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Posted by Mr. Pink on Jan-26-2005 18:21:

I Can't Quit you baby...

...and indeed, I cannot quit her.

So here's the summary: Had a girlfriend that I loved very much. Possibly the hottest girl I ever did anything with, plus the greatest personality. She was c00l. I dont meet many girls like that.
Anywayz, we broke up due to long distance. She's in puerto rico and Im in atlanta, georgia.

Basically- things were amazing when i was home, but we mutually decided to go our own ways because i dont know when ill be going back to the island.

I am so fukin bummed out, its not even funny.

So I guess im asking: any words of advice?

Besides masterbating furiously and doing copius amounts of drugs (which ive been doing), what else is there?

Posted by Floorfiller on Jan-26-2005 18:25:

by her a ticket to the US and then marry her and then she can live there with you

just a thought heheh...

but that sucks man...i know she made you really happy. distance sucks ass...

Posted by UWM on Jan-26-2005 18:31:

You know my advice already

Posted by Mr. Pink on Jan-26-2005 18:32:

quote:
Originally posted by UWM
You know my advice already

lol
yeah i do

yeah jason- she did make me happy.....

but as rob and me were discussing yesterday: drugs and ladies lol

i need a rebound BAAAAAAAD

Posted by Floorfiller on Jan-26-2005 18:33:

why again doesn't she move to the US?

Posted by nchs09 on Jan-26-2005 18:34:

i got just the cure for u.... less downers more uppers .... damn sucks ur still bummed out!
maybe a party in kennesaw friday night will get u going again

Posted by mezzir on Jan-26-2005 18:35:

if you do anything drastic, like move there or have her move here, or anything else of interest, keep a daily log
cause in 10 years if you're tight on cash you could always turn it into a screenplay and make the ending all sappy and whatnot and make millions
cause thats all romantic comedies really are

Posted by Mr. Pink on Jan-26-2005 18:37:

quote:
Originally posted by Floorfiller
why again doesn't she move to the US?

Because she's only 19, she's got her whole life ahead of her..... We really didnt want to stop each other from accomplishing the goals we set out to do. I would buy her ticket, but again, its hard for people to leave puerto rico. Island mentality is so embedded into them that leaving signifies a mega change, or risk. I took it cuz i have big balls like that lol.

and mario, friday night yes.....parti-son in kennesaw.

Posted by Floorfiller on Jan-26-2005 18:42:

quote:
Originally posted by Mr. Pink
Because she's only 19, she's got her whole life ahead of her..... We really didnt want to stop each other from accomplishing the goals we set out to do. I would buy her ticket, but again, its hard for people to leave puerto rico. Island mentality is so embedded into them that leaving signifies a mega change, or risk. I took it cuz i have big balls like that lol.

and mario, friday night yes.....parti-son in kennesaw.

that's right. i forgot she was 19...she didn't look it hehe. well, i know it sucks but you guys are probably doing the right thing. i mean, you also have your whole life ahead of you. i know it's hard to lose someone that you really care about, but just remember all the great times you two had and hopefully someday you guys could cross paths again...

i say you have one of those awesome dorm parties you throw and try to have some fun instead of thinking about it.

Posted by jonSun on Jan-26-2005 18:43:

Why dont you try to move by her. She seems very important to you & for Love it might be worth it.

Posted by Mr. Pink on Jan-26-2005 18:50:

quote:
Originally posted by jonSun
Why dont you try to move by her. She seems very important to you & for Love it might be worth it.

yeah thats my dilema.... i spent my whole life saying id study in the States. Now im graduating in May from college.......now what?
I was planning on starting a career here, hence why i came here in the first place......MONEY!

but everything else i desire is back home in puerto rico, however i know i wont be making anywhere near as much money as i would in the USA.

i just dont know if im doing the right thing.

Posted by Floorfiller on Jan-26-2005 18:53:

quote:
Originally posted by Mr. Pink
yeah thats my dilema.... i spent my whole life saying id study in the States. Now im graduating in May from college.......now what?
I was planning on starting a career here, hence why i came here in the first place......MONEY!

but everything else i desire is back home in puerto rico, however i know i wont be making anywhere near as much money as i would in the USA.

i just dont know if im doing the right thing.

yeah but i would assume living in puerto rico wouldn't be as expensive as in the main land so you wouldn't need to make as much right?

i dunno...i mean...it's not like you couldn't try things there...and if it didn't work...you could come back to the mainland couldn't you?

the only thing i would be worried about in moving back is like you said...she's only 19. i mean...is this something that is going to last? definitely do some major thinking before you choose to move back to PR...

Posted by jonSun on Jan-26-2005 18:53:

How old are you & her.?

Posted by Mr. Pink on Jan-26-2005 18:57:

quote:
Originally posted by Floorfiller
definitely do some major thinking before you choose to move back to PR...

yeah.....truly, i know the best thing for me is to move on.

but my mind really doesnt want to.

and jonsun, im turning 22 soon, and she is 19

Posted by DarkAngel on Jan-26-2005 18:59:

Damn, Javi. Sorry to hear that shit happened. I wish I knew what to say, man.

Posted by jonSun on Jan-26-2005 19:02:

Your still young enough where if you do move & it doesnt work out you can easily bounce back. Like FF was saying im sure the cost of living is less in puerto rico than in the U.S. even though pay is less. You obviously have very very strong feelings for this girl so my advice is play with the idea of moving back to peurto rico after graduation. From what your saying on your feeling towards this girl its worth it. But im 27 & have also been in love with what I thought was the perfect girl for me many times & it always doesnt work out since people change including yourself.

Posted by jonSun on Jan-26-2005 19:04:

Also it seems a mian goal in life for you was to get a degree in the states & your achieving that. So maybe follow your heart now.

Posted by Mr. Pink on Jan-26-2005 19:06:

quote:
Originally posted by jonSun
Also it seems a mian goal in life for you was to get a degree in the states & your achieving that. So maybe follow your heart now.

point well taken...

thing is- she distinctly told me NOT to do that haha.

she didnt want to be the reason why i changed my plans of building up a career here in the states.

Plus- now she's not talking to me. I hear she's bummed out, but i think she's attempting to put a mental&emotional boundary between her and I.

which sucks cuz i miss her too much.

Posted by DarkAngel on Jan-26-2005 19:07:

Posted by squirrelly on Jan-26-2005 19:09:

quote:
Originally posted by Mr. Pink
bla bla bla....
i need a rebound BAAAAAAAD

Heh

I just chatted with you on this topic a few minutes ago... I'm not going to retype it all, but you'll be okay. Like I said, in a way, be glad for the distance because it'll help you two get over each other. It'd be even harder to break up if she was right there all the time. If it's meant to be, it will be, Javi.

/caringnicenun

Posted by Floorfiller on Jan-26-2005 19:10:

quote:
Originally posted by Mr. Pink
point well taken...

thing is- she distinctly told me NOT to do that haha.

she didnt want to be the reason why i changed my plans of building up a career here in the states.

Plus- now she's not talking to me. I hear she's bummed out, but i think she's attempting to put a mental&emotional boundary between her and I.

which sucks cuz i miss her too much.

yeah...i'm sure she doesn't want to be the reason for you moving back. and i'm sure she is hurting just as bad as you so that's why she is trying to put the block up. i dunno...maybe you should just move on man...it might take time, but you'll get over her...

Posted by Mr. Pink on Jan-26-2005 19:14:

quote:
Originally posted by Floorfiller
i dunno...maybe you should just move on man...it might take time, but you'll get over her...

everytime i think of some amazing memory with her...im happy for a second, then sad that those will never happen again.

and everytime i think of something negative- like her finding another guy, or her forgetting about me......i cant even begin to explain the emptiness i feel.

moving on is most definitely what i need to do, but doing it is so hard. And yes time will help, as time always does..... but this was a relationship that was so right that the thought of it ending, from her being everything in my life to her being but a fleeting memory, is probably one of the hardest facts i have had to face in my life.

sorry for the whiney bullshit, folks.

but im usually not like this.

Posted by Floorfiller on Jan-26-2005 19:18:

she but i can also remember a time pink when you posted about how you liked this other girl at a party or something (and you felt bad about it of course)...but that right there should tell you that your life isn't over. i mean...you WILL find another amazing woman to date...you got too much going for you to not...

Posted by Mr. Pink on Jan-26-2005 19:22:

quote:
Originally posted by Floorfiller
you WILL find another amazing woman to date...you got too much going for you to not...

i was at this party on saturday and i was completely obliterated.

Im watching a game of beer pong and peeps are dancing on all sides of me. My back faces this one chick and she softly starts to back into me while dancing. Im talking to this guy and the guy says "looks like some one is gettin some action", cuz this chick just keeps backing into me and looking at me. She was cute too!

I spazzed out and did nothing hehe

Posted by UWM on Jan-26-2005 19:23:

quote:
Originally posted by Mr. Pink
i was at this party on saturday and i was completely obliterated.

Im watching a game of beer pong and peeps are dancing on all sides of me. My back faces this one chick and she softly starts to back into me while dancing. Im talking to this guy and the guy says "looks like some one is gettin some action", cuz this chick just keeps backing into me and looking at me. She was cute too!

I spazzed out and did nothing hehe

Tell the other story where you did nothing!

lol

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