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hi folks,

just back from a nite out and as i waslked about seein all these guys with these gals, i observed the way they acted and noticed how it seemed so fake and put on..

i'm not the kind of guy to go out and start chattin up lots of ladies every nite out, but if i do meet a gal who i think's nice i'll make the effort to chat to her, see how things go and take it from there..

point of thread:

maybe these guys aren't puttin it on, or maybe rhey are just spastics and the women like it.. i dunno. i just dont understand how girls can be so interested in something which to me, appears to be completly fake.

but on the other hand maybe i'm just jealous and bitter at the fact that i didn't get sex tonight

Dave

so all you wanted was sex?

and you're talking about not being fake?


good logic there, davey-o.

everybody is different for the most part(except for the poseurs who all try to be alike) so you have to learn to accept peoples differences. so maybe you think they are fake and all but is it working for them? if it is, be happy for them, and maybe they wont hate you when you act the way you see fit.

Summary: do what works for you and dont worry about anybody else.

thanks for the feedback folks!!

whiskers: no, i'm not only after sex, a good relationship is much better

but when ur out and drunk, u always want sex.

not often u get it, but that's where a good wank comes into play!!

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Originally posted by UglyDave but when ur out and drunk, u always want sex.

so maybe that's the reason those guys were so fake?

and it's why the girls put up with it?


because they both were after the unspoken.

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Originally posted by whiskers so maybe that's the reason those guys were so fake? and it's why the girls put up with it? because they both were after the unspoken.

bleh! u win, i couldn't be arsed..

whiskers ur wise beyond ur years...and i aint trying to be sarcastic. dave plain and simple uve been owned game over!

i win the prize?

Re: women

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Originally posted by UglyDave hi folks, just back from a nite out and as i waslked about seein all these guys with these gals, i observed the way they acted and noticed how it seemed so fake and put on.. i'm not the kind of guy to go out and start chattin up lots of ladies every nite out, but if i do meet a gal who i think's nice i'll make the effort to chat to her, see how things go and take it from there.. point of thread: maybe these guys aren't puttin it on, or maybe rhey are just spastics and the women like it.. i dunno. i just dont understand how girls can be so interested in something which to me, appears to be completly fake. but on the other hand maybe i'm just jealous and bitter at the fact that i didn't get sex tonight Dave

birds are sneaky bitches when there on the dancefloor and fancy u.
they always come in pairs, and they fucking knock into u on purpose to make u notice them, and other shite which i cant be arsed to write

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Originally posted by whiskers i win the prize?

close ur eyes and ill give u ur prize

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Originally posted by mentalbarter birds are sneaky bitches when there on the dancefloor and fancy u. they always come in pairs, and they fucking knock into u on purpose to make u notice them, and other shite which i cant be arsed to write

wow next thing i supose ull try to get me to believe is they wear perfume and makeup to appear more attractive then they really are.

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Originally posted by igottaknow close ur eyes and ill give u ur prize

I'll answer your question with a question of my own. How come guys get attracted to dumb blondes with big boobs? If you answer that question, you have an answer to your own question.

I always thought that being yourself, not ake plus being self-confident are attractive to other sex.

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but on the other hand maybe i'm just jealous and bitter at the fact that i didn't get sex tonight

you need to improve your mack skillzzzz.

I always thought that being yourself, not ake plus being self-confident are attractive to other sex.

its more about wit, humor, and yo don't smell desperate.





at the clubs, all i love to do is rip it up on the floor. that always get the girls attention. I've seen those "wow" drooling stares.. BIG Green light is on. unfortunately, i can be snobby sometimes because i'm too zoned in with the musik to care. then there are the times, no green light, I'll go >deep<, and the outcome is not what is expected. *buzz get turned down.

Doh!

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Originally posted by MysticStardust I'll answer your question with a question of my own. How come guys get attracted to dumb blondes with big boobs? If you answer that question, you have an answer to your own question.

Simply not true. I and many others much prefer a cute face and a decent figure (not "anorexic" figure, but "goes to the gym after splurging on the ice cream" figure) instead of big boobs - not that I mean to imply that they are mutually exclusive, although it's rare to find someone who's got it all. And in my circle of friends at least, the dumb ones usually get labelled with the comment "Everything was going great... until she opened her mouth"

Point is, though, that the stupid ones are easy. The smart ones have a habit of making too big a deal of the fact that they're getting "picked up", and it's intimidating to everyone but the very experienced and the complete assholes. Not every guy is looking for a set of melons, but don't forget that contrary to the gals, most of us aren't looking for a major challenge either. It's not required to be a vapid slut, but it helps to get over your 12-year-old-girlie impulse to play "hard to get".

That might shed some light on your bitter question.

Dave: of course the guys are put on, but then again so are the girls. Just look at Britney. I had a hard time buying it when she was a "virgin", but now that she's supposed to be a "slut" I'm not sure I believe it either. All of it is so damn phoney and calculated, and yet millions of guys across the globe just eat it up and ask for more.

Well I think alot of guys try to go out there and PIMP as they call it. Same with girls. In reality are you goign to meet a good girl or a good guy when you go to a club or sumthing? Can you trust them? I say spit game get in there pants and get it over with.

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Originally posted by MysticStardust I'll answer your question with a question of my own. How come guys get attracted to dumb blondes with big boobs? If you answer that question, you have an answer to your own question.

Diginut's answer covers some good ground.

My answer:

It only looks that way because the guys with better taste (there's plenty of them) often keep to themselves because they're shy and/or cynical or, sorry, taken. As for that answering the ORIGINAL question, I wonder.

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Originally posted by DigiNut [COLOR=#99CCEE]Simply not true. I and many others much prefer a cute face and a decent figure (not "anorexic" figure, but "goes to the gym after splurging on the ice cream" figure) instead of big boobs - not that I mean to imply that they are mutually exclusive, although it's rare to find someone who's got it all. And in my circle of friends at least, the dumb ones usually get labelled with the comment "Everything was going great... until she opened her mouth" Point is, though, that the stupid ones are easy. The smart ones have a habit of making too big a deal of the fact that they're getting "picked up", and it's intimidating to everyone but the very experienced and the complete assholes. Not every guy is looking for a set of melons, but don't forget that contrary to the gals, most of us aren't looking for a major challenge either. It's not required to be a vapid slut, but it helps to get over your 12-year-old-girlie impulse to play "hard to get". That might shed some light on your bitter question. COLOR]

From who's perspective are you speaking from? Male or female?

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Originally posted by MysticStardust From who's perspective are you speaking from? Male or female?

Male of course.

Stupidity is only attractive to stupid people (which I suppose is most people... oops sorry forgot to mention that ).

Well anyways, what I was trying to show was that guys are attracted to dumb blondes for dumb reasons, the same goes for girls who are attracted to "fake" guys. Usually for me it is a big turn off so I can't really see from the perspective of those girls. However, I think they like those guys because they usually know how to have fun and how to make a girl laugh so obviosly we'll choose them. But thats only in the case of looking for a fun night, in most cases girls very much dislike guys who think they're all that.

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Originally posted by MysticStardust Well anyways, what I was trying to show was that guys are attracted to dumb blondes for dumb reasons, the same goes for girls who are attracted to "fake" guys. Usually for me it is a big turn off so I can't really see from the perspective of those girls. However, I think they like those guys because they usually know how to have fun and how to make a girl laugh so obviosly we'll choose them. But thats only in the case of looking for a fun night, in most cases girls very much dislike guys who think they're all that.

Oh don't be so black and white, there are more than two kinds of people. Besides, faking confidence is harder than you might think.

People choose the fun ones for long-term relationships too... they may not be good choices but they sure are chosen a lot.

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Originally posted by DigiNut Oh don't be so black and white, there are more than two kinds of people. Besides, faking confidence is harder than you might think. People choose the fun ones for long-term relationships too... they may not be good choices but they sure are chosen a lot.

I resent the black and white comment . I just say the way things are. It's hard to believe that "fun" guys get chosen for long term relationships because as far as I know, all of them are irresponsible and immature( and I thought long term relationships were based on responsibility, maturity and respect). However, that is just my opinion and I think you'd know better (since you're a guy and I bet you belong to "fun" guy club as well...am I right?).

Getting back to what you have said earlier and I quote : "The smart ones have a habit of making too big a deal of the fact that they're getting "picked up", and it's intimidating to everyone but the very experienced and the complete assholes." Does that mean all guys are only interested in easy fucks?

P.S My question was not bitter. I simply tried to show that guys and girls are the same. Sometimes, we are attracted to opposite sex for very stupid reasons, e.g. "fakeness"( or over-confidence) in males and big boobs/blonde hair/ no brain in females.





Go figure...Humans are very complicated beings.

It's for these reasons of "fakeness" and girls playing hard to get that I pretty much gave up on trying to meet girls in clubs. Guys trying to pimp out and be players are fuckheads IMO. When I go out I'm there to hear good music, see people I know and get wrecked. Period. There are just too many annoying, phony, bitchy girls out there for me to bother trying to chat with them. If a girl is interested in me, then it is ENTIRELY up to her to make the first move. If a girl comes up and dances/chats with me then that's fine, I'm always very nice...I don't put up with girls making stupid innuendos like bumping into me out of the clear blue to get my attention or whatever. Either they come up to me and make it clear that they're interested, or I leave them alone and have a good time.

Guys are getting way too lazy nowdays.

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Originally posted by MysticStardust Guys are getting way too lazy nowdays.

What do you know...another Vancouver TA...and you're a girl

How come I've never seen you in the Western Canada forum?

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