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i messed up

I dont usually post much, let alone in here. And i know this isnt about parties but whatever.

Just absolutley ruined my closest friendship because I said some horrible/mean things. And I dont want to get into details. I was so angry at her and I wasnt thinking. I should have known better. This is NOT like me at all.
f-u-c-k

I just needed to get this off my chest. Thoughts/comments/ similar stories are welcomed

If it's the closest friendship then you'll both get over it after some time...sometimes you have to let it out, but things like that don't ruin close friendships...

Thats some good advice. But I just want to tell her how sorry I am, but shes not answering the phone. Right now I'm feeling pretty shitty- I can see nothing but the black clouds

Honestly, sometimes it's best to let things cool down a bit before you reinitiate communication.

We've all been there, and by that I mean, on the other side.... her side. I've been there and fucking despised that person for doing or saying what they did. But all works out in the end if it's a friendship that truly matters.

Patience is a virtue my friend

Very true. I've been in your exact place. Said some really uncalled for things to my ex and she wouldn't answer the phone for some time. I was persistent in getting an answer though and just kept calling, met up with her later and told her exactly what was going on. Why I said what I said and everything worked itself out. We had a very long talk. Of course if this person doesn't answer the phone at all, it may be best to give it some time.

Sorry to hear man!

I'm gald to see that people aren't jumping on you for a non-music related post. Great advice guys.

My advice follows the rest of the guys; give it some time. Let things cool down and if it is a true friendship it will work itself out. If that person really means that much to you as a friend you should let them know it.

My 2 cents!

~Sean

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Originally posted by Seany_G I'm gald to see that people aren't jumping on you for a non-music related post. Great advice guys.

Why do people do that anyway. This is a forum for "Western Canada", not "Western Canada - Music Only". There's some nice people here who just want to get shit off their chest, and people flame. If someone doesn't care, then don't reply!

As a girl..... we're the ones who should have the most empathy as i'm sure i frequently have bursted out and said shit i shouldn't have... but i'm usually forgiven and so is the second party usually.... Just needs a Lil time as everyone else said, but i wouldn't overly worry about it! L

Thanks for the advice guys. Appreciate it.

She wont even talk/interact with me until shes ready to forgive.
this hurts like a bitch

I know how this feels...but...the strongest relationships I have right now are the ones that have arguments or heated discussions.

Time will mend the pain...as you have probably already read.

yea, i know what you mean. and i still feel like shit

time does work however, it just sucks waiting

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Originally posted by mikefasssy time does work however, it just sucks waiting

amen to that caleb.

give it some time, a few days at the very least. try to call her and arrange a face to face to apologize, but if she won't buy that, decide if u want to wait longer or apologize on the phone. it'll mean more in person.. then again its different in every case.

no worries on the vent. anytime. =)

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Originally posted by DjCommisad apologize on the phone

try 10000000% to do it in person...._trust_ me.

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