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Posted by Essential1 on Oct-08-2001 07:44:

What would you do if this happened to you?

Last night me and my girlfriend were at her friend's house just chilling and drinking, since her parents went away. after a little while, these 3 guys that i have met before, but i don't really know too well came too. we were all just chilling for a while. one of the guys was trying to hook up with my gf's friend, another one was calling his gf to come meet up with him, and the third guy was just chugging down tequila, watching me and my gf make out on the couch. at about 10:30 i left to go meet up with a friend (rob noli) because i had plans with him from the day b4. before leaving, i said to my gf "watch out for this guy, he's drunk and i have a feeling he might try something with u" and she said "don't worry, u know i'd never cheat on u". ok, i believe that because she knows i love her and i know she loves me.
about 2:00am comes around, and i called her to see if she's drunk yet (she's the funniest person to talk to when she's drunk, i always get a good kick out of it), and she wasn't, she was driving her friend's car because every1 else was drunk. i told her to call me back later, and she said ok. i didn't hear from her for the rest of the night, and all day today until 5:30pm for a brief "i'm going to my cousin's house for thanksgiving, i'll call you when i get home". at about 1:00 am she called me, and explained how the guy who was watching us make out kept trying shit with her, even though she kept saying "i have a boyfriend.....remember Danny, the guy i was just making out with?" and he didn't stop until she yelled "EWW FUCK OFF!!" at the top of her lungs. so the way i see it, he would have probably raped her if she didn't scream so loud.

now if you were in this situation, what would you do? (keeping in mind that this guy is big, and 6 years older than me)

sorry for writing so much, but i'm just really pissed off right now.

Posted by fastmp3 on Oct-08-2001 08:00:

Re: What would you do if this happened to you?

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Originally posted by Essential1
Last night me and my girlfriend were at her friend's house just chilling and drinking, since her parents went away. after a little while, these 3 guys that i have met before, but i don't really know too well came too. we were all just chilling for a while. one of the guys was trying to hook up with my gf's friend, another one was calling his gf to come meet up with him, and the third guy was just chugging down tequila, watching me and my gf make out on the couch. at about 10:30 i left to go meet up with a friend (rob noli) because i had plans with him from the day b4. before leaving, i said to my gf "watch out for this guy, he's drunk and i have a feeling he might try something with u" and she said "don't worry, u know i'd never cheat on u". ok, i believe that because she knows i love her and i know she loves me.
about 2:00am comes around, and i called her to see if she's drunk yet (she's the funniest person to talk to when she's drunk, i always get a good kick out of it), and she wasn't, she was driving her friend's car because every1 else was drunk. i told her to call me back later, and she said ok. i didn't hear from her for the rest of the night, and all day today until 5:30pm for a brief "i'm going to my cousin's house for thanksgiving, i'll call you when i get home". at about 1:00 am she called me, and explained how the guy who was watching us make out kept trying shit with her, even though she kept saying "i have a boyfriend.....remember Danny, the guy i was just making out with?" and he didn't stop until she yelled "EWW FUCK OFF!!" at the top of her lungs. so the way i see it, he would have probably raped her if she didn't scream so loud.

now if you were in this situation, what would you do? (keeping in mind that this guy is big, and 6 years older than me)

sorry for writing so much, but i'm just really pissed off right now.

I know how u must feel buddy , but beating up that guy or using violence ain't the solution . First of all u have to talk with your girlfriend , and ask her to tell sincerly the WHOLE story with full details . And then u can judge . Basically try to keep yourself and your girlfriend too away from that guy for the moment ...

Posted by Gekhous on Oct-08-2001 08:11:

grab an aluminium baseball bat, and beat the fool down!!!!!!

i hate ppl that harrass (and keep on harrassing) girls!!!

last friday, we were in a club and a guy had a fight with his girl, he was shouting like hell, almost hitting her n stuff, and we were like: BATTLE MODE LOG ON, we moved behind her, just looking at the guy, he noticed and calmed down a bit, she left and he walked the other way, now this is an example of violence, but if a guy would like keep touching a girl, or try to, u damn sure i (/we if hes big ) will make sure he knows hell be in a lot of shit if he keeps acting that way...

Posted by Phazon on Oct-08-2001 08:15:

Dont ever leave your g/f with drunk people. You'll probably never know the real story, so you know what - just fuk it. Hes 6 years older then you and probably your g/f. If you step up to this guy, his story will probably just be some bullshit cause after all he was drunk andpeople forget things.

Posted by Tranzmit on Oct-08-2001 08:21:

People like that aren't even classified as humans according to me, they're a sub-genre of homo sapiens, maybe neanderthal. Honestly he sounds like a real ass so i'd stay clear of him if i were you. But you could let him know that you were disgusted by his actions that night and want an apology. However if it looks like all you'll get is a black eye out of it then just move on and steer clear of him from now on.

Sadly a lot of males are like that unfortunatly, they think with their dicks instead of their brains and just see women as an sex object to get their rocks off with. I have no respect for people like that sorry!

Posted by Henkie_henk on Oct-08-2001 08:53:

I think id end up in jail after that...

NO ONE touches my girl-friend or my friends.. period..(no im not in a period)

Ive got a nice base-ball bat under my bed.. a nice knife in the bedroom closet thingie..

Doesnt matter how big that guy was.. i understood he was quite drunk Just start stumping hitting him as hard as you can as fast as you can.. Phone some friends (/me only got really really big friends ) End up in jail.. who cares.. He probably wont even dare to press charges (at least over here in holland

IM out..

oh wait you could also go for the "thinking" way.. Where you dont jump him.. but when i hear my g/f scream something snaps.. lol.. NO NOT THAT..

Posted by jeronemango on Oct-08-2001 09:19:

its your own fault..

some guy is watching u and ur gf making out and hes drunk.. then you leave ,, this guy is all horny.. what did u expect him to do just sit there and play with himself?? you know how guys get when they are drunk...

you are pretty lucky,, and is your gfs safety more important than meeting your friend ??

Posted by Thor on Oct-08-2001 09:27:

quote:
Originally posted by Phazon
Dont ever leave your g/f with drunk people. You'll probably never know the real story, so you know what - just fuk it. Hes 6 years older then you and probably your g/f. If you step up to this guy, his story will probably just be some bullshit cause after all he was drunk andpeople forget things.

I think you can leave your girlfriend is she's with some trustworthy guy friends of yours, and only then maybe... I mean me and my buddies always looked out for each other at parties, and if you don't feel 99% sure about leaving her, don't.

Can't be too carefull, I've known too many girls who've been raped at parties and it makes me very mad to know this shit happens even that often..

Posted by Essential1 on Oct-08-2001 16:52:

quote:
Originally posted by jeronemango
its your own fault..

some guy is watching u and ur gf making out and hes drunk.. then you leave ,, this guy is all horny.. what did u expect him to do just sit there and play with himself?? you know how guys get when they are drunk...

you are pretty lucky,, and is your gfs safety more important than meeting your friend ??

but this is different, because she's known this guy for a few years now, and he's NEVER tried anything, even when he was drunk. we've been in that exact situation before, and nothing happened. and YES, my gf's safety is much more important than my friend, but i tend to be a little over-protective of her sometimes and she gets pissed off because she thinks i don't trust her. i hope now she understands that i trust her, i just don't trust other guys.