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How do you get your way with people? (Wuahahahahahaha. . . .)
How do you influence or manipulate people? How do get people to do things you want them to do? How do you avoid doing things for people because you don't want to do them?
When negotiating for somthing, I always concede something so that the other person concedes something too, even though they never would have conceded anything to begin with. Its a reflexive behavior that you can take advantage of.
i get my way by refusing to do it there way. to avoid doing things for people, i make up bullshit...
Friend: "andy, wanna help me with my calc."
Andy (me): "sorry man, cant tonight. im busy not helping you with your calc."
Friend: "Oh... ok?"
Andy (me): "yeah..."
D-Res, Nice tactic cos they get the point you don't want to.
yup yup
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is it just me or is the COR deader than usual....
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its probably too early, you know hangovers
yeah i know ta is global but most are from north america.
fuck it i'm going back to bed too.
lol.. my schedule was weird today....
yesterday i got home from school at about 3 pm and and at about 7 oclock i was watching TV, and thinkin of something to do, because me and some people wanted to do something, but werent sure what.... anyway, at 7pm im watching TV and i just fell asleep. i woke up this morning at about 2 and have been up ever since.... craziness.
I manipulate them with advanced psychological techniques I learned in teh secret psychology classes I took which taught me how to read minds. 
or I just tell em the truth, no I am busy/don't want to help. iman honest guy.
I learned my techniques from women. 
But how do you get people to do things they ordinarily wouldn't do?
He, he, he
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| Originally posted by Vlad I learned my techniques from women. |
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| Originally posted by Spacey Orange But how do you get people to do things they ordinarily wouldn't do? He, he, he |
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| Originally posted by DannyO You can't learn them all cos ou don't have tits or a poon. I think, your a guy yea??? |
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| Originally posted by Boomer187 alcohol |
I don't consciously seek to manipulate people...it just happens, I suppose
I lure them into thinking that I'm really passive or apathetic, then I surprise the shit out of them after intense analyzation. I bring it down on them hard if they ever do something I dislike - I'm always watching people, always critiquing, just in case I ever need to use it against them someday. That's my influence over others - observation.
Usually, after I berate someone for doing something REALLY stupid, they know that I've been watching them even though it didn't seem like I noticed them in the least bit. Then, they know enough not to do anything stupid around me anymore.
Other than that, I really don't manipulate people to my whim - most of the time I don't care what incidence people may have with me 
I look at them with wide blue eyes....maybe blush a little and turn my head to the side.
speak softly....
and smile.
Works every time.
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| Originally posted by Echo of Silence I look at them with wide blue eyes....maybe blush a little and turn my head to the side. speak softly.... and smile. Works every time. |
just make it sound like it could benefit them to benefit you
you call them a pussy.
when dealing with guys u dont understand how often that works.
nah man i dont want to do that"
"what are you a pussy"
"IM NO PUSSY!"
works everytime
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| Originally posted by Vivid Boy you call them a pussy. when dealing with guys u dont understand how often that works. nah man i dont want to do that" "what are you a pussy" "IM NO PUSSY!" works everytime |
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| Originally posted by Vivid Boy you call them a pussy. when dealing with guys u dont understand how often that works. nah man i dont want to do that" "what are you a pussy" "IM NO PUSSY!" works everytime |
I'm an expert at negotiation and I'm one of the few people that salespeople just hate. It is fun refuting their hooks and tossing it back at them. Only 2 people on earth, I won't bother to argue with...hehehehe....My mother is one and I'll leave the other name out.
I enjoy negotiation at times and I'm not scared to try to get a better price. I think once you understand business companies and their methods, you have a better idea of what to do.
Some people will argue and some won't, c'est la vie.
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| Originally posted by Boomer187 alcohol |
The best way is using strong phrases such as "You should drink, its the right thing to do"
if they push back ask how its the wrong thing to do
also everyone in the house are basically alcohol philosophy majors, so saying that drinking isnt neccessarily a bad idea, and that if they want to not drink they could always be twice as cool and not not drink...
sigh...
Sometimes i just grab girl who have white shirts and tell them (as I kneel on their shoulders because I tackled them) that im going to pour wine, if their face happens to be under it, they have the option of drinking or spilling wine all over their pretty white shirt.
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| Originally posted by Echo of Silence I'm a wikked dominitrix! Whips and chains are for your pleasure, boyo! (nooooo, Sara, I'm not flirting with your intarweb bf!!! Just joking around! ) |
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