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Long Distance Relationships
What is your stance on these. Can they work or are they doomed to failure. Anyone involded in one that is working or have you been stung by one that went wrong? Do you have an 'Internet Girlfriend' ? 
If so, how's it working out for ya?
Edit : I am seeing someone long distance so...um....yea!
Long Distance relationships are not natural IMO ... if it is a temporary thing then that is fine but if its gonna be a long-term long distance relationship I'd get the hell outta there fast.
On intarweb relationships.... Echo of Silence, Whiskers, Emil, Boomer187, fuct4less, PhloTron, Photo_bot_2k1, and Mebot and I are all going to get married in Vegas! 
And we're going to live in booom boooom booooomers house!
Long distance can work if eventually you're planning on getting closer.
it works if you should each other "frequently" but if it's only every 6 months or some crap like the person lives onthe other side of the world it can be sketchy.
oh and above all continuous contact can overcome all.
I guess I believe in long distance relationships but I believe they can also be deceiving.
My grandparents were writing to each other for a couple years and before they even met my grandfather proposed to grandma in a letter ..How cute 
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| Originally posted by anuneventrade Long distance can work if eventually you're planning on getting closer. |
im in a long distance relationship kinda thing...well we're just exclusive to each other...
its kinda working but its a shame i dont get to fuck her as so often.
i had a long term relationship with my g/f for about half a year. it was quite hard being apart but we got used to it, then i lived with her for 3m onths over summer and then i went to uni and long distance again. it is harder this time round but we are gonna live together soon so it will be great 
however having a long distance relationship would be hard if say for many years i reckon.
you should really be planning when you coudl make it not long distance.
i think they work but ONLY if both partners are VERY dedicated and devoted to the relationship. communication and honesty are like 10x even more important when you're long distance with someone.
and yeah, the whole relocating thing needs to occur.
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| Originally posted by jdat it works if you should each other "frequently" but if it's only every 6 months or some crap like the person lives onthe other side of the world it can be sketchy. oh and above all continuous contact can overcome all. I guess I believe in long distance relationships but I believe they can also be deceiving. My grandparents were writing to each other for a couple years and before they even met my grandfather proposed to grandma in a letter ..How cute |
long distance relationships don't really work ...i've been involved in several and my last bf was in US ....we were seeing each other when we could but we were free to be with someone else if we wanted ...i didn't go with someone else because i really loved this guy but i finally broke up because it couldn't go on this way forever ....too complicated and too much probs too should i move ?will he move?blah blah so unless u are ready to move out ...i don't really believe in them anymore
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| Originally posted by Emil See, sending teh letter does work!! |
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| Originally posted by Emil See, sending teh letter does work!! |
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| Originally posted by jdat Yeah that's always the cold reality that most people fail to think of from the start; one of the two will have to relocate. Will it be you?/???? |
they usually dont work unless it is very short term. like you are moving to the same place in a couple of months or something.
but it's totally not worth it otherwise. there are tons of ppl out there who live in your area. there is no point in putting yourself through the pain and expense (phone and travel expenses) of having a long distance relationship.
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| Originally posted by anuneventrade Actually, I've been on and off in a long distance relationship for five years. I was supposed to move to Colorado to live with him in May, but plans have changed and I'm moving to Poland in June. If all goes well, he'll be following me within the next year. |
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| Originally posted by h0tsweetbabyd0l long distance relationships don't really work ...i've been involved in several and my last bf was in US ....we were seeing each other when we could but we were free to be with someone else if we wanted ...i didn't go with someone else because i really loved this guy but i finally broke up because it couldn't go on this way forever ....too complicated and too much probs too should i move ?will he move?blah blah so unless u are ready to move out ...i don't really believe in them anymore |
) qui vas se marries a une fille de Paris cet ete; les deux se connaisaient depuis 4+ ans et se parlais tout le temps au tel ou par email et se voyait tous les mois et quelques. Les relations longues distances ca peux marches mais ca demandes du temps :/
i think about this a lot because my girlfriend is going to Africa to be in the peace corps for two years. i'm not really worried about her cheating or anything since it's africa and you can't have sex there cause of all the aids and stuff, but i'm worried that we might change as people especially her being in Africa and seeing all that stuff. oh and we've been together for about two 2.5 years now...what should i do??
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| Originally posted by Floorfiller i think about this a lot because my girlfriend is going to Africa to be in the peace corps for two years. i'm not really worried about her cheating or anything since it's africa and you can't have sex there cause of all the aids and stuff, but i'm worried that we might change as people especially her being in Africa and seeing all that stuff. oh and we've been together for about two 2.5 years now...what should i do?? |
( I'm trying my best to sound encouraging )
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| Originally posted by jdat If I were you I wouldn't worry about the "locals" but moreabout the people from the peace corps ( I'm trying my best to sound encouraging )I'm kidding foo As long as you both keep constant contact ... it should be all good; And above all you must decide how dedicated you want to be because before you know it a year or two will have passed and you'll be asking yourself was it worth it, for that person?! |
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| Originally posted by Floorfiller i think about this a lot because my girlfriend is going to Africa to be in the peace corps for two years. i'm not really worried about her cheating or anything since it's africa and you can't have sex there cause of all the aids and stuff, but i'm worried that we might change as people especially her being in Africa and seeing all that stuff. oh and we've been together for about two 2.5 years now...what should i do?? |
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| Originally posted by anuneventrade *edit* Besides, I'm 4'5", 260 lbs, and have acne. Sure you want me to move in?[/font] |
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| Originally posted by smallSHEEP Could use you like some kind of foot stool. Except of course you'd talk a lot and shit everywhere. |
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| Originally posted by anuneventrade You have a girlfriend and you want me to move in with you?! Bastard! You broke my heart! *edit* Besides, I'm 4'5", 260 lbs, and have acne. Sure you want me to move in? |
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| Originally posted by nchs09 dont get me wrong.. id hit it |
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| Originally posted by whiskers HI! desperate? /stalking |
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