spend the night with you all to herself, but then you invited some mates along. Does she know them?? It'd probably have been fine if she already knew them, that way she'd know that they weren't gonna make a move towards you or whatever. If she doesn't know them, she probably just felt a bit insecure.

Not being a lesbian myself it's a bit hard to give advice, but i'd say just reassure her that you'll always ask her in future if you're gonna invite other people along. Dont give up whatever you do.

lesbians.mmmmmmmmmm (k said the avg male response)

Anyway, you are at a funny stage in life because you want love but it sometimes don't happen. Wait a few days then try again because ppl normally get angry then cool down. If not, then take it as experience. Always nice to have lesbians on the board...errrrrrr.....shit....now I fucking sound like the assclowns that dominate this board with the pics or stfu....grrrrrr....nevermind....and if you are one of those assclowns...ignore this.

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