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Absolutely the worst day ever!
I have had the most horrible day ever!
First, I get called into work for 8 this morning after working a night shift and not getting home until 12:30 last night. I get to sleep aroud 4 AM, and then drag my ass out of bed at 7, and go to work. I am exhausted and cranky, but as the day progresses, things seem to be looking up.
Around 4 o'clock this afternoon, I get a call at work...
It is someone calling to tell me that one of our employees (a good friend of mine) passed away this morning. I go into shock, and then I start bawling my eyes out. I am violently shaking, and can't explain to the people I work with why I am freaking out. After I calm down, I call the boss and tell her, and she tries to soothe me a little.
My roomate and her boyfriend come and get me from work and take me home because I am so upset. They cancel their plans to stay with me tonight since I am in a delicate state, and so we are eating pizza and watching some movies.
I come online, and I get a message from Jason telling me he isn't coming.. so that cancels most of my plans.
My whole entire fucking long weekend has been ruined. I feel so awful, and I want to crawl into a hole and die!
The only thing that was slightly good was that people called me at work to give their condolences, and they took it upon themselves to have my shifts covered for the next couple of days. So, that gives me some time to rest and grieve, but I really wanted to go out and have fun with friends.
I sure could use some encouraging words or some advice on how to feel better. This has really dampened my spirits. 
damn,.. that isa shitty day,..
you are going to LOL though? that should cheer you up,. lots of TAs and great music 
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| Originally posted by Zewad damn,.. that isa shitty day,.. you are going to LOL though? that should cheer you up,. lots of TAs and great music |
I didnt think Canada was that strict on IDs
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| Originally posted by Zewad I didnt think Canada was that strict on IDs |
Encouraging words: Feel better. One of the best ways of doing this is through talking with someone to let it all out. It might be in your case. Also, music helps. And, of course, time is the best solution.
I 
you Theresa.
Things will get better. Dont worry. This is just a rough patch but it will be over soon...
well, i think, the best thing it so take it easy and to hang out with friends and also listen to music that'll cheer you up
I'm so sorry to hear this... What ierxium said is right enough though, when I was in a similar situation those things helped out. If you need someone to chat to I'll be on for most of the night.
Re: Absolutely the worst day ever!
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| Originally posted by Theresa I have had the most horrible day ever! First, I get called into work for 8 this morning after working a night shift and not getting home until 12:30 last night. I get to sleep aroud 4 AM, and then drag my ass out of bed at 7, and go to work. I am exhausted and cranky, but as the day progresses, things seem to be looking up. Around 4 o'clock this afternoon, I get a call at work... It is someone calling to tell me that one of our employees (a good friend of mine) passed away this morning. I go into shock, and then I start bawling my eyes out. I am violently shaking, and can't explain to the people I work with why I am freaking out. After I calm down, I call the boss and tell her, and she tries to soothe me a little. My roomate and her boyfriend come and get me from work and take me home because I am so upset. They cancel their plans to stay with me tonight since I am in a delicate state, and so we are eating pizza and watching some movies. I come online, and I get a message from Jason telling me he isn't coming.. so that cancels most of my plans. My whole entire fucking long weekend has been ruined. I feel so awful, and I want to crawl into a hole and die! The only thing that was slightly good was that people called me at work to give their condolences, and they took it upon themselves to have my shifts covered for the next couple of days. So, that gives me some time to rest and grieve, but I really wanted to go out and have fun with friends. I sure could use some encouraging words or some advice on how to feel better. This has really dampened my spirits. |
'Contract an illness' (figuratively, of course) and skip a few days work to blow it off. It's the American way
But seriously, thats a pretty awful few days, hope you're feelin' better.
damn, that is really shitty..
talking will def. help things. surround yourself with people you love, and just cherish it. as ierxium said, just let it all out.
never had someone real close to me die, so i can't even understand how that feels. but you'll get through it, and learn to deal with the loss; it's part of being human i think. just remember everything, the good and the bad, and think of everything as a blessing, because it was.
for music, riva - time is a healer is a beatiful song.
feel better soon
Things can only get better Theresa...keep your chin up.
-Clovis
As was said, things will get better. They always do, and before you know it you'll be out partying and having a blast!
You need to listen to Boomer's tribute to DJ Sammy - Heaven.
That would make anyone laught 
Seriously though, hope things get better for you soon.
So, I crawled into bed at 10 this evening, and have slept till now. I suddenly awoke about 10 minutes ago. Anyways, I noticed that sleep really helps with coping and stuff... so sleep it is. Goodnight!
Bonne nuit. 
I need a hug..
((((((((((((((HUG)))))))))))))
Everyone is asleep in the house...
+1 for those on Theresa's side
hey theresa, im real sorry about your friend. i have been lucky enough not to have any REAL close friends die, but believe me, i feel for you. TA is here for you.. just remember that
+2
Btw/////
Sorry tho hear that....Were here for ya . i dont talk to u really, but hey, THIS IS LA TRANCEADDICT FAMILIA!!
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| Originally posted by PVD & T[]C hey theresa, im real sorry about your friend. i have been lucky enough not to have any REAL close friends die, but believe me, i feel for you. TA is here for you.. just remember that |
feel better!!!!
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Im sorry to hear this Theresa...sleep helps, but try to get some fresh air too...i find going for a walk in a nature spot helps when im upset....it makes you see that life goes on
If you dont mind me asking...and flame me if need be...but how did your friend pass? was it old age or sudden? Im just trying to fully understand the situation.
Also dont feel bad about smiling, watch something funny if you ferel like it.
This might help a little to make you smile.
Obituaries - Sep. 4, 2004
NICHOLAS J. SCHUMACHER 1988 - 2004 Of Waterloo, passed away suddenly, as a result of an accident, on September 3, 2004 in his 16th year. Dearly beloved son of Alison Meunier and Dan Schumacher; loving brother of Greg. He is fondly remembered by many aunts, uncles, cousins and friends. Nick was a gifted artist and attended Bluevale Collegiate. Nick has given the gift of life through organ donation. Funeral arrangements will be announced in Tuesday's edition of the Record or may be obtained by calling the Edward R. Good Funeral Home.
He was riding his skateboard off the back of a moving vehicle, fell off and hit his head. He was in the hospital all Thursday night suffering from severe head injuries, and passed away Friday morning. He was a guy I worked with, and he and I had become good friends.
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