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Posted by Jackson on Apr-10-2004 22:06:

Question Interracial relationships.

Hey all.
I've been with my girlfriend for over a year now. I'm white and english, her parents are chinese but she was born in the local hospital. Everythings going really well.
Just wondering if anyone else here is involved in a mixed race relationship and hows it going? or if they have any views on the subject. Pics would be cool too!

Jackson


Posted by ShadoWolf on Apr-10-2004 22:10:

Re: Interracial relationships.

quote:
Originally posted by Jackson
Pics would be cool too!


You preempted the obligatory "pics or stfu."

Touche.


Posted by Lira on Apr-10-2004 22:28:

I'm European blooded (with African and Native American influences) and my girlfriend is Japanese blooded and we've been dating for 3 and a half months.

Sincerely, I don't think ethnic background really matters when both people grew up in the same place. Even if the people involved from different cities/provinces/countries, cultural shock is not something hard to deal with as long as you're willing to understand/accept the differences that may appear during the relationship. In fact, I think that ethnicity is over-rated, as we're just individuals with the same essence

edit: You said you wanted to know how the relationship is going? Well, so far so good


Posted by rainbow_marble on Apr-11-2004 00:10:

Ew.


Posted by Vivid Boy on Apr-11-2004 00:20:

ghetto ebony ass clapping...thats what its all about


Posted by Ocean-Glow on Apr-11-2004 03:22:

I dont see any problems with racial differences, therefore anyone can/should be bale to date any person they wish without racial difference.

I myself am white but always wanted to have a gf from every part of the world hehe (Maturity puts you to limits)

But i wouldnt mind having a Spanish or a dark skinned gf so yeh all good


Posted by enferno on Apr-11-2004 03:45:

i'm irish and my girlfriend's scottish.

that conisdered interracial?

probably more interenthnicial (sp)

err . .


Posted by torontotrance on Apr-11-2004 03:52:

If it is love and you have no problems...then go for it

I mean I'm almost 23 and single and most people would assume that I might marry a white anglo saxon female but I look at it as I could marry a female from any ethnic background and as look as I'm in love and happy...I figure why...now religious differences is another thread.


Posted by 6_Duffman_9 on Apr-11-2004 03:53:

Here's Duffman with some of his lady friends. You'll notice the one on the left is definitely a different race than he is.



Threesome, OH YEAHHHHH!!!

Edit: the one on the right. OH yeah!!!!


Posted by Krypton on Apr-11-2004 04:08:

quote:
Originally posted by 6_Duffman_9
Here's Duffman with some of his lady friends. You'll notice the one on the left is definitely a different race than he is.



Threesome, OH YEAHHHHH!!!


gayy


Posted by pyro on Apr-11-2004 07:04:

white, black, blue, 12yrs old, 16yrs old, 40yrs old or married, if theres love who gives a fuck! doesn't matter!


Posted by Jackson on Apr-11-2004 08:30:

LIRA: Have you had any problems with traditional parents yet?
My girlfriends mum was easy to convince...but her dad!...Alot harder, hes back from Hong Kong tonight, havn't seen him since october.


Posted by Yan on Apr-11-2004 08:34:

Let's see... I'm a Russian Jew. I've gone out with Russian girls, Irish girls, Asian girls, Polish girls, and a half Spanish, half Italian girl.


Posted by elena on Apr-11-2004 08:38:

right, so im korean but been living in panama ever since i was bout 5 months old. been living the latin lifestyle sort of speak never been with another asian. i dont think race really matters at all it actually makes it more interesting cause you guys can talk about the differences and similaritires, introduce each other's cultures, etc. good to learn new things right?
currently with a turkish fella, best so far, excellent i have to say


Posted by Nabistai on Apr-11-2004 09:13:

quote:
Originally posted by pyro
white, black, blue, if theres love who gives a fuck! doesn't matter!


agree

quote:
Originally posted by pyro
12yrs old, 16yrs old, 40yrs old, if theres love who gives a fuck! doesn't matter!


Defenitely not agree (as in 12yrs with 40yrs, 40yrs with 40yrs do whatever they want)


Posted by arctic on Apr-11-2004 09:39:

quote:
Originally posted by rainbow_marble
Ew.



Posted by nchs09 on Apr-11-2004 09:44:

im latin, and iv dated girls from here in the u.s. same thing, girls are girls everywhere and so are guys......


Posted by Lira on Apr-11-2004 14:06:

quote:
Originally posted by Jackson
LIRA: Have you had any problems with traditional parents yet?

No problems here

Her mother was actually very excited to meet me (her father died when she was 15 so I never met him ) and she was even happier when I started to speak Japanese with her (she doesn't speak Portuguese very well).

If her father is a bit hard to convice, show her you're interested in the culture as well (if you really are, that is )... may be helpful


Posted by torontotrance on Apr-11-2004 15:01:

See my parents don't care about ethnicity but religion would create problems (don't ask why...christian parents are difficult). See I don't think ethnicity is a problem with most parents (because most families you think about your parents and their thoughts). Like if I get married, I plan to ask the girl's father for permission but my parents would know ahead of time. I'm not really looking to make my parents happy and they just want me to be happy and with the divorce rate so sky high, they want you to marry the one. As for dating a say japenese girl, if I had enough in common.....I'd consider it. I think it is only difficult for very racist parents, very racist cities, some in the US cannot stand interacial marriages. It really opens up a whole bag of worms, I mean so many different things enter in. I figure as long as you are happy then go for it!


Posted by Jackson on Apr-11-2004 20:36:

Already on it Lira, i'm learning Cantonese slowly but surely. The dad said he was going to teach me how to cook Peking Crispy Duck together.
I tried really hard with the whole family to impress them. My mates had a problem with it at firsdt but i said to them "Hey im happy, and your not!"....at the end of the day thats what lifes all about...being happy.


Posted by DeviantxPete on Apr-11-2004 21:07:

As long as you date them for love, and not some dumbass stereotype, then go for it I say.


Posted by 3xx3r7 on Apr-11-2004 23:05:

quote:
Originally posted by torontotrance
now religious differences is another thread.


That is the reason why I broke up with my gf.


Posted by DannyO on Apr-11-2004 23:44:

I don't really care about different races, I'll date any of them, aslong as I'm intrested in the chick, and shes hot and got a good personality, me parents are cool with it, they just want me to be happy, they don't care about race or religion.


Posted by Zombie0915 on Apr-12-2004 00:10:

I went out with a girl that was half black/white and I'm all white. It wasn't really a big deal we got along really well. She wanted us to be closer but before that happened I let her go because I was in love with some1 else. I kinda feel bad about it cuz I made her pretty sad and she felt all unwanted and stuff. The whole time i never really factored her race into anything, if you treat it that way I think things will be just great. Parents are the main problem in that kinda thing tho, dealing with the previous generation with anything about race is always a pain in the arse.


Posted by montie on Apr-12-2004 00:33:

i think its pathetic that people still think its a big deal worth discussion. who cares?


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