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Posted by Perfect_Cheezit on Feb-09-2005 03:52:

PC's Girl problem

Okay, there's a girl that I've been hanging out with alot lately. We both really like each other, in that way; coming up soon is the Valentine's Day dance at my school and we're both going with seperate people because before we started liking each other we had agreed to go with these people.

So I have a number of problems. So here we go with the key points:

1. This girl, her name is Sarah - we both like each other alot and its pretty clear to everyone around us and to each other, but we are afraid to say anything about it. We haven't known each other that long, maybe 4 weeks or so but we had known of each other and casually chatted before we started hanging out in the dating kind of sense. We call each other and text each other on mobile everyday, and we're pretty touchy/huggy with each other (havent kissed her yet though). She's going with her friend to the dance.

2. A girl who I think likes me whose name is Jenna had asked me to the dance about a month ago, before I started hanging out with Sarah. This puts me in a precarious position since I like Sarah and vice versa, and yet I'm bound by obligation to go with Jenna the same way Sarah is bound by obligation to go with her friend. I don't want anything funky to happen at the dance so I'm restraining myself.

3. Jenna doesn't know anything about Sarah. I'm not sure how I'm supposed to tell her that I'm interested in someone else.

4. Sarah and I aren't officially going out yet (remember I'm in high school and high school relationship workings are lame). I would just let the relationship continue in its upward trend as I had in past relationships except for the fact that Valentine's Day is next Monday.

5. I don't know what I should do for Valentine's Day with Sarah.

Please, TA, you've been helpful in these stupid girl problem threads in the past, and this is one is so trivial I just need some outside random internet guidance.

Posted by Orbax on Feb-09-2005 03:55:

Send sara a picture of you hugging a teddy bear and say I wish you were this bear. and also be boning it.

Posted by Max Thomson on Feb-09-2005 03:57:

pics bee-yatch

Posted by t�bias on Feb-09-2005 03:58:

Just go with the people you are meant to, but agree on a time to meet up for a secret Valentine's kiss with the girl you like.

Posted by Mebot on Feb-09-2005 04:00:

quit the fucking middle-man bullshit

YOU like Sarah

dont give a fuck about Jenna.. tell Sarah you like her... if that fails, tell Jenna you like her, if that fails then:

quote:
Originally posted by Orbax
Send sara a picture of you hugging a teddy bear and say I wish you were this bear. and also be boning it.

but tell Sarah you like her, without Jenna knowing.

Posted by r5a on Feb-09-2005 04:13:

DOUBLE DATE!!! be a player!

Posted by Allied Nations on Feb-09-2005 04:28:

Re: PC's Girl problem

quote:
Originally posted by Perfect_Cheezit

4. Sarah and I aren't officially going out yet (remember I'm in high school and high school relationship workings are lame). I would just let the relationship continue in its upward trend as I had in past relationships except for the fact that Valentine's Day is next Monday.

zoundz like middow skoow to meeeee

Posted by Allied Nations on Feb-09-2005 04:29:

Re: Re: PC's Girl problem

oh, and i bet jenna is hotter, or there would be no thread.

Posted by simplyatbliss on Feb-09-2005 05:21:

Go out w/ Sarah. If Jenna's attractive, tell her "You are beautiful, but you don't mean a thing to me."

This kind of situation is not that hard to get out of. If you like Sarah, then go out with her. If you don't like Jenna, don't.

Posted by Boomer187 on Feb-09-2005 05:24:

quote:
Originally posted by simplyatbliss
Go out w/ Sarah. If Jenna's attractive, tell her "You are beautiful, but you don't mean a thing to me."

This kind of situation is not that hard to get out of. If you like Sarah, then go out with her. If you don't like Jenna, don't.

dats a bad ass sig.

and cut to the chase with sarah, but tell her even though you are going with your friend jenna, you really wanna go with her. then mouth kiss her.

Posted by Lateralus on Feb-09-2005 05:28:

Somehow hook Jenna up with Sarah's date, then the two of you can walk off happily into the sunset. Problem solved.

Or you can always just blow Jenna off after the dance. You two arent going out, and its highschool. Its prefectly normal for your date to run off with someone else by the end of the night.

I wouldnt worry too much about it.

Posted by KilldaDJ on Feb-09-2005 16:07:

go and shag both of them

Posted by UWM on Feb-09-2005 16:11:

quote:
Originally posted by KilldaDJ
go and shag both of them

+1

Oh, and rufee their cocktails.

Posted by NiteMer on Feb-09-2005 16:28:

That's a tender situation. You don't wanna hurt Jenna's feelings. Go to the dance with her, do the secret kiss thing, if possible, and move forward from there. Be a little distant with Jenna afterwards, but still nice. If she confronts you, tell her that you like her as a friend, but aren't interested in her on a romantic level. She can choose how to take that, but it's a polite way to do it. Make sure Sarah likes you though. Just tell her that you wish you and her didn't have other dates, before you started hanging out, and that you would have taken her otherwise. See how she reacts. If she agrees, you're in. If she gets weird, you misread the situation.

Posted by l�cid on Feb-09-2005 16:33:

Perfect_Cheezit, i'd just like to thank you for having some of the best grammar, spelling, and punctuation i've ever seen from a high school kid on the internet.

Posted by UWM on Feb-09-2005 16:36:

Posted by NiteMer on Feb-09-2005 16:44:

Posted by l�cid on Feb-09-2005 16:52:

quote:
Originally posted by UWM
Haha you didn't capitalize your Is.

grammarnoobkthnxwtfbbq!!

i know. i didn't say i was perfect. i was just complimenting Mr. Cheezit.

Posted by mto on Feb-09-2005 17:39:

By only glancing at the title i thought you had a "PC Girlfriend."
I felt sad for you for a second.

Posted by Psiweaver on Feb-09-2005 20:03:

Such goodtimes. I would just tell jenna your not really interested in her but would be happen to be friends. Just make sure Sarah wants you first.

Posted by StereoPrincess on Feb-09-2005 22:27:

You have to go with Jenna. You can diss her this close before the dance. If she throws herself at you at the dance just tell her how you feel. In terms of Sarah, since she has a date anyways, get her a small gift for Valentine's just to let her know you were thinking about her during this holiday. And continue hanging out with Sarah until you feel comfortable enough to make it offical.

Posted by bassaholix on Feb-09-2005 22:44:

quote:
Originally posted by StereoPrincess
You have to go with Jenna. You can diss her this close before the dance. If she throws herself at you at the dance just tell her how you feel. In terms of Sarah, since she has a date anyways, get her a small gift for Valentine's just to let her know you were thinking about her during this holiday. And continue hanging out with Sarah until you feel comfortable enough to make it offical.

This has got to be the best or one of the best responses of the whole lot.

You are young and you are prone to making small mistakes.. but start early and do what is right.. tell Sarah how you feel about her with a small *SMALL!!!!* gift... and talk to her. Tell her that you promised Jenna to go with her as a friend, and make sure that is clear... if Sarah doesn't like you in the same way.. at least you will know.. nothing is worse then running around assuming stuff cause that can be a real time waster.

Get things sorted and done...

Good luck.. let us know how it went...

Posted by Audigy7 on Feb-10-2005 01:34:

quote:
Originally posted by Boomer187
dats a bad ass sig.

omfg, +1

Posted by Perfect_Cheezit on Feb-10-2005 01:44:

quote:
Originally posted by l�cid
Perfect_Cheezit, i'd just like to thank you for having some of the best grammar, spelling, and punctuation i've ever seen from a high school kid on the internet.

Thank you

Thanks everyone. I'm still stumped about the calibur of present I should get Sarah for Valentine's Day though. I know I have to do something, but what can I get her to show her that I like her but not something that will creep her out and turn her off to me?

Posted by smokeape on Feb-10-2005 01:44:

You're doing the right thing, Perfect. Go out separate and wink at each other. Arrange a date or something afterwards though so you both know where you stand at the Valentine's Dance. No need to dump dates at the dance, but no need to get involved with the dates either. The follow-on date you both agree to would set the tempo.

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