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Posted by djshan on Nov-25-2004 05:18:

Wtf?

ok theres this girl i kno, she went out with this guy who was from a different race then hers. the girl's cousins were not satisfied with her decison to go out with a guy just because hes of a different race. so then this girl decides to break up becuase otherwise her cuzns will disown her. i just think thats a stupid reason to break up. some people in this world


Posted by Halcyon+On+On on Nov-25-2004 05:30:

Well, it was *her* choice. If she had thought that he was truly something special, she probably wouldn't have broken up with him at all, much less see the illusion of 'race'.


Posted by sensorium on Nov-25-2004 05:32:

Women.


Posted by djshan on Nov-25-2004 05:33:

quote:
Originally posted by Halcyon+On+On
Well, it was *her* choice. If she had thought that he was truly something special, she probably wouldn't have broken up with him at all, much less see the illusion of 'race'.


umm thier was only 1 reason for breaking up, her cuzns were disowning her.


Posted by sensorium on Nov-25-2004 05:46:

Disowning? Wow, that's serious. I would break up for that too. Cousins come first, even if they're second.


Posted by Mebot on Nov-25-2004 05:52:

Uh I don't think I would put my cousins first for something like that. I mean if it was serious enough where they might think about getting married, then nothing on earth (well almost nothing) would make me want to not get married. This is the woman who i am going to spend the rest of my life with and I dont care what my cousins think because I will be with her and not them.


Also breaking up just because of what her cousins think just shows how narrow-minded and shallow she is.

Go ahead and follow what people say, yep..don't think or judge for yourself at all


Posted by Halcyon+On+On on Nov-25-2004 05:58:

quote:
Originally posted by Mebot

Also breaking up just because of what her cousins think just shows how narrow-minded and shallow is.



That's what I was getting at. When you meet someone truly special and worth your time (or at least, worth TA's time for this consideration) what your cousins think isn't going to really affect your decision in whether to stay with them or not. Since she left him because of something so trivial, it shows that he must not have been good enough for her anyways, regardless of 'race'.

Yes, it's stupid that people let others control their decisions, but the world is full of tools.


Posted by Mebot on Nov-25-2004 06:05:

quote:
Originally posted by Halcyon+On+On
That's what I was getting at. When you meet someone truly special and worth your time (or at least, worth TA's time for this consideration) what your cousins think isn't going to really affect your decision in whether to stay with them or not. Since she left him because of something so trivial, it shows that he must not have been good enough for her anyways, regardless of 'race'.

Yes, it's stupid that people let others control their decisions, but the world is full of tools.


Right exactly! Trouble is, it's hard to get someone to realize this.. its just the way people are I suppose.


Posted by sensorium on Nov-25-2004 06:12:

quote:
Originally posted by Mebot
Right exactly! Trouble is, it's hard to get someone to realize this.. its just the way people are I suppose.


Dude, when is that robot going to finish working?


Posted by Mebot on Nov-25-2004 06:15:

as soon as he finds the Yellow Treasure


Posted by Tranc3 on Nov-25-2004 06:17:

quote:
Originally posted by ierxium
Dude, when is that robot going to finish working?


step-step-step-step-step-step-DING!


Posted by beats and beeps on Nov-25-2004 06:18:

She obviously didnt like him much to start with if shes willing to part with him due to her cousins opinions...


Posted by Mebot on Nov-25-2004 06:18:

I should create a thread for Zharen thanking him for my avatar... but i'm tired and I think i'll go to sleep instead.


Posted by beats and beeps on Nov-25-2004 06:21:

quote:
Originally posted by ierxium
Dude, when is that robot going to finish working?

did you say robot?


Posted by Camwin on Nov-25-2004 11:05:

i don't get it, some of you's are saying that he mussint of bin good enuff for her anyway? so if her cuzzies wern't telling her wat to do she would breakup with him anyway? BS! from wat we know they could of got married and had a happier life if it wern't for those cousins of hers.


Posted by insecurity on Nov-25-2004 11:45:

quote:
Originally posted by Tranc3
step-step-step-step-step-step-DING!



tis a quality clip indeed (anyone have the link?)


Posted by Mebot on Nov-25-2004 16:30:

quote:
Originally posted by Camwin
i don't get it, some of you's are saying that he mussint of bin good enuff for her anyway? so if her cuzzies wern't telling her wat to do she would breakup with him anyway? BS! from wat we know they could of got married and had a happier life if it wern't for those cousins of hers.


What are you talking about? No one said anything about him being good enough for her.

And I believe we already remarked about marriage and love and stuff..


Posted by Mebot on Nov-25-2004 16:33:

quote:
Originally posted by insecurity
tis a quality clip indeed (anyone have the link?)


http://www.newgrounds.com/portal/view/193426


Posted by djshan on Nov-26-2004 00:52:

quote:
Originally posted by Camwin
i don't get it, some of you's are saying that he mussint of bin good enuff for her anyway? so if her cuzzies wern't telling her wat to do she would breakup with him anyway? BS! from wat we know they could of got married and had a happier life if it wern't for those cousins of hers.


exactly. she even said that if she continued with the relationship, she would have fallen in love with him. once again, the only reason her cuzns disowned her, is becuase the guy is not the same race. thats what she told me.


Posted by Halcyon+On+On on Nov-26-2004 01:20:

It's no fucking wonder that so many marriages turn into divorce. There are so many idiots expecting eventualities it's fucking stupid. Not everyone was *meant* to love - you weren't put on this Earth MEANT to one day fall in love, get married, and have lots of little kids of your own. It just so happens that it's the path that meny seem to want to take, so they form their life around this pathetically hopeless and boring prefect, wanting to fall in love with anyone, just searching for that right person. In truth, there is no right person out there for you, just waiting to fall in love and fuck you until children come out - it's just a side effect of our nature and of our society. People can conform to whatever way they want to - so many fail to realize that they will be overwhelming elated the moment they let go of expectation and choose to actually live their own lives. The truth is, freedom scares people - they're too afraid to think for themselves and with good excuse: reality can be a very scary place, but as long as you act with pure honesty, I don't believe there are any "mistakes" in life.

If she was truly in love with him (there is no such thing as she would have eventually fallen in love with him) then she would not have left him just because of what her fucking cousins say. Who listens to their cousins anyways?

Perhaps I'm wrong though, perhaps she truly did love him and she left him because of what others told her to do. In that case, she is a fucking moron for passing up one of the greatest things this world has to offer, and is not even worth our judgement. Somehow though, I doubt that's even possible for someone who is truly in love with another.


Posted by Camwin on Nov-26-2004 01:49:

imo true love doesn't come like that, like you said, ,
quote:
In truth, there is no right person out there for you
I think a relationship has to be worked on before you get to the point of true love, you can't just rely on 'fate' like ppl do.


Posted by DaveSZ on Nov-26-2004 01:50:

quote:
Originally posted by Halcyon+On+On
Well, it was *her* choice. If she had thought that he was truly something special, she probably wouldn't have broken up with him at all, much less see the illusion of 'race'.



Right.

Haven't you seen that movie about Bruce Lee?


Posted by Azz3D on Nov-26-2004 02:01:

I've got a friend who's hindu and his girl is muslim. They've been going out for 3 years and neither of the parents from either side know about it...

love has no boundaries
fuck religon


Posted by Camwin on Nov-26-2004 02:04:

thats a mass nuclear waiting to happen


Posted by Mebot on Nov-26-2004 02:18:

quote:
Originally posted by Halcyon+On+On
It's no fucking wonder that so many marriages turn into divorce. There are so many idiots expecting eventualities it's fucking stupid. Not everyone was *meant* to love - you weren't put on this Earth MEANT to one day fall in love, get married, and have lots of little kids of your own. It just so happens that it's the path that meny seem to want to take, so they form their life around this pathetically hopeless and boring prefect, wanting to fall in love with anyone, just searching for that right person. In truth, there is no right person out there for you, just waiting to fall in love and fuck you until children come out - it's just a side effect of our nature and of our society. People can conform to whatever way they want to - so many fail to realize that they will be overwhelming elated the moment they let go of expectation and choose to actually live their own lives. The truth is, freedom scares people - they're too afraid to think for themselves and with good excuse: reality can be a very scary place, but as long as you act with pure honesty, I don't believe there are any "mistakes" in life.


yeah plus it's just our animal instinct to mate and procreate... seems more and more that our species just isn't a species that stays with one partner all our lives like ... uh well i forget what other animals stay with just 1 partner all their lives, but you get the idea...


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