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Finding people attractive
What do you all think about older men looking at younger girls, girls in the age gap 18-21, that sort of girls that i am dating at the moment. Personally i think it is really perverted, my girlfriend is always complaining about older men trying to chat her up, she is 20 and thinks its disgusting.
Personally i wouldnt be chasing girls that young, if i were single at that age. But i have to put across the point that if i find girls attractive in the age gap 18-21 then im not going to find them unattractive because ive grown older.
I think some men, and women, im not being sexist, need to think carefully about their relationship wishes. What does everyone else think?
I think it depends, I know some 18 yrs old women who have the maturity of someone who is 24. I think men and women need to think carefully before any relationship. A woman who dates a younger man is at worst considered a slut. A man who dates a younger woman is usually considered far worse.
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| Originally posted by torontotrance I think it depends, I know some 18 yrs old women who have the maturity of someone who is 24. I think men and women need to think carefully before any relationship. A woman who dates a younger man is at worst considered a slut. A man who dates a younger woman is usually considered far worse. |
Give your girlfriend another 5 years and you'll see less and less older men will try anything. Then give her another 10 years and then number will go down even more...so, don't worry and tell her to enjoy it while she can. It's normal to look at women and talk to them. It's up to a person how you take the attention. I'm most positive your girlfrind LOVES IT. The reason she tells you shes not is for you and your self-esteem. She just wants you to realize that lots of men are paying attention to her. Unless you look like Brad Pitt and got his cash you will get that from ALL women.
WOMEN LOVE ATTENTION! Don't let them bs you silly like that.
MOSCHINO
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| Originally posted by MOSCHINO Give your girlfriend another 5 years and you'll see less and less older men will try anything. Then give her another 10 years and then number will go down even more...so, don't worry and tell her to enjoy it while she can. It's normal to look at women and talk to them. It's up to a person how you take the attention. I'm most positive your girlfrind LOVES IT. The reason she tells you shes not is for you and your self-esteem. She just wants you to realize that lots of men are paying attention to her. Unless you look like Brad Pitt and got his cash you will get that from ALL women. WOMEN LOVE ATTENTION! Don't let them bs you silly like that. MOSCHINO |
. I was just using it as an example to illustrate my thread.
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| Originally posted by torontotrance I think it depends, I know some 18 yrs old women who have the maturity of someone who is 24. I think men and women need to think carefully before any relationship. A woman who dates a younger man is at worst considered a slut. A man who dates a younger woman is usually considered far worse. |
as long as she's legal then why does age matter so much? i think andy said it best.
on a side note...did anyone else hear about the reality tv show that ivana trump is getting? supposedly its going to be her trying to help an older woman (in her 40's) land a "young stud". ill see if i can find a link to the story on it.
Ivana's New Show
euh... wtf, men age 40 aren't allowed to find girls attractive?
wtf, wait till you grow up and try looking the opposite way of a beautiful young girl....
I know that you will never stop older people looking at younger people and vice versa but there is a time and a place. In my work I come into contact with a wide range of people, and often spend a long time with each of them. However, when i am in my work uniform i could easily pass as a 15 year old, not someone who is 20 and i find it horrible when old men, some of them older than my dad start trying to look down my shirt or 'accidently' touch me. However, the same thing happening when i am in a club wearing something revealing wouldn't really bother me at all.
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| Originally posted by MOSCHINO You obviously know close to NOTHING about relationships (at least with girls) MEN WHO DATE YOUNGER BROADS CONSIDERED "A LUCKY BASTARDS"!!! |
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| Originally posted by torontotrance and some are considered pervs or called pedos. |
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| Originally posted by DjWhooCares hahaahaha, True.. but u know damn right when youre "Older", if u see a Beautiful Chick, youre not gonna ignore the view, and if u have a chance, you know you'll hit it up |
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| Originally posted by MOSCHINO Give your girlfriend another 5 years and you'll see less and less older men will try anything. Then give her another 10 years and then number will go down even more...so, don't worry and tell her to enjoy it while she can. It's normal to look at women and talk to them. It's up to a person how you take the attention. I'm most positive your girlfrind LOVES IT. The reason she tells you shes not is for you and your self-esteem. She just wants you to realize that lots of men are paying attention to her. Unless you look like Brad Pitt and got his cash you will get that from ALL women. WOMEN LOVE ATTENTION! Don't let them bs you silly like that. MOSCHINO |
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| Originally posted by malek exactly... |
I think it depends on how old the men are. I have gotten to the point where I don't even want to date girls under 21, and I'm only 25. If you are talking about guys in their forty's, then that's gross, but I can't blame them for trying. Some girls fall for that shit, especially if the man has money. I think there is a big maturity gap, and even though women think they mature so fast, I have yet to meet a girl under 21 that I couldn't notice major immaturaties at the surface. Hell some of the girls that are 22,23,24 are still super immature. There are always going to be exceptions though. I think it has to be a case to case basis. It seems like every time I make the mistake of thinking a 20 year old girl is mature enough, they always dissapoint me.
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| Originally posted by tranceaholic beuaty doesnt have an age my friends..there are hot 40 yr olds too u know |
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| Originally posted by Billabong Personally i wouldnt be chasing girls that young, if i were single at that age. But i have to put across the point that if i find girls attractive in the age gap 18-21 then im not going to find them unattractive because ive grown older. |
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| Originally posted by tranceaholic beauty doesnt have an age my friends..there are hot 40 yr olds too u know |
Doctrine of �being at certain age� is being discussed a lot on this board. It�s that bad as I would expect majority of young people comment on it, but what is obvious, is obvious. People are taking their young age as a privilege without understanding that this is strictly time-sensitive matter. We all will get old. Some of us are older then others and age, in it�s entire global meaning, have nothing to do with what we are.
i dated a girl who was almost ten years older than me last year, so i don't think that I'd neccesarily not be interested in a girl who's younger than me, when i get older. Like TTA said tho, maturity is the thing to consider. I doubt many older men would find the majority of 18 year olds intellectually stimulating, I'm not saying that there aren't exceptions, but realistically people have different outlooks, desires, and expect different things from relationships as they get older.
Also consider this, what if both parties are getting what they need out of the relationship, and are happy. Who has the right to say its wrong, just because it upsets someone's sensibilities. If both of them are consenting adults then, c'est la vie!
Here are the ages that I would go for: (I'm a 21yo guy btw)
Me 21: She no younger then 16: No older then 30. I say 30 because I had this really really great experience with this one chick who liked younger guys. I was sitting near the dj booth when she came up to me (more like sat down and pressed herself up against me
) and then started talking about trance while running her hands over my thigh Well, she turned out to be great
When I'm 30, I wouldn't want anyone under 20, or over 35.
What about other people?
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| Originally posted by Citizen X You sound like my grandma. Look outside, morals in the world don't exist anymore. The whole point is to fuck young girls and make as much money as possible. |
wtf gelatinpuff, whoa
A world where everyone uses each other doesn't sound very nice at all.
It sounds like most of us have experinced that "older woman". It seems like there is a different standard for the different sexes. Young girls are picky and want attention really bad, but get upset when they get the wrong attention. Guys are despereate and will usualy take anything they can get that isn't disgusting.
Young girls seem to target people who are around 2-4 years older then them, high school girls especialy try to look all cool by getting a college dude. Older girls seem to want younger guys, 25-26 will try for 18-23 quite often.
I think by the time a dude ages to 30-40 and still hasn't found a girl to keep, they just feel like they have nothing to lose and will go for anything with a pussy and a pulse; that and there are a shitload of evil people running around.
Theres no way to understand the whole population for certain, all you can really do is be careful who you trust, its really shitty too use another person just because you got used yourself I think.
In general if the age difference is too much one should be more careful to make sure that the attraction is for the right reasons. I know a bunch of couples who are quite happy despite being pretty far apart in their age, so I don't think it is the most important factor to consider, except of course when one person is on the border of still being a child, then things get pretty sick.
Im 20 and tend to appreciate those in the range of 17-24, although there are some exceptions. I've been attracted to a few around 40, and the rare 16 yer old. The oldest female ive actualy persued was when I was 18 she was 24, we had a lot of fun but it wasn't meant to be and we both realized it eventualy and decided just to be friends. The youngest was 15 but that was when I was 17 and desperate to find someone to take to a dance, which I didn't end up going to cuz she dumped me after a week, bleh capricous little girls, none of them ever liked me because I was too much of a good boy.
I met my gf when I was 18 she was 17 when college started. She was taken at the time but was on shaky ground with her other man, so she decided to play with me, she was very wild and naive and had some crazy dramatic breakup. Right before it happened she quit seeing me so I went for that 24 yer old(I was a bit naive too, and kinda upset that she didn't want me so I tried changing my strategy a bit). Shortly after me and the older woman separated I finaly got what I wanted the whole time, we were both newly single and trying to just be friendly and go see PvD but he got sick and cancelled so we went home and got back together instead.
Anywhooo, the moral of that whole story was that ppl in the 16-19 range do a lot of crazy things, our desires change so much while we experience so many different things and make alot of mistakes simply because we don't have much experience and dont know what we want. Lotsa people try to prey on the young because of this, just gotta be careful and think about what yer doing
geez sometimes i get on these weird tangents and just type sooo much stuff, wtf am i talking about?
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| Originally posted by Zombie0915 wtf gelatinpuff, whoa A world where everyone uses each other doesn't sound very nice at all. |
Finding people attractive has nothing to do with age. It's a matter of taste. Some young 15 year old girl can find a 50 year old male attractive. Dating is a whole different issue. But in general terms, those people that we find attractive are those who resemble actors/actresses in porn videos.
Its really kinda wrong when you see guys in their 30s going out with chicks in their late teens/early 20s. I got a friend who is 20, getting amongst it with a 33 year old. They started when she was about 18!
One time at swimming training many years ago, me and my coach were down one end of the pool talking about something, and one of my training partners was down the 'start' end (we were doing short sprints) on the blocks, when she bent over to dive there was an old dude (like 70) sitting behind her checking out her arse. She was supremely tidy, but about 16. Me and the coach couldn't stop pissing ourselves - she didn't know what we were laughing at.
Thats just wrong.
A couple of years difference I can handle (say 5-7), but large differences is not good.
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