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Why Does It Hurt So Bad???

OK,why are girls so mean?
I like this girl, she has a boyfriend,so why do I have to like her?
I don't understand, I need advices PLEASE , what would you do if you fell for someone that had a boyfriend? the worse thing is, her boyfriend is out of town and i have the chance to try something with her now that he is gone, but i saw her once with her friends and she almost ran over me,I ran after her car, all because i like this chik.
I just can't stop thinking about her,I went to Extravaganza's house tonight and she was there, as soon as I stepped in the door, she left because she saw me,
Im sorry I know people don't think it hurts because I am a guy, but it does,
I want to forget about her, but why can't I?

Fuck, what is wrong with everything?, dont even think I ever felt like this before.
I just want to know if anyone has ever felt like this before and what did you do?

thanks
tyby

dude, if she's running away from you, dont you think you ought to get the point? move on

it all depends on how she is with her boyfriend. if he treats her good and if you can treat her better.

ah girl problems...ive got one...someone please try and explain to me.
theres this girl im really good friends with...ive known her for about 6 months...we talk on the phone alot hang out a lot nearly everyday. were pretty much best friends...i guess u can already tell what the problem is. i tell her i like her and at first she says im not ready for a boyfriend yet cuz i just broke up and asks if she can go out with me later when shes ready. so im like ok...but i can tell she doesnt wanna really go out with me...so i talk to her and shes like i just like u as friend...i like u more than any other guy, u are special, i really really like u etc is what she says...but she cant go out with me. what the fuck. oh and she told my friend like if she went out with me nothing would change because its liek we are already going out...she said she knows me too well. so im guessing like i waited too long to ask her out huh...sigh...

sorry penguin dude...but look at the bright side....now u can forget her and are free to go and date a supermodel...

Go for it!

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Originally posted by TyBy7996 OK,why are girls so mean? ...and what did you do? thanks tyby

Tyby, I say go for it dude, especially if he's out of town. You don't have anything to lose. You never know how their relationship is, she might be wanting to try something new, and like StereoPrincess said, you just need to treat her better than her boyfriend. Recently I ended up with a girl who's had a boyfriend for almost 2 years now... she's still going with him, but she just wanted to try something different... especially at this young age, why get tied down with a serious boyfriend/girlfriend? There's plenty of time to get serious, for now just have fun and be worry-free.
And to Triple 6, if your girl does hook up with someone else, don't be mad at the guy, boys will be boys, because if that dude doesn't hook up with your girl, there's always some other guy that wouldn't mind doing it. So Tyby if you think that she's attracted to you and the BF is out of town, go for it, just make sure to tell her not to say anything about it.

ID

Why do you stalk her TyBy?? You're making things worse! Would you like it if a girl harassed you all the time? Well, leave her alone then...start living your own life instead of wasting hers

it might be tempting to "go for it"; yet please do two things before U attempt that:

1st and most important, put Urself in his position. How would U feel if U would come from out of town and find the girl U R dating is with someone else. as StereoPrincess mentioned, it depends how he treats her, what is their relationship at this time. and U don't know that.
2nd would be to see if it's actually worth it to try and get her. I mean as far as U mentioned, she keeps running away when she see U. either she's afraid she would fall for U, either she just doesn't want to put up with this... so if U want to go over any rule (that might be a thing of honour) and try and steal her... see if U can, if she would give up.

but I cannot wish U but the best luck!
and keep us updated pls!

Love is beautiful...and girls are like roses... smell so wonderfull, yet hurt so easily

ya dude i agree with MIss Proximus. She does sound like a bitch... but who knows. I would just try ur best to get over her. she seems like shes either intrested but cant persue because she is involved with someone.. or shes really not interested in u. This is me and not ever one is like me .. but this is what i would do. I would talk to her.. whether its through email or in person. In person is best. I would just get the balls to comfront her about her attitude towards u. Has she always been like this or is this just something that has stated up recently? and my second question is... how old is she?

do watcha gotta do. but if she runs from you, tries to run you over, and has a serious boyfriend. then the magic 8-ball says outlook not so good. and your horoscope says expect serious beat-down in future when boyfriend returns. if i was you i'd let it go. welcome to the lonely hearts club tyby. she obviously is hung up on her boyfriend so go out and find yourself a girl that isn't. peace!!!

lost

I am with u lost. I think if someone tried to run over me.. i dont think i would want to try to get with them. Chances are they have a major case of psychosis.

yeah tyby just leave it. be a man and walk away instead of *shudders* this groveling nonsense. either she likes you or she doesn't and this blubbering won't help her to like you. i don't know many women that dig that stuff. i could be wrong though. i don't know that many women. the three best words my friends tell each other when there are women problems is: f*ck that b*tch! and amazingly everything seems to be better after that cuz you realize that they're right. peace!!!

lost

yep women either like ya or they dont.. at least thats with me. And the people i am not interested in.. i dont even give them any reason to think otherwise. But in turn i also dont treat them like an ass and run them over....lol In a way its kinda flattering for women to have guys like them especially if the have a man already. because if something was to happen to the relationship .. they know that there are other people out there that like them and what they have isnt what they have to settle for.

ok, i dont think ANY of you, (except for Lost), know who TyBy's talking about... i bet you'd all answer differently if you knew...

TyBy is talking about my girlfriend, Ur Dream Grl, and I am the boyfriend out of town, ABT....

for starters,TyBy, let me answer all your questions for you.

1) Dream Grl and myself are practically married, so THAT is why she doesn't want to talk to you.

2) When you first started hitting on her, you were doing it in a psychotic manner, and stalking her as well...

3) the things you have said to her over PM were very uncalled for, and she thinks you are the psycho, that is why she is avoiding you....

4) I would beat your ass if i found out anything happened....

5) She flat out doesn't like you.... you need to learn that. The reason she keeps running is because you keep "showing up" at the things SHE is doing and hanging out - you weren't even supposed to be there, but you SHOW UP b/c you have your boy Extravaganza try to tip you off that she is around.

...The games you guys play, its amazing that you guys ever get ANY p*ssy..... you guys act like you're in 7th grade for crying out loud. And you cannot possibly be obsessed with a girl you don't even know... you've only seen her, never really had a real conversation with her, and you claim you are madly in love... pathetic if you ask me.

For the last time, Tyby.... GET OFF OF IT , and stop trying to bring other TA's into the fray. This is your own problem, and if you want to get rid of the problem, STOP SIGNING ON TO TA... this is where you first saw her, and your desires for her will die with your discontinuing TA subscription....

-ABT-

LOL wuttup abt! you know i got your back my brotha!!! how'd you like that horoscope sh*t! i could make money off my horoscopes cuz they're so damn accurate.

lost

LOL! This is more entertaining than Jerry Springer!

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Originally posted by Lost LOL wuttup abt! you know i got your back my brotha!!! how'd you like that horoscope sh*t! i could make money off my horoscopes cuz they're so damn accurate. lost

LoL... i think you found your calling E! heheh....

oh yeah, and to everyone else: put yourself in Dream Grl's and my shoes.... how'd you like it if some stranger from the internet was stalking your loved one? Not really rational, is it? Not considerate, either. And Dream Grl is NOT a psycho... she is a person who is scared by a guy who is stalking here... but he likes to make it sound like he is NOT stalking her. don't be fooled.

-ABT-

dude, abt, why say none of us know what he is talking about?? I remember very well that Ty and me flamed eachother and that you flamed him back explaining why he's such an ass...i even sent ur gurl a pm today right when i saw this thread.....why else would i start about STALKING if i don't even know this guy??

i wish u all the best cuz getting rid of these kinda psycho's is incredibly tough...sometimes it even drives people up to murder..because once they get an idea in their head it's not very easily gonna cum out..i'm prayin for u and ur gurl that he finds another gurl to stalk and that that will be a bad ass bitch that does smth evil to him....i HATE losers like him...trying to destroy a wonderfull relationship like the 2 of you seem to be havin...

man....this sux...if i ever come up to ft. lauderdale i'd be happy to kick his nuts up to the moon...good luck abt

yeah miss p. let me know when you go cuz then i'll fly out from cali and we'll start a good old-fashioned posse. i haven't tarred and feathered someone in years.

lost

well tyby i guess u have ur answers.. looks to me.. u better go on with ur life and leave abt and ur deam gurl alone.

PS. LOL @ Lost

Re: Why Does It Hurt So Bad???

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Originally posted by TyBy7996 OK,why are girls so mean? I like this girl, she has a boyfriend,so why do I have to like her? I don't understand, I need advices PLEASE , what would you do if you fell for someone that had a boyfriend? the worse thing is, her boyfriend is out of town and i have the chance to try something with her now that he is gone, but i saw her once with her friends and she almost ran over me,I ran after her car, all because i like this chik. I just can't stop thinking about her,I went to Extravaganza's house tonight and she was there, as soon as I stepped in the door, she left because she saw me, Im sorry I know people don't think it hurts because I am a guy, but it does, I want to forget about her, but why can't I? Fuck, what is wrong with everything?, dont even think I ever felt like this before. I just want to know if anyone has ever felt like this before and what did you do? thanks tyby

you're a loser. its just that simple. thats why it hurts and thats why she left when she saw you...

LOL just kidding d00d...u're not a loser...but u need to get out more i think...

just chill, sum yrs. from now (maybe even days or weeks from now) u'll think abt this and just laugh...

just keep urself occupied and keep ur self respect always

peace

now that we know what TyBy is talkin' about... I think he should cool off. get on with it.

and yeah... it hurts cuz U R a looser in this one... sorry, but if what ABT is sayin' is true... then U really need to get on with Ur life! (or get one for that matter)

tyby with all my respect : shut the fuck up , i consider the girl u r talking about like my older sister , and i don't like it when someone starts harrasing a family member . I'm warning you , leave her alone and grow up a little bit , ur such a looser , look at yourself now , every TA here knows that ur a jerk ... leave my sister alone or u'll regret it .

I know some of you have been waiting for my reply. but I already know I am a jerk, i just can't forget about her.
and for some of yall information, it is not like I don't want to forget about her, I do , of course, but If half of you knew her, you would feel the same, cause she's got this thing I can't explain, Like it just makes you fall in love with her, it makes you feel good,she's like the nicest person you could ever meet, when I got to extravaganza(paul) house, she was sitting in the couch looking at the TV, I saw her from the side and her hair just looked so beautiful,her nose,I am not going crazy, I am just crazy about her,I stood at the door for a long time staring at her, but then some bitch called out my name and she looked at me , got up with yellowbee and left.I know she likes her boyfriend, it is more than obvious if she doesnt even look at my face, but she is not mean at all,I just need to find another girl to make me forget about her.

Sorry everything is just fucked up now,I don't know what to do. she is like the nicest person in the world.

tyby

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