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Posted by StalkerElmo on Nov-30-2004 03:51:

Help with Sex and Pregancy? (Info Needed)

well guys i've been goin out with this girl and yeah i had sex for the first time but that's not the point, i'm just really paranoid about getting my girl pregnant and i heard many many stories where girls got pregnant over like the smallest situations possible, i was wondering for all you sex addicts has ever got a girl pregnant or am i being too paranoid about getting soemone pregnant, like of course i use protection and shit but like they are stories that involve "pre-cum" on the condom that can actually get her pregnant? i need to know real facts and truth so please if anyone has anything important i should know about pregnancy and sexual intercourse please HELP! calling all trance..err sex-addicts out there! like how can i possibly get her pregnant when i put the condom on first, and don't like bust inside of her but like yeahh im just really you know insecure about this.. i'm young too and can't risk getting a baby at this age.. any comments would be appreciated

thanks : )

Posted by Vlad on Nov-30-2004 03:52:

pre cum can get a girl pregnant.

Posted by denys envy on Nov-30-2004 03:52:

if you use protection you're fine

Posted by StalkerElmo on Nov-30-2004 03:53:

okay but like how can this happen, like, you pre-cum and then you put on a condom, and then you realize that you put the condom on the other way around so that the precum is on the outside of the condom so when you have sexual intercourse the precum goes inside of her and gets her pregnant? like WTf hello!

Posted by StalkerElmo on Nov-30-2004 03:54:

like is it just me being soo stupid and paranoid over these small things? like how many people have you guys fucked and have not gotten her pregnant and like you guys use protection of course but damnit i dont know help !!

Posted by TweeK on Nov-30-2004 03:55:

What you talkin' about Wellis?

Posted by dieselbambino69 on Nov-30-2004 03:56:

i didnt read the post but yes sex can get a girl pregnant

Posted by StalkerElmo on Nov-30-2004 03:56:

basically what im saying is

if i use protection, i.e condom does not break

and i do not bust inside her
and that i clean myself before sex..

use a new condom every time.. considering that the condom doesnt break

theres no way i can get her pregnant right, RIGHT???!?

Posted by dieselbambino69 on Nov-30-2004 03:59:

quote:
Originally posted by StalkerElmo
basically what im saying is

if i use protection, i.e condom does not break

and i do not bust inside her
and that i clean myself before sex..

use a new condom every time.. considering that the condom doesnt break

theres no way i can get her pregnant right, RIGHT???!?

unless a stork saw u thru the window. ur good to go buddy

Posted by StalkerElmo on Nov-30-2004 04:01:

im guessing what u just said is something that will most likely that will never happen but thank you

Posted by tribu on Nov-30-2004 04:01:

Ok, heres what I can tell you about sex.

NEVER EVER EVER cum anywhere near a girl's vagina. Anything below the belly button or above mid thigh is way too close. If she jacks you off, and you orgasm on her hand, dont let her touch herself until shes washed her hand. Always wear a condom. Make sure its on properly, and when you feel like youre about to orgasm, PULL OUT. Do not orgasm and then continue to have sex. Hold the base of the condom to your penis as you pull out of the girl to make sure it doesnt slip off. Sperm can escame the penis before orgasm, and can survive between your penis and the condom for a short time (These are the examples you have heard about "pre-cum" getting a girl pregnant). Once you have cum, remove the condom and wash your dick, balls, and general pubic area with soap and water. Always use a fresh condom after one orgasm. If you get semen on your own hands, wash them as well before fingering her or touching/stimulating her vagina.

GET HER ON BIRTH CONTROL. A CONDOM IS NOT ENOUGH. If shes afraid to ask her parents for birth control, you should consult your local laws about what age a woman (or young lady) can have access to birth control, and how discreet they may be. If she doesnt want her parents or inssurance to cover it HELP HER FOOT THE BILL. You dont want a child anymore than she does, and helping her pay for birth control is a great way to keep it from the parents if the situation calls for it. Im not condoning rebelling against your parents, but some parents refuse to admit that their children are at a sexually active age, regardless of the situation. Once she is on birth control DO NOT STOP USING CONDOMS. Neither method is entirely fool proof, but using two together is your best bet.

This is all Ive got for right now. Ill post again if I think of more.

Posted by StalkerElmo on Nov-30-2004 04:03:

that's some good info right there but i'm pretty sure shes gonna be on birth control she's too young at this age, but yeah my best bet that i could only get is what you tell me about involving condoms, birth control i cant deal with it yet..

Posted by Xenocreator_PG_ on Nov-30-2004 04:06:

quote:
Originally posted by StalkerElmo
basically what im saying is

if i use protection, i.e condom does not break

and i do not bust inside her
and that i clean myself before sex..

use a new condom every time.. considering that the condom doesnt break

theres no way i can get her pregnant right, RIGHT???!?

get her on teh pill & dont worry about using teh condom

Posted by tribu on Nov-30-2004 04:06:

quote:
Originally posted by StalkerElmo
that's some good info right there but i'm pretty sure shes gonna be on birth control she's too young at this age, but yeah my best bet that i could only get is what you tell me about involving condoms, birth control i cant deal with it yet..

My advice is, if you think youre old enough (and responsible enough) to be having sex then youd better start thinking about birth control as well. Are you in the States? Tell me which state, and Ill see if I can find some info. How old are you and your gf? Honestly, you shouldve been thinking about birth control before you became sexually active (I figured you didnt just meet and start fucking, there was probably some kind of progression both in your relationship and sexually), but its never too late. Birth control is for anyone having sex, regardless of age.

quote:
Originally posted by Xenocreator_PG_
get her on teh pill & dont worry about using teh condom

Dont listen to this guy. The old saying, two is better than one certainly applies here.

Posted by RandomGirl on Nov-30-2004 04:08:

Posted by StalkerElmo on Nov-30-2004 04:17:

i'm 16 and she's 15.. very young indeed

Posted by StalkerElmo on Nov-30-2004 04:18:

and no im not from states i'm from toronto, canada

i dont know about access to birth controls like should i just not have sex to risk up getting a baby or just use a condom and become extremely cautious while im having intercourse?

Posted by dieselbambino69 on Nov-30-2004 04:20:

quote:
Originally posted by StalkerElmo
and no im not from states i'm from toronto, canada

i dont know about access to birth controls like should i just not have sex to risk up getting a baby or just use a condom and become extremely cautious while im having intercourse?

put it in her pooper. this way u can tell her shes still technically a virgin

Posted by Mebot on Nov-30-2004 04:22:

yeah what tribu said

just pull out before you do the happy shudder dance and nug all over her boobs instead... and wear a condom too

Posted by Yohan on Nov-30-2004 04:27:

The fact that you're 16 and you had sex already with your gf without thinking about pregnancy and prevention makes me wonder if you've got your head on straight. (At least you're asking advice now, so maybe you shouldn't be eliminated from the gene pool yet)

Weren't you paying attention during puberty class in grade 5?

Posted by tribu on Nov-30-2004 04:29:

quote:
Originally posted by EvilTree
The fact that you're 16 and you had sex already with your gf without thinking about pregnancy and prevention makes me wonder if you've got your head on straight. (At least you're asking advice now, so maybe you shouldn't be eliminated from the gene pool yet)

Weren't you paying attention during puberty class in grade 5?

+1

From what I can gather, birth control is avaliable to Canadians for a nominal price. Youll have to go through her parents until she turns 16. Maybe it would be wiser for you to wait until she turns 16 and has access to additionaly contraception before having sex again (I know this may not seem feasible, but cmon man).

(Also, if some Canadian TA, probably Theresa, can confirm this, thatd be nice too)

Posted by smokeape on Nov-30-2004 04:31:

No such thing as pre-cum? ONe little wiggler is all it takes. In fact, a whole pile of wigglers have got to fight amongst one another to get to the egg first on a full blow and then it might be chancey at that, depending on whether a fertile egg is present. If you have sex without a condom from the get go, then you're taking that chance. The chance might be slim indeed, but it's a chance nonetheless that you can't ignore unless your partner is using some kind of birth control herself to reduce the odds even further.

Don't worry too much. In the old days, we just used to worry about pulling out in time. Lol!!!!

[[[smoke]]]

Max Graham ft Jessica Riddle - Gone

Posted by Halcyon+On+On on Nov-30-2004 04:34:

Very good post, Tribu.

It would be good for you to not just refer to that information, but KNOW it - sex is a past-time for pretty much everybody, so there's no excuse to be ill-informed.

As I told TweeK once, there's not much we can do about you having sex, seeing as how we're not your parents, but whatever you do - JUST WEAR A CONDOM!!!

Even if you're just on a date - be wearing your condom the entire time! Ok, maybe not that extreme, but always carry some with you in your wallet or whatever it is Canadians use.

I think I heard once that latex (what condoms are made of) is only about 98% effective in birth-control. To be sure of things, pull out! As you said, you're both very young and, though you shouldn't even RISK having children, at the very least be absolutely safe about things.

I'm not sure about girls and how their age affects female-contraceptives, but there's plenty of options out there: diaphragms, pills, patches, day-after pill...don't they have a gum now?

Just be safe, please - you can't ruin your life this early.

Posted by PhloTron on Nov-30-2004 04:41:

No matter how much protection you use you inherit the risk of getting the girl prego...just like said...even if it's just a hand job, any bit of the mess getting downstairs means there is a chance...all be it .00001%

The only sure way to not get her prego is to not do her...and since that's not an option...do most of the stated above and hope that your prayers are always answered

Posted by JM on Nov-30-2004 04:45:

its actually harder than it seems... not that i've tried. thing is that it only takes 1 time, so play it safe EVERY TIME.

take advice from a seasoned professional, well just someone who's been a very lucky bastard thus far...

>JM<

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