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A Dating Story

I don't want to try and be like Diabolic here but the reason im posting this is to get some feedback here.

So a couple of weeks ago im at home and my phone rings. I answer and it's a girl who i gave my number to at a club EONS ago. I had fogotten she had even existed until that moment. Anyways we ended up chatting for a long time and agreed to meet on the weekend. I had suggested she join myself and my friends at Guvernment since I had already made plans with them coming in from out of town. She was quite happy with the idea.

We spoke again a second time and the conversation kept turning into discussions about finances and she even asked me at one point how much money i make. I'm not embarassed about my finances but even so it's a very in appropriate question and i refused to answer instead just saying "enough to live comfortably." The line of questioning went even deeper into "what if" scenarios designed to see if she was talking to a guy who would be suckered into paying for her situations.

Normally by this point i would have scrapped the whole plans because this kind of thing to me is very unladylike but due to the fact that we had such good conversation beforehand and since i was intrigued to see how far she'd take this, i continued.

We agreed to meet that night at around 7ish. 8 oclock comes around and i still havnt heard from her so i continued on with the rest of my plans which included meeting up with with a good friend of mine and heading to the club to meet up with the out of town friends. 9:30, she calls and wants me to meet her at Yorkdale. (she had been shopping) OK fine so we head off to Yorkdale to pick her up.

Shes a nice looking cougar (early 30s) who looks like shania twain. Very nice body as well. Definately a head turner. So we decide to get a quick bite before heading to the club (since we were now running late thanks to her). I had to tie up a few loose ends as well so my friend went and ordered the food. SHe had known this guy for 15 minutes and do you think she even offers to pay for her food? NOPE! (i paid him back later at the bar)

So we get to the club and all is good but she puts her purse in the DJ booth and then says "lets go get a drink". Um, ok... whatever i dont mind. But at least pretend to care about paying for it (as mentioned in that other thread). Not bringing your purse to the bar is pretty cheesy even though i was going to buy.

So we end the night around 3ish and i take her back to her car... Being a gentleman i wont go into detail here but at around 5 am its time for her to go home. She says something like "i know you take care of ladies so i know you will fill my car with gas". I asked, "Do you not have money of your own?" She said yes but she felt it was my responsibilty as a man to make sure she had enough gas to get home!

WHATEVER!!

So she is sent packing without her gas and has now been calling me non-stop everyday since. FAAAK AAAAF.

I dont mind paying for dates, i dont mind treating women right, and to be honest this was not even really a date since it was very last minute and she was invited to come with the group. I would have loved to take her out again if she hadnt been such a gold digger. But hell when you want a guy to pay for you dont be so bloody obvious about it! Also, dont be asking about his personal finances when you barely know him!

let me tell you this, i dont care what a woman looks like, if her personality is ass then hit the road!

so did you get laid or what.

It's a well-known fact that single women in their early 30's are money-hungry and sex-hungry. They feel like they're in a rush to settle down, so they start focusing on what's really important in life: a husband with money, and making babies. Forget all that "love" nonsense. I wouldn't be surprised if she was previously divorced.






















Anyway, PM me her number.

Seriously, I'm known for being a total sucker to women. I always pay for everything.... with a smile!

Chivalry and all that...

I woulda kicked her to the curb at dinner.
I don't mind paying, but I hate being expected to provide. Since when does a girl deserve special treatment because she's female? What happened to equality? Last I checked, it's still a 2 way street.

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Originally posted by Sly_Guy I woulda kicked her to the curb at dinner. I don't mind paying, but I hate being expected to provide. Since when does a girl deserve special treatment because she's female? What happened to equality? Last I checked, it's still a 2 way street.

Equality ends when the bill arrives.

the neo feminists dont claim not to need men, the neo feminists equate power with how much they can screw somebody over to their gain.

Sadly its true.

^^^
as it would seem

Cool chicks are underrated. I think I'll raise my glass tonight at the bar and propose a toast to all the cool chicks of this world.

Ok, this chic was 2 and 1/2 hours late in meeting you guys up. Not only that, but she made you guys pick her up, pay for her food & drinks, and she f*cked you on the first date. That shows no respect towards herself, or you, or your friends.

Don't bother talking to a chic like that again. You could do so much better.

That's my feedback.

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Originally posted by Jayx1 Equality ends when the bill arrives. the neo feminists dont claim not to need men, the neo feminists equate power with how much they can screw somebody over to their gain. Sadly its true.

I wouldn't make this a political issue. If you want to get with her, you'll have to suck it up.

Women have all the power in relationships. Deal with it.





I'm much more concerend about feminism in other areas such as the shocking decline in birth rates in the West.

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Originally posted by ShadoWolf I wouldn't make this a political issue. If you want to get with her, you'll have to suck it up. Women have all the power in relationships. Deal with it. I'm much more concerend about feminism in other areas such as the shocking decline in birth rates in the West.

You my friend, are one of those pussies that ruin it for honest guys.

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Originally posted by Jayx1 You my friend, are one of those pussies that ruin it for honest guys.

Wrong. I'm the honest guy who pays for everything and then gets screwed over.


Reminds me of a track by Pinkbox Special.

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Originally posted by Miss Julia Ok, this chic was 2 and 1/2 hours late in meeting you guys up. Not only that, but she made you guys pick her up, pay for her food & drinks, and she f*cked you on the first date. That shows no respect towards herself, or you, or your friends. Don't bother talking to a chic like that again. You could do so much better. That's my feedback.

Exactly... Im quite sick of games and greedy people. There are a lot of decent women out there but there are way too many women like this as well that ruin it for them.

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and she f*cked you on the first date.

i never said that...but a gentleman never tells.

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Originally posted by ShadoWolf I wouldn't make this a political issue. If you want to get with her, you'll have to suck it up. Women have all the power in relationships. Deal with it.

Ha! Man, maybe you and me are just after different types of women. Relationships are partnerships. Hell I've been out on dates where the girl has insisted on paying.


Just because they're breaking up with me doesn't mean it's not a good gesture

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Originally posted by ShadoWolf Wrong. I'm the honest guy who pays for everything and then gets screwed over.

Exactly... so when women can push guys like you around then why should they bother with a guy who has a spine and sets limits.

You just implicated yourself there my friend.

he's got you there man. No one respects a pussy. Yes that pun is intended.

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Originally posted by Jayx1 Exactly... so when women can push guys like you around then why should they bother with a guy who has a spine and sets limits.

I don't consider paying for everything getting "pushed around," especially if the woman deserves it. I treat whomever I'm with like a princess.


I think our difference in view may be due in part to my chosen profession, which tends to attract a certain type of woman.

but hey, if I hav fun, everyone's happy right?

I've never paid for one thing for my GF... I mean, I'll get her a birthday present or something, but she can pay for her own drinks and her own tickets. We've been together for 1.5 years. There is absolutely no reason you should be paying for other people unless they're planning on paying for you at some time as well.

Complete user. Why you bothered with meeting her in the first place after the whole "financial" discussion is beyond me.
Good thing you decided not to get back together with her. If she'd have told me that i was nice therefore i would pay for her gas even though she had the money for it i would have laughed and told her plainly to go f*uck herself.

If she keeps calling you, telling her that might be a good option. You might also mention you're not into bitches who use men for their money and tell her you're not up for some bitch who's going to make you go bankrupt after a month of dating. If she wants someone like that she's better off going to a singles bar

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Originally posted by ShadoWolf I don't consider paying for everything getting "pushed around," especially if the woman deserves it. I treat whomever I'm with like a princess. I think our difference in view may be due in part to my chosen profession, which tends to attract a certain type of woman. but hey, if I hav fun, everyone's happy right?

My saying is this:

If you want to be treated like a princess you best be treating me like a prince because last i checked, princesses don't date peasants.

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Originally posted by loca Complete user. Why you bothered with meeting her in the first place after the whole "financial" discussion is beyond me. Good thing you decided not to get back together with her. If she'd have told me that i was nice therefore i would pay for her gas even though she had the money for it i would have laughed and told her plainly to go f*uck herself. If she keeps calling you, telling her that might be a good option. You might also mention you're not into bitches who use men for their money and tell her you're not up for some bitch who's going to make you go bankrupt after a month of dating. If she wants someone like that she's better off going to a singles bar

usually i would have cut her off but i figured there was no harm in seeing how it went since i was going to these places with my friends either way.

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Originally posted by ShadoWolf I don't consider paying for everything getting "pushed around," especially if the woman deserves it. I treat whomever I'm with like a princess. I think our difference in view may be due in part to my chosen profession, which tends to attract a certain type of woman. but hey, if I hav fun, everyone's happy right?

There's a difference between treating the girl you're with like a princess and getting walked on. You can treat a girl well without all that crap about "oh you have to pay for everything now because i'm shagging you"... whatever! If that's what they're after, they might as well become call girls, pays better.

Besides, after one too many girls like that you'll end up being bitter and resentful when you realise being used is just not that much fun.

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Originally posted by Jayx1 usually i would have cut her off but i figured there was no harm in seeing how it went since i was going to these places with my friends either way.

I guess... i would have had a semi-stroke though lol
I've been asked by previous (and bastard) boyfriends how much money my parents made. At first i had no problem telling them until i realised the aforementioned ex bastards thought that they could sucker money out of me because my parents were well off

Jayx1......
I REALLY gained respect for you in this situation.
I never have a problem taking care of a girl, but
if some BROAD tried to pull this gas trick?
Honestly, i'd have to take a few deep breaths.

THANK GOD you didn't succumb to her - GREAT job dood.

Money shouldnt even be an issue unless you are well into a relationship. Even then it should only be about "shit we cant do that this weekend because im broke" instead of "how much money do you make so i can leach off of you?"


here is some equality for you...

Women asking me what my salary is is no different than a guy asking what bra size she is or how what her technique is for giving head. They are all rude and innapropriate things to ask a nearly complete stranger.

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Originally posted by TheVrk Jayx1...... I REALLY gained respect for you in this situation. I never have a problem taking care of a girl, but if some BROAD tried to pull this gas trick? Honestly, i'd have to take a few deep breaths. THANK GOD you didn't succumb to her - GREAT job dood.

The gas trick was the topper to all the other events that had already implicated her.

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Originally posted by Jayx1 The gas trick was the topper to all the other events that had already implicated her.

Oh i know - i read the WHOLE story....

As u said: FAAAAAACK AAAAAAAAF

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