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do u all have a problem with me??i dont feel welcome:(

ok..im gettin quite worried now...in my opinion ive done nothing wrong on these forums but as things boil up ive called all sorts of names now. "shit head" "twat" and others.
then whenb this comment came from wicked neo i got quite concerned

"There are defo a few ppl on here far worse than Palivar, like one with over 700 posts to his name but not ONE valid contribution to these forums, but i wont name names . . . "

ok so i rarely post about trance itself cos im mostly in the chillout room. but do many of u have a problem with me? i dont wanna be on a forum where im not wanted. so is this the general feeling on TA cos if so i will leave

hoobs

i got no prob with you

I have a problem with you yes yes I do lol hhahaa No just kidding I have no probs with you man

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Originally posted by JdDark i got no prob with you

well i dont exactly have many ppl bein friendly 2 me on the forums..def not u jd ur sound but many others seem2

Hmmmmmm i have to admit that sometimes you are getting on my nerves ... but let's just say we are friend , aren't we ?

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Originally posted by FASTDJMP3 Hmmmmmm i have to admit that sometimes you are getting on my nerves

but y?? and no i dont get the feeling we r friends..u seem 2 have had a problem with me right from the start..ur better now but u still dont like me

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Originally posted by Dj Martijn ok..im gettin quite worried now...in my opinion ive done nothing wrong on these forums but as things boil up ive called all sorts of names now. "shit head" "twat" and others. then whenb this comment came from wicked neo i got quite concerned "There are defo a few ppl on here far worse than Palivar, like one with over 700 posts to his name but not ONE valid contribution to these forums, but i wont name names . . . "

I sometimes feel the same way, but I take it that's coz I like dissing tunes I hate!

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Originally posted by Dj Martijn but y?? and no i dont get the feeling we r friends..u seem 2 have had a problem with me right from the start..ur better now but u still dont like me

Yes i have had a problem with you but not from the start , it was something u wrote which was very very bad , i had nothing but to tell you : F@#$ you DJ Martijn , you are the biggest wanker on earth . But now it's ok , i am considering you as a friend , that's why i am always joking with you in the ^^^^ thread

do I have a problem with u? nope..not @ all. Do I have a problem with your unhealthy obsession with Pete Sampras? hell yeah!

yeah u said that 2 me in the thread with yevat in which i said NOTHING out of order!!

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Originally posted by Dj Martijn then whenb this comment came from wicked neo i got quite concerned "There are defo a few ppl on here far worse than Palivar, like one with over 700 posts to his name but not ONE valid contribution to these forums, but i wont name names . . . "

Wow you do have a high opinion of yourself !
To think i would be talking about you !
Dont flatter yourself !

i did not name a person cos i am not into Flame Wars and dont like stupid arguements, i dont mind a decent arguement about music and Twilogodess and i have had a few of those ( come on TG get something controvosial going agin )
but belive me i give better than what i take and u would not want to argue with me, i have my opinions on u of course as everyone else on these forums has an opinion on everyone else !
and as such we are all entitled to our opinions.

i only usually slag someone off if they deserve it and there has been times in the past when u and others have deserved a little flame now and then to keep u in line .

So dont be going any further with this and inciting a flame war all because of a relativly harmless comment by me !

Peace

ok but the main ppl im waitin 4 replies from r ppl like yevat,coup,wicked neo and donna(rarely here)

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Originally posted by Wicked Neo Wow you do have a high opinion of yourself ! To think i would be talking about you ! Dont flatter yourself !

u NO it was bout me..im the only 1 who contributes alot reently and has 700+ posts.so YES u were talkin bout me i no.thats like me sayin
a certain person who writes in red and has neo in their name i h8!!no names mentioned!!!

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Originally posted by Dj Martijn u NO it was bout me..im the only 1 who contributes alot reently and has 700+ posts.so YES u were talkin bout me i no.thats like me sayin a certain person who writes in red and has neo in their name i h8!!no names mentioned!!!

see..its shit like this thatll get u in trouble...cool heads will always prevail!!! Dont let ppl get under your skin Martijn..its just the net.

Hey look another chance to boost my post total.

weak.....

well, all i have to say, as i dont think just the four of us that got abuse from u.... and dont ask me to remember names, cuz i aint that fucking sad. Anyhow, uve pissed me off many times for just how u say things....

DJ Martijn !! I think your cool broo ..make threads fun and thats what its about .. stay cool , and just dont give negative feedbacks to those that are bothering you .. just leave alone .. if thats the case , anyways , I dont really know what the problem is , so I wont say more !!

So far.. all kewl here man !!

Seriously, I don't have problems with you

ive known you 5 years, course i have a fucking problem with you! lol! j/k, arguments? i thought all ours were just messing around from school and stuff like that? i aint got a prob with you!

Dude, you know I love you... don't leave this place! you're a gerat contribution!!!!

I havn't been here long mate, but the way I see it you've got over 700 posts to your name. If people didn't like you they would have made it clear by now.

I'm kinda the same as you, I post more in the Chillout room. I read nearly everything that goes in the music discussion but a lot of people know a lot more than me on the subject and have been into Trance so I just lurke and learn. But as far as you go, I havn't got a problem at all.

Chill your boots (my latest saying, straight from the Big Brother UK house) .

Ben, please don't pull a simcut. We want you here. Anyways you and yevat and coup have the funniest stories. Like the time you got grounded cause call your mother something. Stay man, i need this kind of humour. Also i've never had a problem with ya.

Krazy!

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Originally posted by torontotrance Ben, please don't pull a simcut. We want you here. Anyways you and yevat and coup have the funniest stories. Like the time you got grounded cause call your mother something. Stay man, i need this kind of humour. Also i've never had a problem with ya.

Hey Martijn, dude this is a stinking forum about Trance music on the internet. You usually "talk" to a bunch of people you don't have a clue about, why get so stressed out about what they think? It's not like you're gonna be with them as friends for the rest of your life. Dude chill out, listen to trance music, live your life... I understand it's just your age, my only advice is, don't give a fuck about what others think. If you think you offended someone, just say sorry, if someone's bugging you, fuck em and forget em. No need to post a thread about this...

ID

Just a quick word....

Okay. Firstly I haven't been here for as long as many of you have, secondly I probably don't spend as much time on these forums as you guys do - I usually just pop in every other day for 10-15 minutes, post a couple of replies in the music section, quickly browse through the Chill Out Room if I have time and then bugger off again. Having said that, I have been involved with these sorts of music forums for a while now: I've been part of the homeofmusic.com forums for nearly 18 months now, and of the promos 4 djs forum for about 5 months, a preferred member for the majority of that time. During all this time, in all my experience, I have never witnessed any fights on either of these two forums (apart from a fairly big debate on HoM regarding shared lockers being deleted and over-posting, but this was resolved fairly quickly and effectively given the magnitude of the problems) and whatever minor disagreements that arise are solved quickly, quietly and privately, which brings me to some of the issues being raised on this forum.

Firstly there's this thing with Palivar. Fortunately, seeing as my computer is configured properly at the moment, I haven't been subjected to his sound files, but I have noticed his irrelevent posts and can understand why some of you may consider him to be a spammer, even though I personally don't mind him. I do know that many of you don't share my views though, as demonstrated by the two thread that were created not to try and alleviate any problems he may be causing, but simply to flame him and to publicly voice your greivences with him. Do you honestly think that this approach is going to solve your problems?

This brings me to my second point: all the unnecessary arguments and personal attacks. It seems like whenever someone on this board has even the most petty objection to something that anyone else has said, they jump on them immediately, often making unwarranted personal attacks on the person who made the comment they took a dislike to. Of course once someone makes public their views about another individual, the person being attacked retaliates, and what was originally a harmless personal opinion or judgement degenerates into a flame war between two people too proud to back down. This thread is a perfect example. Now I don't know DJ Martijn or any of the people involved here, but it seems to me like this thing could be solved privately without the need to make a public display and run the significant risk of starting another argument.

Another example is the thread that Paul Wilson started regarding Palivar. I can understand why Paul would be so pissed off about Palivar (again, even though I don't have any issues with the guy) but starting a thread about it seemed fairly unnecessary seeing as there were better alternatives available (like contacting the mods or Swamper to deal with it in a more efficient manner) and the fact that there was a similar thread open about the same issue anyway. Having said that, those who entered into the discussion on the thread and either had a go at Paul or Palivar were just as bad, if not worse. If you have a problem with Paul, it's much easier and far more effective to contact him in private and discuss it civilly, rather than just launching into personal attacks.

I guess the point of this post is simply to advise you all on how to show some restraint when dealing with people who you may disagree with. The issue you have with them is either worth bringing up privately or not: if it's worth bringing up in private then do it if it makes you feel better, but if you don't feel that it's worth bringing up privately, then it can't be an overly serious issue and so is not worth airing publicly in any threads, and running the risk of starting a flame war. These little (and very unnecessary arguments) are threatening to tear this place apart. You wouldn't start an argument with a stranger on the street about many of the issues being argued about here, so why would get into an argument with other members of this forum?

Don't get me wrong, I'm not saying that we should just nod and agree with everything that everyone says because that would make this forum a very boring place. We need differing view points and civil debate is a very healthy thing, but some of you clearly need to learn the difference between a quiet debate and an all out flame war. If you continue to flame and attack other people whimsically like this, this forum could go to shit very quickly. If you have a problem with anyone, don't retaliate or flame them, either sort it out with them privately or, failing that, get in contact with one of the mods or Swamper to resolve the issue for you. I can't see why that would be too much to ask.

So you can take this post in one of two ways: either I'm a newbie riding on a high-moral horse who doesn't know what he's talking about and is just posting this message to stir, or I'm an individual with genuine concern with the direction that this forum could be potentially heading in. Take it either way you want, I'm not concerned, just so long as you at least appreciate what I have to say.

This is a great forum guys, with some genuinely fantastic people, just don't let it fall apart because of some petty disagreements. We're all here because we share a deep love for music, just keep that in mind next time you want to flame someone. Let's just get along and be friendly - that way everone wins.

Peace.

Re: do u all have a problem with me??i dont feel welcome:(

No fuckin worries Martijn. I got absolutely nothing against you and I don't think any1 should have as long as they are honest peaceful to death TA's
Respekt man.

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