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Posted by LinX on Mar-19-2004 03:52:

Ever go by yourself?

yeah well i wanted to go to fleming this weekend but my friends all bailed i was thinkin it might be strange to go by myself and just dance around lol but i know people who have done that before have any of you?


Posted by trancEyes22 on Mar-19-2004 03:54:

you could always plan a ta meetup, then roll with those people?


Posted by Vlad on Mar-19-2004 03:55:

Re: Ever go by yourself?

quote:
Originally posted by LinX
yeah well i wanted to go to fleming this weekend but my friends all bailed i was thinkin it might be strange to go by myself and just dance around lol but i know people who have done that before have any of you?


I do it all the time, I just meet up with the peoples at the club.


Posted by LinX on Mar-19-2004 03:59:

yeah i would deff do that, sounds cool lol i dont know what any of u look like but im sure we could figure that out, but im not sure if im going or not but ill deff keep that in mind


Posted by Miss Bliss on Mar-19-2004 04:08:

Actually, the times I've gone to clubs by myself, completely alone, have been some of my best times. Easier to meet new people, and can have some pretty good thinking time by myself in a room with great music...


Posted by Taub on Mar-19-2004 04:15:

quote:
Originally posted by Miss Bliss
Actually, the times I've gone to clubs by myself, completely alone, have been some of my best times. Easier to meet new people, and can have some pretty good thinking time by myself in a room with great music...


thinking time?


Posted by LinX on Mar-19-2004 04:16:

yeah thats a good point, plus sometimes your friends can get annoying after a while.. now that i think of it i usually get separted from my group for a lil bit anyway, and i dont mind. hahaha


Posted by pyro264jb on Mar-19-2004 04:17:

quote:
Originally posted by Taub
thinking time?


You coming out this weekend ?


Posted by Miss Bliss on Mar-19-2004 04:24:

quote:
Originally posted by Taub
thinking time?


Hell yea thinking time. C'mon, when *that* tune comes on... you feel it. Especially if my 2000 girlfriends are not all around me dancing like fools.
That and raping time cause you're a girl, alone.


Posted by Miss Bliss on Mar-19-2004 04:25:

quote:
Originally posted by LinX
yeah thats a good point, plus sometimes your friends can get annoying after a while.. now that i think of it i usually get separted from my group for a lil bit anyway, and i dont mind. hahaha


Fosho'
Gotta scope out the others


Posted by BxNemo on Mar-19-2004 04:35:

My friends are nowhere near as hooked to the club scene as i am, i've had to go to over 5 shows without em so... i say go for it. Don't let them hold you back from your fun.


Posted by vtec junkie on Mar-19-2004 04:39:

I always drive to DC by myself and NYC a few times. But its not that big of a deal when you meet up with friends and ta's.


Posted by LinX on Mar-19-2004 04:42:

haha yeah my friends arent nearly as hooked as i am either, i would love to go out like every weekend but i just started going out and i love it.. its a lot of fun and its a chance to let got and just forget about shit like school and work ahhh hate that stuff, haha


Posted by Highmay on Mar-19-2004 04:42:

Man, that's one of the many beauties of messageboards: meeting people as hardcore as you are!! Yeah, you're going to have the drama, the people who disagree with you, the straight up assholes, and the wannabe board pimps. But boards also give you the chance to meet new friends with the same central love that you have. Your friends are merely missing out on what you already know. Two of my favorite club nights ever were by myself (S&D in Philly 2002, Tenagalia at vinyl 10/2001), and back in the glory days of clubplanet in 2000, I went to one of the first meetups by myself and I've kept in touch with about 90% of the people I met that night.

So in conclusion: Yes, go by yourself.


Posted by LinX on Mar-19-2004 04:51:

yeah thats deff cool its just that sometimes i get really paranoid like if im by myself i feel like im gonna get mugged or some shit like that because sometimes i see some really shady people at the clubs that look like if u give them the wrong look there gonna kick your ass for no reason.. but that wont stop me


Posted by avikonen on Mar-19-2004 07:57:

I go by myself quite often. Most of my friends here aren't clubbers or aren't as into the scene. Toronto, it seems, everybody loves EDM. I'm looking forward to partying here though and meeting people who love to go out as much as I do. Hope to meet more of you


Posted by LinX on Mar-19-2004 08:30:

deff


Posted by BxNemo on Mar-19-2004 08:36:

... NYC has it's bad apples but... i've never seen that look on anyones face at a club. Only muscle bound assholes that think they're the shit... Don't fear em man, just go on about havin fun and if you bump into em keep on dancing. Chances are thye bumped into you... I'm a nice guy to usually everyone i meet. Met this guy named billy a while ago at the free tiesto spin at the virgin mega and bought him a water then later on saw him again and his brother and i bout them a beer, even bought a beer for some random person then i saw them at arc for j00f a while back and got them some waters. Keep in mind how expensive waters are at clubs. Also PvD @ 2/27/04, i got an extra bottle of water for... any ta that wanted it and the one who ended up snagging it was jay . But... regardless of my height if some shit pops off in the muvafucka i flare up like a little tazmanian devil and start throwin dem bows meng.
LinX, don't worry man meet up with some TA's they're all cool peeps. I haven't spoken to many only... Jay, Chris, Albert and... John... But i have met a couple and for the duration of our conversation... generally it lasts about 3.6 seconds they've been nice. Indy, Highmay, Bri, and that's about it... anyways i hope to be seeing you at partys man


Posted by pipe0007 on Mar-19-2004 08:52:

quote:
Originally posted by BxNemo
My friends are nowhere near as hooked to the club scene as i am, i've had to go to over 5 shows without em so... i say go for it. Don't let them hold you back from your fun.


agree 100% with you 80% i go alone...going solo to flemming and most likely to G&D AND HOWELLS TOO... never have taken any pills or anything like that...I just go for the muzik.


Posted by BxNemo on Mar-19-2004 09:46:

quote:
Originally posted by pipe0007
agree 100% with you 80% i go alone...going solo to flemming and most likely to G&D AND HOWELLS TOO... never have taken any pills or anything like that...I just go for the muzik.

Ahhhhh, a fellow music lover. It sucks because i love my friends to death and i just wish that they could comprehend why i love the music sooooo much. I wish they could feel the same way i feel when someone drops a great track that just makes me believe i'm somewhere nice.... (IE : Super 8 - Alba. Gave this one because i'm currently listening to it and i believe it's a great track.)
Fact is that they can't and i can't force em... Just wish that i kinda had a close friend to love it as much as i do that way when some big show was coming up they'd stop by at my place and we'd enjoy the train/bus/cab ride just thinking of how insane we're going to be once we get inside. I've had to tell my friends several times to buy their tickets ahead of time and they never listened to me and the most recent situation for PvD they had to wait for me for 6+ hours because the roxy was officially booked it it's limit... I felt bad but i told them ahead of time that it was probably gonna be sold out and it was my b-day so i wanted to have a great time... and that i did thanks to some friends i encountered once i got into pvd. Jay, Chris, Alber, ...... Indy.....
Also, dunno if it's just me or do you find yourelf leaving earlier whenever you do go with your friends. Last time PvD came in November i got into the club and left 2 and a half hours later .
So hey, if there's any peeps out there looking for someone that's gonna club as much as they do and go to as many events as they will and lives in the bronx... stop by my place before a show we'll have some beers and then just jump up on the cab and out we go !


Posted by DanAX on Mar-19-2004 14:16:

quote:
Originally posted by LinX
yeah i would deff do that, sounds cool lol i dont know what any of u look like but im sure we could figure that out, but im not sure if im going or not but ill deff keep that in mind


I would be in if my damn gf didn't force me to go on a stupid "pocono trip" wit her....


Posted by DanAX on Mar-19-2004 14:49:

quote:
Originally posted by BxNemo
(IE : Super 8 - Alba. Gave this one because i'm currently listening to it and i believe it's a great track.)
Also, dunno if it's just me or do you find yourelf leaving earlier whenever you do go with your friends. Last time PvD came in November i got into the club and left 2 and a half hours later .


Probs for loving Super 8 - Alba. got that record loving it, play it couple times in my gigs...


Point 2 hit the pot, like last S&D at Crobar, I had to leave around 5:30 cuz my friends said they were so tired and I was just all hype up with all the good tracks Sasha thrown...


Posted by Highmay on Mar-19-2004 16:21:

quote:
Originally posted by BxNemo
But i have met a couple and for the duration of our conversation... generally it lasts about 3.6 seconds they've been nice. Indy, Highmay, Bri, and that's about it... anyways i hope to be seeing you at partys man



Well I assure you that I'm a little more interesting than a 3 second convos, my friend ...It just takes longer to get to know some than others..some people aren't as open because of various reasons. The key....the key....::dramatic pause, looks out towards horizen::...are meetups outside the club...

whatever...it's human nature...now if you don't mind, i need to buy one of those huge knives that Stallone touts around in Rambo and go to my teachers' office hours...


Posted by jdat on Mar-19-2004 16:30:

I go out solo all the time and generally bump into people in the clubs.

No issues going solo! It's tons of fun.


Posted by BitchBoyNYC on Mar-19-2004 16:34:

quote:
Originally posted by Highmay
Man, that's one of the many beauties of messageboards: meeting people as hardcore as you are!! Yeah, you're going to have the drama, the people who disagree with you, the straight up assholes, and the wannabe board pimps. But boards also give you the chance to meet new friends with the same central love that you have. Your friends are merely missing out on what you already know. Two of my favorite club nights ever were by myself (S&D in Philly 2002, Tenagalia at vinyl 10/2001), and back in the glory days of clubplanet in 2000, I went to one of the first meetups by myself and I've kept in touch with about 90% of the people I met that night.

So in conclusion: Yes, go by yourself.


Very well Put. But I'm usually in the same boat. My friends and I make plans and then something pops up sometimes or someone just doesn't feel like going anymore and I wind up not doing anything. I'm def down with going to a club and meeting up with people, but as mentioned before, if you don't know what people look like, how do expect to meet up with them. Also, my own personal feelings, I'm actually a shy person and when I see someone I think I know , I won't approach them because I'm not sure and don't want to bother anyone. But I'm always looking to meet new people and hang out and have a good time.


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