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Posted by BxNemo on Dec-02-2004 23:53:

Need a ladies opinion.

Alright heres the deal, a couple of you know that i sorta got involved with a girl a while back... i made some posts about it and a thread. Now, being that i'm a stupid ass jerk i went and fucked things up because of this whole thing that happened with my mom. What happened (in a nutshell) is that i got drunk, pissed at everyone and started saying dumb shit. Now all my anger was at my mom but like the dumbass that i am i took it out on her... while i was drunk. I've only known this girl for about a month and i'm allready falling in fourletterword with her. she means alot to me and she's by far the best girl that i've ever been involved with for MANY reasons. She told me that she would forgive me but she needed space... It's been 3 days since i've spoken to her and i've been REALLY depressed so today, i decided that i would do something nice... now.. i'm not trying to get her to forgive me BUT if it happens along the way i won't mind.

This is me :

This is her :

These are the flowers :

I picked em out myself... didn't arange em but picked em.

This is the bear :

Red happens to be her favorite color and she's half mexican so i thought it would be perfect. I'm also giving her my No One On Earth vinyl because its one of her favorite tracks (mine too) and we listened to it alot when we were together.

This is the card :

Just incase you can't read it the inside says "I think it was me, I'm sorry"

now... in this case.. how would you girls feel about this whole thing? another thing is that about a week ago or so i bought her a dozen roses because i showed up to her place unanounced and felt a bit bad about it... Turns out she wanted to see my anyways lol.
So i need some feedback ladies...
thanks in advanced.

Posted by INDY on Dec-03-2004 00:03:

OMG SERGE!! if i was that girl..i will so forgive you...

bleh..go for it hunay..that is soo sweet of you to do so..but i hope you learned from your mistake..whatever that is. not alot of guys are like you and what you are about to do..which is admit that they are wrong.

good luck

indy

Posted by glittergirl on Dec-03-2004 01:08:

its not about what you buy her that will make her forgive you...
its how sincere you are.

i think all this stuff is a start, and a nice touch...
but make sure that what you say to her when you give it to her is meaningful and honest.

and it doesnt hurt to admit when you're wrong. girls love that.

Posted by Vlad on Dec-03-2004 01:10:

Sergio, just a bit of advice.

NEVER, use the words "I think", because that shows doubt.

Write... 'It was me, Im sorry'.

Posted by RachUCF1001 on Dec-03-2004 01:20:

quote:
Originally posted by Vlad
Sergio, just a bit of advice.

NEVER, use the words "I think", because that shows doubt.

Write... 'It was me, Im sorry'.

oh GODDDDDD

Serge,

I think its all amazing, and Im SURE you'll win her heart. Not too many guys do stuff like that... and girls know that so Im sure she'll be very happy! Good luck sweetie

Posted by Vlad on Dec-03-2004 01:22:

Oh god what? Youre a girl you dont understand...

Posted by RachUCF1001 on Dec-03-2004 01:23:

BTW

WHERE IS MY, I MEAN YOUR--HAIRRRRRRRRRRRRRRR!??!?!

dear lord you had the best hair, bring it back bring it back!

(not that it looks bad or anything!)

Posted by RachUCF1001 on Dec-03-2004 01:25:

quote:
Originally posted by Vlad
Oh god what? Youre a girl you dont understand...

Vlad you are so WEIRDDDDDDDDDD sometimes!

Can't you see its the CARD!?!?!? the CARD says it, and its supposed to be CUTE.

You are reading WAY too far into it. wayyy too far

Posted by Vlad on Dec-03-2004 01:31:

quote:
Originally posted by RachUCF1001
Vlad you are so WEIRDDDDDDDDDD sometimes!

Can't you see its the CARD!?!?!? the CARD says it, and its supposed to be CUTE.

You are reading WAY too far into it. wayyy too far

Im gonna bite you again, next time I see you.

Posted by phuzzyfish12 on Dec-03-2004 02:39:

WOW!!!!!! Go for it, if she is as into you as it seems she'll love it... the fact that she said she needed time is a good sign....she didn't run away screaming. Just rememeber to be honest and true to your feelings and she will see that come through.

GO FOR IT!!!!

PS the gifts are great

Posted by BxNemo on Dec-03-2004 02:49:

quote:
Originally posted by Vlad
Sergio, just a bit of advice.

NEVER, use the words "I think", because that shows doubt.

Write... 'It was me, Im sorry'.

vlad, YOU MUST get better glasses, that 'I THINK' is part of the actual card, i would never write 'i think' i was even going to slash out think and write know next to it, please dood, don't offend me like that, i know about girls... not as much as i'd like but enough

Posted by Vlad on Dec-03-2004 02:55:

Relax guy, I didnt realize that it was part of the card.

Posted by BxNemo on Dec-03-2004 03:04:

quote:
Originally posted by Vlad
Relax guy, I didnt realize that it was part of the card.

relax vlad, it was mostly sarcasm

Posted by Miss Bliss on Dec-03-2004 03:35:

Hey, aren't GIRLS supposed to be the ones who make things complicated? CHILL OUT!! She'll love it! She'll hug and kiss you all night long!! lol

Posted by BxNemo on Dec-03-2004 03:41:

i'm afraid that that didn't happen, we're talking online but she doesn't wanna tell me if its a today thing... or if shes forgiven me... all i want is things to go back to normal.

Posted by Miss Bliss on Dec-03-2004 03:43:

quote:
Originally posted by BxNemo
i'm afraid that that didn't happen, we're talking online but she doesn't wanna tell me if its a today thing... or if shes forgiven me... all i want is things to go back to normal.

did you give the presents to her?

Posted by BxNemo on Dec-03-2004 03:49:

no, i delivered em

Posted by verndogs on Dec-03-2004 04:15:

and after you hopefully make up, take her out to the cereal restaurant in philly

Posted by BxNemo on Dec-03-2004 04:18:

quote:
Originally posted by verndogs
and after you hopefully make up, take her out to the cereal restaurant in philly

thank god for the first postive male response lol. yeah i actually had that planned... i'm still talking to her now and i plan on bringing that up..

Posted by intelligent77 on Dec-03-2004 04:43:

how old are you? how old is she?

I know how i am.. when I say i want space.. give it to me or I'll dump your ass for not respecting my space!

I say give her space.. a guy who pushes too hard isn't attractive. have patience and don't move on. I'm sure by now you've told her how you feel.. now you have to wait for her to make the move!... i'd say don't call her for at least a week.. then check up on her.. without being pushy!

Posted by BxNemo on Dec-03-2004 04:51:

i'm nearly 20, still a child and she's nearly 20 too

Posted by DeRangedMind on Dec-03-2004 05:05:

Vlad stfu you never dated anyone so fuck off

Posted by BxNemo on Dec-03-2004 05:30:

quote:
Originally posted by Cobra Commander
Vlad stfu you never dated anyone so fuck off

now, that may be true but thats harsh

Posted by Trancer-X on Dec-03-2004 07:00:

quote:
Originally posted by Cobra Commander
Vlad stfu you never dated anyone so fuck off

Ouch!

Posted by pyro264jb on Dec-03-2004 07:05:

quote:
Originally posted by BxNemo
vlad, YOU MUST get better glasses, that 'I THINK' is part of the actual card, i would never write 'i think' i was even going to slash out think and write know next to it, please dood, don't offend me like that, i know about girls... not as much as i'd like but enough

I hope she doesn't read or have any knowledge of trance addict b'c if she does this is all going to look very fake in her eyes. Usually if girls feel like your fake they associate that with being robotic. (Not a good thing)

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