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Im officially a p_ussy (as if there were any doubt)
One, two, three....Thats the total amount of times Ive pussied out of asking a girl out in the last 24 hours.
Last night, I went to see a girl I used to work with whom I had a bit of a crush on (you may remember the thread). After talking to her for a few minutes I gave her my cell, but I felt like a bit of a knob asking for hers, so I just decided to go.
Today in class, I was sitting behind this cute girl, and she turned around to talk and smile at me a few times. During class, I thought, 'ok, I can ask this girl out'. Class ends and Im a bit nervous. I grab my things, and look to her, but she isn't quite ready to go. My plan was to walk out of the building with her, and maybe ask her for a coffee as we got outside, but I deicded to just say fuck it, and left.
Just now at work, this cute girl was here. When she came in, we talked a bit about her writing and then I let her get to work. Knowing she would only be in for a half an hour, I thought, maybe I could invite her out after her seminar (the reason her stay in the lab was only 30 minutes). She got up to leave, and I just felt like I couldn't say anything.
So what's my deal? I'm not gay (or if I am, I've never met a male I'm attracted to), and I really want to ask these girls out. But I just feel akward doing it. I feel unable to do it in front of ANY people, and often I feel like I'm imposing on them, or making unwanted advances. Is it lack of self-confidence? I dont quite feel datable, as I dont really have any nice none music/computer related things and Im rather poor.
Im starting to think I should just jump aboard the asexuality bandwagon, if only to avoid the self-loathing and shame I feel after events like the 3 described here.
u just passed up a chance with your future fuck buddy, girlfriend, and mistress
LOSER!!!
maybe it's a built in self-defence mechanism, because you're ugly.
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| Originally posted by BTG maybe it's a built in self-defence mechanism, because you're ugly. |
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| Originally posted by BTG maybe it's a built in self-defence mechanism, because you're ugly. |
What did I tell you?? 
Hey my boy! Git your roll on. Put on your Air Force 1s and get to stuntin'. Don't be scurred coz you gots it goin' on playa. Hit 'em up yo.
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| Originally posted by Streakfury What did I tell you?? |
get with the sexin' already damn it!!
I used to worry about dying alone when I was your age, but then I...crap.
Whenever I start to worry about how I've fucked up in school, and in life, I just think about robots.
God.
Then I think hey in the future rich people will be able to buy humanoid bodies for themselves. Then it brings me back to realizing that I've fucked up and am never going to have that kind of money.
Anyways, think about robots.
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| Originally posted by Floorfiller get with the sexin' already damn it!! |
It's not like it was always like this. When I was in high school, I was majorly outgoing, had no problem talking to girls, and was able to pretty much date who i wanted. Im not sure what changed, but sometime between my first or second year in college, everything blew up in my face and I hit a major wall. I cant really identify any one major event or self-realization, but everything changed, and I cant seem to act like I used to.
It's really annoying, and incredibly self-destructive, at best
You need some sweet skills. Girls only date guys who have really sweet skills.
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| Originally posted by tribu It's not like it was always like this. When I was in high school, I was majorly outgoing, had no problem talking to girls, and was able to pretty much date who i wanted. Im not sure what changed, but sometime between my first or second year in college, everything blew up in my face and I hit a major wall. I cant really identify any one major event or self-realization, but everything changed, and I cant seem to act like I used to. It's really annoying, and incredibly self-destructive, at best |
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| Originally posted by tribu It's not like it was always like this. When I was in high school, I was majorly outgoing, had no problem talking to girls, and was able to pretty much date who i wanted. Im not sure what changed, but sometime between my first or second year in college, everything blew up in my face and I hit a major wall. I cant really identify any one major event or self-realization, but everything changed, and I cant seem to act like I used to. It's really annoying, and incredibly self-destructive, at best |
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| Originally posted by tribu It's not like it was always like this. When I was in high school, I was majorly outgoing, had no problem talking to girls, and was able to pretty much date who i wanted. Im not sure what changed, but sometime between my first or second year in college, everything blew up in my face and I hit a major wall. I cant really identify any one major event or self-realization, but everything changed, and I cant seem to act like I used to. It's really annoying, and incredibly self-destructive, at best |
Dude...go to a party. Get drunk...and make sure all the girls get drunk too.
Then you can do whatever the fuck you want.
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| Originally posted by Clovis86 Dude...go to a party. Get drunk...and make sure all the girls get drunk too. Then you can do whatever the fuck you want. |
you do know that by asking someone out you stand nothing to lose, dont you?
if so (truthfully) - you dont have a problem
if you dont, which is prolly the case.. then re-evaluate it all, see what you have to lose, decide if you really care about it... and just flow
Buddy, you think it might just be that you're waiting for bigger signs from girls that they dig you? Like...you need some more signals to gove you extra confidence? That happens to me alot.
But I dunno...a girl turning around to smile and talk to you...thats a pretty good fucken sign... 
its called fear of rejection.. simply cured by alcohol. Have a cup of courage for breakfast and you'll be ready to rock
I've also noticed I have big balls when im rolling.
if a girl is talking to you and you don't have any previous friendship with each other or through someone else...she wants you to give her the bone!!
note: she might also want the bone in similar situations to those mentioned above...
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| Originally posted by e*motion I've also noticed I have big balls when im rolling. |
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| Originally posted by Clovis86 Buddy, you think it might just be that you're waiting for bigger signs from girls that they dig you? Like...you need some more signals to gove you extra confidence? That happens to me alot. But I dunno...a girl turning around to smile and talk to you...thats a pretty good fucken sign... |
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| Originally posted by tribu That might be it, but this girl was pretty hot, and I just dont see what shed want with me. Plus, after class, everyone is around and I just feel odd striking up a conversation in front of my classmates. Id guess it was a good sign, but she seems like a nice person, and I can't imagine she wouldnt have a boyfriends... Bah, these are the type of rationale I go through when Im thinking about making a move at all. I just think that I should put relationships out of mind for awhile and just let things fall where they do. Do the important things like graduate, get a job, work out, and have some nice things, then start looking.... Alcohol and drugs are only a semi answer for me. I hate drinking, so that almost surely kills that. I dont mind rolling but Im pretty poor at the moment, and that really isnt an option either. I dont really know. |
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