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alright...so there is this secretary in our office building i've been wanting to bone for basically as long as i've worked here (4 years)...i never really pursude it in because i was in one relationship or another... being that i'm a free man and all...i've been thinking about it again. i don't have any problem actually asking her out...just wondering what people think about dating people at work?

here are some details on this particular case if that helps...

we've always kinda joked around about going out to the bars, but it never really seems to work out...usually because i've been hesitant to make it happen. one time i did drunk dial her cell and confess my secret crush to her...that was kind of a bad idea hahaha...so she obviously knows i like her. she also did something similar at one point where she drunk dialed my friends cell phone at like 3am thinking it was mine...we started talking yesterday and she started telling me how her friend that also works here is moving and so she doesn't have her to go out with anymore. i kind of casually said...well you can come drink with me and she seemed interested in the idea...

i dunno...is this even a good idea? i plan on working here for a while still while i finish school... should i even create problems for myself? she is pretty smoking hot...

anyway...discuss...

Get 'er fired then get 'er done.

I'd say go for it. But if it gets serious & you guys break it off that might be tough. I have dated 2 women I worked with seriously. One for 6 months first & the other for 3 years & they were back to back. And they both worked together. Ya it was tough but at the office I worked at back then there were alot of beutiful girls around my age, so I actually was cheating on my girlfriend (3 years) with alot of different girls at the office. Then I was in my early 20's & actually still hold the record for hittin the most women at that office. But now that im older it really isnt as good of a record than I thought. I'd say tap it, but take it slow.

yeah...i guess i'm not really looking for anything serious. i've always been in long term relationships. i naturally seem to turn that direction hehehe, but i just need someone to go out and have fun with right now...maybe i'll do it...set something up for the weekend maybe...

ps. cheating is bad mmmkay

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Originally posted by Floorfiller yeah...i guess i'm not really looking for anything serious. i've always been in long term relationships. i naturally seem to turn that direction hehehe, but i just need someone to go out and have fun with right now...maybe i'll do it...set something up for the weekend maybe...

Then if its not going to be serious anytime soon & seeing you do have a crush on her. Without a doubt go for it.

Quit your job.

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Originally posted by Floorfiller yeah...i guess i'm not really looking for anything serious. i've always been in long term relationships. i naturally seem to turn that direction hehehe, but i just need someone to go out and have fun with right now...maybe i'll do it...set something up for the weekend maybe...

ur such a girl.


Take her to vegas



oh and make sure you make it clear what your intentions are. It'll suck if she expects something different.

As my sister would say, "you don't shit where you eat". Bad idea to date someone in the same company. Live and learn.

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Originally posted by Boomer187 ur such a girl. Take her to vegas oh and make sure you make it clear what your intentions are. It'll suck if she expects something different.

i ain't gonna pay to bring some biznitch to vegas and then have her run off with your chip n dale roomates hahaha

but yeah...i'm an honest person...i'd make myself clear.


and shit...what if she isn't even interested? what if she is just doing the typical i'm a secretary and like a lot of attention from everyone in the office routine...hmmmm....

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Originally posted by Boomer187 Take her to vegas

bring her to the boomer


id say take her out to a bar if thats what shes looking for and see what shes like outside of work.

honestly, i've been attracted to people i work with, but when i'm with them 8+ hours a day, i want to get the fuck away from them by the end of the day!! i guess it's okay if you work for a big company and you don't see them all that much, but i can't imagine seriously dating someone who works with me.

i guess it'd be cool if i became really good friends with someone i worked with and we had sloppy drunk sex one night. i would never start a serious relationship with a co-worker though.

i need pics before i give you my opinion

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Originally posted by jonze234 bring her to the boomer id say take her out to a bar if thats what shes looking for and see what shes like outside of work.

well...i have actually bumped into her downtown..but i was with my ex so i didn't really want to go there hehehe...

i know what she is like. she loves to go out...she always gets lots of attention i'm sure because as i said...she's smoking hot. and really i wonder why she isn't taken...

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Originally posted by l�cid honestly, i've been attracted to people i work with, but when i'm with them 8+ hours a day, i want to get the fuck away from them by the end of the day!! i guess it's okay if you work for a big company and you don't see them all that much, but i can't imagine seriously dating someone who works with me. i guess it'd be cool if i became really good friends with someone i worked with and we had sloppy drunk sex one night. i would never start a serious relationship with a co-worker though.

yeah...it's not like we work in the same office. basically i have my own office in a building full of office suites. she is one of the receptionists for the entire building. so i pretty much see her when i come in and leave...and if i go to the break room for a snack or something...it's not like she works for me and we are sitting across from each other hehehe...

but yeah that's a good point you're making...

Jesus christ, everyone is always talking about working.

You guys are getting too old for this

+1 to sloppy drunk sex with l�cid.......I mean....with that there secretary chiXz0rz.

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Originally posted by beats and beeps Jesus christ, everyone is always talking about working. You guys are getting too old for this

i think most of us are still students...we just also have jobs...

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Originally posted by Floorfiller and really i wonder why she isn't taken...

shes waiting for you?

take her out and see if you guys hit it off, if not then no harm. make sure you arent in the friend zone first.

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Originally posted by Floorfiller i think most of us are still students...we just also have jobs...

I dunno, maybe my school is messed up, because I only know one guy that works.

Unless youre talking about university. Shit, you probably are.

Shit, I'm too young for this

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Originally posted by jonze234 shes waiting for you? take her out and see if you guys hit it off, if not then no harm. make sure you arent in the friend zone first.

hmmmm good question...i hope i'm not in the friend zone hahaha. but what do you think...should i go the group route or one on one. i mean...i could just as easily say...hey all you secretaries...lets go out to celebrate that girl leaving bla bla...but then maybe that is too much friend zone...

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Originally posted by beats and beeps I dunno, maybe my school is messed up, because I only know one guy that works. Unless youre talking about university. Shit, you probably are. Shit, I'm too young for this

yeah i think university hehehe

pics or stfu?

hahaha lol.

Do it, but let her make the first move.

You know things may get uncomfortable at work later if things dont work out. She could obsessive & bring relationshio problems to work or vise versa! But shit happens; Thats office politics LOL. Nothing like giving it to her in teh pooper after a hard day at work

i'll see if i can somehow get a pic in this week hahaha. seriously...she's smoking hot people...just take my word for the time being...


*thinks up plan to get group picture of sectretaries*

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Originally posted by Floorfiller yeah...it's not like we work in the same office. basically i have my own office in a building full of office suites. she is one of the receptionists for the entire building. so i pretty much see her when i come in and leave...and if i go to the break room for a snack or something...it's not like she works for me and we are sitting across from each other hehehe...

Even I would go for that!

I've been in several situations while there was a mutual 'like/flirt/ifweweren'tworkingtogetherwe'dbeboning' between myself and another co-worker but, never let it go any further because we worked directly with one another. If it would have been similar to your situation, no question about it I'd be HI2U!

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