A good friend whom I grew up with Od'ed this past sunday.

TranceAddict Forums (www.tranceaddict.com/forums)
- USA - New York
-- A good friend whom I grew up with Od'ed this past sunday.

Posted by fr0st on Mar-09-2004 02:40:

A good friend whom I grew up with Od'ed this past sunday.

He was actually my olders brothers best friend. And really just another brother to me. He OD'ed sometime sunday morning on sleeping pills, anti depressants, and alchohol.. Man this really sucks he had such a tuff life. Him and his sister were both adopted. His sister shot her self in the head with his gun(whitch she broke into is suitcase to get)right in front of him. And i believe he always blamed him self for that. It is such a horrible thing when all you hopee for someone is that their life will get better and someday they will be happy. All he ever wanted out of life was a ranch somewhere in the north west where he could have a family and some animals. I have never had anyone die like this that was close to me this is very hard.

R.I.P. Tom

PS: we dont believe he ODed on purpose but he was very drunk and took to many pills. He had prescribed the pills 2 months prior for nightmares of his sister. And he was drinking heavely hoping to passout so he wouldnt dream.

Posted by Stassi on Mar-09-2004 02:55:

Thats horrible, I lost a friend in the past year and its real hard to come to terms with the situation.
my condolences (sp?) man.

Posted by Wheel of Steel on Mar-09-2004 03:01:

That sucks man. my condolences. Life can really suck sometimes, the grieving process is hard. Really makes you think.

Posted by Miss Bliss on Mar-09-2004 03:04:

I don't know you, but just wanted to add my sympathies... so you know you're not alone.

Posted by AddictedTo1982 on Mar-09-2004 03:06:

Yeah seems like life harder nowadays and too many people killing there selfs

Posted by Miss Bliss on Mar-09-2004 04:47:

there was a 4th death at NYU this weekend. what's happening?

Posted by Porky on Mar-09-2004 05:17:

mmm....

hey frost, my condolences

be strong and take time to yourself. the death of a close one always affects those close to him/her. time is the only healer so make sure you're surrounded by your close friends/family ok buddy?

regards
chris

Posted by steven neil on Mar-09-2004 05:20:

fuck man,,this is shit,, but my wife died four years ago,,and ive got a five year old baby daughter sasha that just wants to know why she aint got a mum and all the other kids have...

Posted by fr0st on Mar-09-2004 05:29:

Im not posting this seeking sympathy. I'm warning you guys keep and eye out for your friends... This shouldnt happen.

Posted by steven neil on Mar-09-2004 05:37:

f'real man...there were so many things i never said to my wife that i should have....

Posted by trancintaiwan on Mar-09-2004 05:46:

quote:
Originally posted by Miss Bliss
there was a 4th death at NYU this weekend. what's happening?

werd.. i just got some letter from nyu about that suicide. life sucks sometimes.

Posted by steven neil on Mar-09-2004 05:50:

quote:
Originally posted by trancinchink
werd.. i just got some letter from nyu about that suicide. life sucks sometimes.

fuck man..that is shit...wtf is going on there...

Posted by trancEyes22 on Mar-09-2004 05:51:

i am so sorry john...my thoughts and prayers go out to you and his family

Posted by Miss Bliss on Mar-09-2004 06:22:

quote:
Originally posted by trancinchink
werd.. i just got some letter from nyu about that suicide. life sucks sometimes.

the subject line of the e-mail was a little harsh. you start thinking if you've made sure all your friends are accounted for since the weekend.

Posted by BeeEee on Mar-09-2004 06:34:

I hope that these kind of dramatic situations make us all somehow try to change a bit our day-to-day behavior, avoiding pointless fights n harm to anothers (what should also make us fell better)

life is too short for us all, n can be trully unfair. lets watch out for each other while they're still here ... n b4 we go ...!

is not just a matter of felling pitty for those who died, but remembering them n learn from their acts. N most important of all (as we can't change the past) lets make the days of those y care ... waiting nothing in return.

I don't reggret anything i've done ... just what i haven't

life is fucked up ... n shit happens mate

Posted by neon on Mar-09-2004 06:39:

sorry to hear man. my condolences and support for your friend and his family.

r.i.p.

Posted by trunks1022 on Mar-09-2004 07:13:

make sure u keep in touch with all your loved ones y'all... my condolences to you, your friend's family.

Posted by vtec junkie on Mar-15-2004 01:06:

Thats really sad bro. I went threw the same thing a few months ago. My good friend Josh shot himself in the chest with a rifle after the cops chased him for miles in the woods. Suicide is something in life thats so hard to deal with. Anyways i pray for his friends and family and if you ever need to talk...you know how to find me.
Peace and love,
Brian

Posted by fr0st on Mar-15-2004 01:29:

Thanks guys all thought i wasn't able to attend his service due to me being in NY and having to take care of my dog. The rest of my family went and they said over 300 people were in attendance. He hes being buried in Nebraska where he was born. The the death was deemed unintentional.. Was a mixture of the pills with the alchohol. But it could have been prevented had someone who was with him kept and I on him or check his pills. Everyone knows all the problems hes had and his depression I know myself and my brother always looked out for him. To me he was a brother and I will always miss him. Again guys thanks for the support.. Please again keep an eye out for your friends that you know have problems this CAN be prevented.

Posted by Chefy912 on Mar-15-2004 01:41:

IM really sorry to hear this, I too know what it is like to have a friend die, Its really a tough time in life, but just remmeber that time heals everything, and all you need is time.

Posted by hitokiri on Mar-15-2004 02:01:

damn bro im sorry to hear that... you have my condolances losing someone close to you is hard especially like that it makes you stop an think bout the little things things that go on in your everyday life... so long as he is remembered an you are able to learn from this tragic accident then the same thing won t happen to others that you hold dear to you

bro just remember its not your fault that this happened to him no matter what you might think its not your fault

Posted by nchs09 on Mar-15-2004 02:03:

sorry to hear this man, hope u fell better