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Posted by TweeK on May-25-2004 02:09:

Confused Do Hot Chicks Make You Nervous?

Do hot Chicks make you nervous when your talking to them.I know i do especialy the chicks that look like porn stars.I dont know WTF is wrong with me they make me feel uncomftarble and make me nervous when im around them.And sometimes i try to avoid talking to them i dont get none of this feeling when i talking to normal looking chicks with average looks.I know it sounds sad LOL

Is it just me or do any of you have the same problem?


Posted by torontotrance on May-25-2004 02:10:

ya and her name is amber


Posted by Shudder on May-25-2004 02:12:

i sense another case of the ladder theory.


Posted by tranceDJ on May-25-2004 02:12:

I agree that if a girl is really hot they can be intimidating...it's much harder to talk to them than your average girl. Girls do like confidence though so if you were to ever want to get with one of those really gorgeous girls, you couldn't shy away from them at all. If you don't feel the need to be with a girl like that, it's not that big of a deal IMO.


Posted by Orbax on May-25-2004 02:13:

Re: Do Hot Chicks Make You Nervous?

quote:
Originally posted by TweeK
Do hot Chicks make you nervous when your talking to them.I know i do especialy the chicks that look like porn stars.I dont know WTF is wrong with me they make me feel uncomftarble and make me nervous when im around them.And sometimes i try to avoid talking to them i dont get none of this feeling when i talking to normal looking chicks with average looks.I know it sounds sad LOL

Is it just me or do any of you have the same problem?


The idea that a woman is more sexually educated than a man tends to bring out those feelings. We like to be in control, and we seem to think that hot girls have a lot of sex and boyfriends. While most guys are losers (im basing this off me lol) and have 0 experience with relationships. It can be intimidating.


Posted by ShadoWolf on May-25-2004 02:15:

They definately do. It's a problem related to social anxiety.

I saw an attractive girl in the grocery store today, and I wish I had talked to her (or better yet, for her to initiate). But I just felt that I had no reason to talk to her - we were just going about our business shopping.


Posted by meneedit on May-25-2004 02:17:

are you a virgin orbax?


Posted by Orbax on May-25-2004 02:18:

quote:
Originally posted by ShadoWolf
They definately do. It's a problem related to social anxiety.

I saw an attractive girl in the grocery store today, and I wish I had talked to her (or better yet, for her to initiate). But I just felt that I had no reason to talk to her - we were just going about our business shopping.


yeah I always do that too, but then I think that I totally wouldnt mind if they talked to me...but then I cant think of what they would say, so I cant think of anything to start it off and reverse roles...and im sure they have people hit on them all the time...


except probably not cuz we are all pansies

The few really attractive female friends I have had ALWAYS bitch about not having boyfriends because guys are too scared of them. and only assholes hit on them. ive heard this from many others as well.


Posted by Flyboy217 on May-25-2004 02:19:

Hot girls? No. Beautiful girls? Yes. When talking to a "hot" girl I think "slut, I'm better'n you". When talking to a beautiful girl I think ""


Posted by Orbax on May-25-2004 02:20:

quote:
Originally posted by meneedit
are you a virgin orbax?


hehe yeah. total virgin. Ive found that ive had to coin the term "oral virgin" as well because most people find that to be different some how.

Ive kissed like 4 girls...

one of them kind of begged for it though we were drinking and she finally admitted she was intimidated/ really attracted to me and she wanted me to kiss her...cant really turn a pretty girl down now can I


Posted by meneedit on May-25-2004 02:22:

sadly enough I am



















oh well... I'll get pussy one day


Posted by Shudder on May-25-2004 02:26:

i dont pay attention to hot girls anymore.. mostly because they may seem almost perfect on the outside but they are bound to have some sort of impurity within them. i find smoking a turnoff so i never even bother talking to them half the time since the majority smoke. also they follow some guy that looks like a total dickhead. they may be nice to look at but trying to talk to them is just a wasted effort imo...


Posted by Orbax on May-25-2004 02:29:

I figure if i reallly need to have sex, i can get a hooker. What im after is a meaningful relationship where sex is a byproduct of the feelings we have, not the other way around, which is how it works in America because everyone is so damn sheltered they cant express themsevles without alcohol and randomly fuck when they do have it /rant


plus a lot of hot girls have been able to get by on nothing but looks for 20 years or so, then college hits, and they arent special and they dont know what to do, so they have a lot of sex, then they turn 25 and actually learn something and become cool and then they decide to get one of the nice guys theyve been ignoring for the last 17 years and then we dont want them because theyve been sluts! an d....sigh...

maybe thats why im a virgin...I dunno.


The Doors said it the best "Women seem wicked, when youre unwanted"


Posted by Perfect_Cheezit on May-25-2004 02:29:

Yes, I get that feeling when there is a stunningly beautiful girl that I am talking to; I try my best to act normal but sometimes it just doesnt work because they are like...I don't even know


Posted by smokeape on May-25-2004 02:32:

Getting nervous???




[[[smoke]]]

HHAHHAAAAAA!

Firewall - Sincere (Lange Mix)


Posted by TweeK on May-25-2004 02:32:

Im really scared go up to a girl and talk to them.....I guess im afraid of geting rejected.I usually wait for chicks to walk u to me.I really dont hit on girls that much when im alone.But when im in a group with my friends i get this confidence level.And if i get rejected(Which most of the time i do)we just joke about it.


Posted by ShadoWolf on May-25-2004 02:34:

quote:
Originally posted by smokeape
Getting nervous???




[[[smoke]]]

HHAHHAAAAAA!

Firewall - Sincere (Lange Mix)



is there a thread where the dancing Alizee isn't relevant? lol


Posted by torontotrance on May-25-2004 02:35:

Most of those girls are sluts, I rather just fuck one woman for the rest of my life (i.e marriage....i've taken a lot of bullshit from you assholes for it but I go by a different code...not yours :haha. People like UWM keep saying get laid...fuck that...I'm not going to end up fucking different women then paying for it later when I get married and my wife is pissed off that I slept with other women. See if you look at the non-virgins....I can get laid and be like you easily but you can't be like me.


Posted by Orbax on May-25-2004 02:35:

quote:
Originally posted by TweeK
Im really scared go up to a girl and talk to them.....I guess im afraid of geting rejected.I usually wait for chicks to walk u to me.I really dont hit on girls that much when im alone.But when im in a group with my friends i get this confidence level.And if i get rejected(Which most of the time i do)we just joke about it.


well its more of the feeling that im being an asshole because the ONLY reason im talking to them is they are hot. They dont "look interesting" and generally arent doing anything but standing there. My classical English Gentleman upbringing shudders at the idea. Being at a party and offering a motorcycle ride is acceptable though. Parties are for meeting people. but at the supermarket..its just weird! odd that if theres bread in the building its crazy, but if you have jalapeno poppers, then its alllll good


Posted by trancebrat on May-25-2004 02:37:

quote:
Originally posted by torontotrance
ya and her name is amber





Posted by Trancealot on May-25-2004 02:47:

its all a game.

Go to the bar there are girls around. Hmmm what to do . You can be 3 types of guy's in this situation.

1)shy and don't talk
2)talk and lie the whole time
3)talk and tell the truth

In High school I was #1 on the list. When I got to college I was fading away from #1 pretty easy. Being a freshman in college is party time and drinking was an easy way for me to approach girls and chat it up. Then when I hit my Highs and Lows preety much #3 on the list will work out the best. Is it easier to talk about yourself and learn about someone else than lie and make up BS.

When it comes to pick up lines, make up anything and don't let it be cheesy. Just ask a question you think anyone in the world could answer but this girl you want to talk to can answer also. Sometimes to make conversation something will have to be said. Guess what, sometimes the girl might even start the convo also. Makes life much easier on the brain in those situations.

With looking for girls, you will have to take rejection because it happens to the best.


Posted by DigitalMP on May-25-2004 02:51:

no one makes me nervous, but i'm not really down with the games girls play.

i don't chase anyone, and i won't give these dolled-up girls the attention they expect/demand when they go out. if they want to talk to me, they can find me...i'm hard to miss. i don't have to meet a girl every time i'm out.


Posted by torontotrance on May-25-2004 02:53:

/me plots to kill david at lawler


Posted by Dmatrox on May-25-2004 02:54:

Wow and i thought i was the only one


Posted by DigitalMP on May-25-2004 02:54:

okay...but let me hook you up with some dirty std-infested whore first. of course, i'll lie and tell you she's my innocent 2nd cousin


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