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missed opportunities

are fuckin shit.

last night i was out with a few housemates + co workers.
sat in a pub al night + had good fun. after the pub, we were hangin about the street for a bit.. ended up chattin to some american girls + an Irish girl who they were staying with.

anyways, i got chattin to a girl who lived near me. chattin away, gettin on great. we ended up leaving the crowd and walking home together. gon on really well with her, she was really really nice, but i wasn't sure if i should make the move or not.

i'm so pissed off at the minute, not at the fact that it didn't happen, but the fact that it could have (hmm.. bit of a contradiction?)

if i'd been rejected, fair enough.

but now, it's sittin in the back of my mind. what if? i need closure!

feel like throwing my monitor up in the air + letting it fall on my head!

Re: missed opportunities

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Originally posted by UglyDave feel like throwing my monitor up in the air + letting it fall on my head!

DO IT!

hehehe Starsky and Hutch....

DO IT! C'MON DO IT!

well, it's quite a heavy monitor.. and i'm not the strongest, nor do i have the best coordination, so i'd probably end up throwing it in the air, then it'll kill the person in the cubicle next to me

aah sure it'd be worth a try

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Originally posted by UglyDave are fuckin shit. last night i was out with a few housemates + co workers. sat in a pub al night + had good fun. after the pub, we were hangin about the street for a bit.. ended up chattin to some american girls + an Irish girl who they were staying with. anyways, i got chattin to a girl who lived near me. chattin away, gettin on great. we ended up leaving the crowd and walking home together. gon on really well with her, she was really really nice, but i wasn't sure if i should make the move or not. i'm so pissed off at the minute, not at the fact that it didn't happen, but the fact that it could have (hmm.. bit of a contradiction?) if i'd been rejected, fair enough. but now, it's sittin in the back of my mind. what if? i need closure! feel like throwing my monitor up in the air + letting it fall on my head!

She chose to go with you and leave her friends and the group. Which mean's she is attracted to you. For some reason we male's lose all sense of logic when a situation like this gets presented. Then we kick our own ass after thinking about the facts.

Coulda woulda shoulda

But yeh, definitely had that feeling before.

yeah...regret is one of the worst damn feelings ever...

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Originally posted by Trance(PL) For some reason we male's lose all sense of logic when a situation like this gets presented. Then we kick our own ass after thinking about the facts.

So true.

If u didnt even get her number then u have perfect reason to immerse your head in a monitor

Otherwise just ring her



Do it

DO IT!!!

well, she lives around the corner from me, and there's a limited number of places to go (but they're all class)

so i reckon i'll see her again within a week r 2

i know what you mean, its so frustrating.....

Movie magic moment:
Go to her house now and kiss her, saying you wanted to be sobber for the kisss.


something Diffrent

Missed opportunities = Shit!

Well I think she left with you because you gave her the impression that you are a nice guy. I dont think she would have left with you otherwise. The fact that you didnt try anything actually looks good on you in a way because it will preserve the whole good guy impression you gave her and wont make you look like a horny and agressive guy. If she leaves with you again the next time you see her then do it. Atleast at this point you have hung out with her twice. Depends on the girl though. Some girls like guys who move fast and some dont.

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Originally posted by EyesOfExtasy Well I think she left with you because you gave her the impression that you are a nice guy. I dont think she would have left with you otherwise. The fact that you didnt try anything actually looks good on you in a way because it will preserve the whole good guy impression you gave her and wont make you look like a horny and agressive guy. If she leaves with you again the next time you see her then do it. Atleast at this point you have hung out with her twice. Depends on the girl though. Some girls like guys who move fast and some dont.

well, i suppose that sounds ok, but nice guys never win

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Originally posted by UglyDave well, i suppose that sounds ok, but nice guys never win

That is so not true.....I have a nice guy, he has always been a nice guy and he was somewhat of the take it easy kind of shy guy which only made me hotter for him. But I broke him out of that real quick

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Originally posted by EyesOfExtasy That is so not true.....I have a nice guy, he has always been a nice guy and he was somewhat of the take it easy kind of shy guy which only made me hotter for him. But I broke him out of that real quick

Yeah, I agree, I used to be one of the most shy people ever, I met this one girl first year of college, she broke me out of that real quick.

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Originally posted by EssentialMix3r Yeah, I agree, I used to be one of the most shy people ever, I met this one girl first year of college, she broke me out of that real quick.

Hehehehehe! Wasnt it fun for u!

My love life is a story of missed opportunity after missed opportunity, then heartbreak, then more missed opportunities.

i recieved a letter about a year back from the state of california when it was in a very unstable economic status. seems they were recruiting for a team of computer programmers to replace human recourses with time/cost-saving software and online applications. At that time, i was a freshman in college and i needed to make the decision of wether to work for the state or continue my education in college.
Well, i chose college. Then i read a few newspaper articles about the recruits making a $55,000 salary.

Re: missed opportunities

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Originally posted by UglyDave are fuckin shit. last night i was out with a few housemates + co workers. sat in a pub al night + had good fun. after the pub, we were hangin about the street for a bit.. ended up chattin to some american girls + an Irish girl who they were staying with. anyways, i got chattin to a girl who lived near me. chattin away, gettin on great. we ended up leaving the crowd and walking home together. gon on really well with her, she was really really nice, but i wasn't sure if i should make the move or not. i'm so pissed off at the minute, not at the fact that it didn't happen, but the fact that it could have (hmm.. bit of a contradiction?) if i'd been rejected, fair enough. but now, it's sittin in the back of my mind. what if? i need closure! feel like throwing my monitor up in the air + letting it fall on my head!

That shit was money, man. Any girl that puts out on the same night you meet her isn't worth it in the long run. And she wouldn't respect herself enough to have any serious relationship with you.

Just play it cool - next time you see her, let her know you were thinking about her. Give it a few days. Women don't want to seem too desperate.

She's right where you need her.

"im gonna go drink and play video games at my house, if you want your ass kicked at rally you should come"

Yep. Those situations suck. You think you're in, but you doubt yourself and don't want to be too aggressive. I can analyze situations from the outside very well, generally friends situations. For myself, however, I am an infant. I seem to have no clue what I am doing. Then girls show interest, but I am too uninterested and it pisses them off. I think this is a problem most every man is cursed with.

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Originally posted by UglyDave well, i suppose that sounds ok, but nice guys never win

EyesOfExtasy is right, i held the nice guy motto to heart for years, then life went and proved me wrong

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