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screw this world and everyone in it
Hi all,
You might remember me from awhile ago when I posted a more tamed thread regarding my situation with Sarah and Jenna and what I should do about my funk with a formal dance and a potential Valentine's Day date. Well, the only reason this thread is titled the way it is is because of problems with Sarah, so you can turn away if you want to since I don't really want to destroy the world, I'm just angry right now and drinking and smoking.
Long story short, I started dating Sarah on a regular basis, but in the past weeks or so she's been sort of cutting me out. No big deal, right?
Well anyway I told Sarah outright how I felt about her et cetera and she responded by telling me now that "You're wonderful...You're everything I want I just don't think it will work." She's been hanging out instead with my best friend, that fucking asshole, for the past two weeks practically everyday getting closer to him without me even knowing and neither of them ever told me and I was never clued into it until about an hour ago, after I call him and tell him how bummed I am because of it. How upsetting is that? I feel like destroying the planet. He's like "I'm really sorry...I was going to tell you sooner, I just didn't know how...If you don't want me to do it, I won't, I just want you to know that I do really like her though..." I'm so damn stupid. Why couldn't I see it if it was going on right beneath my fucking nose?
Yeah, I'm still in high school still, so you can right all this off as trivial but goddamn, I am so upset. It just makes me feel so inadequate and immature that I can't provide this girl, whom I really really like, with even a sparkle of fun, and I'm irked by the way she just softened the blow by lying and omitting critical information, my friend too. He's not a very good friend after all.
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| Originally posted by josh4 a TA in trouble! better call the gang to help! Trance Addict, Trance Addict, Trance Addict, HOOOO!!! |
Ok son, time for a talk.
Welcome to the real world. There are alot more fish in the sea, so screw this bitch. Don't give me no blabber about how perfect she was, there will be other girls like her. Don't get all depressed over a chick, you're a pussy if you do that. Don't blame your friend either. It's time for you to be a man, cowboy the fuck up and get over it!
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| Originally posted by Emil Ok son, time for a talk. Welcome to the real world. There are alot more fish in the sea, so screw this bitch. Don't give me no blabber about how perfect she was, there will be other girls like her. Don't get all depressed over a chick, you're a pussy if you do that. Don't blame your friend either. It's time for you to be a man, cowboy the fuck up and get over it! |
i know i'm going to get over it though
Why didn't you just tell him that you weren't okay with it?
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| Originally posted by Yan Why didn't you just tell him that you weren't okay with it? |
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| Originally posted by Perfect_Cheezit I did, I got mega angry and yelled at him and shit, and I'm not exactly sure how I feel about it anymore, so Im just absorbing myself in the COR for the time being |
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| Originally posted by Nou cheeeeeeezy thats some crapy crap! hey dude, im feeling worse so be all happy that your not as bad as me.... i was like really bad a bit ago,..... hahahahahhaa ahhhh OH shit........ i need some fuckin somwething!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!  ) |
my friend did that to me once and I didnt talk to him for a year. and the girl i havent talked to since.
oh
solution though was drinking and then saying what i was thinking to stupid people.
helped loads.
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it must involve nazi hate stomping though. You have the shaved head already . just commit
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| Originally posted by Perfect_Cheezit |
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| Originally posted by Nou THATS WHY YOU DONT FUCK WITH THE MOB BITCH! see works all the time! |
haha- you got owned. 
Cheezit...that sucks. What you need is a few (no, many) drinks and a good party. I've had a whole mess of shitty stuff happen the past few weeks...but then...I have Sasha and James Zabiela on the same night March 19th...hehehehh gonna get plastered like whoa.
So yeah...go to a party...meet some new girlies and have a good time...best medicine evar.
heres my best advice i can give.
well im sitting here awaiting to turn 23 and i look back at when i was 18 17 and 16. and the truth is......who gives a fuck. it doesnt matter. just learn who u can trust and who u cant. at least he came out and told u abt it
Cheezit, your young. 5 years from now your gonna look back & laugh at this situation. Belive me you havent scratched the surface on life yet. Also dont get tied down with women while you have your youth.
This sort of thing happens to all of us, and the most natural reaction is to take it personally, and think that they other person is better, and it hurts your ego. After that it doesn't even matter if you like the person you just want to prove that you are really cool and fun.
But its important to realise that no-one will get 10 out of 10 girls to like them, nobody. Once I took a girl out for drinks and she really liked me, and she asked to stay at my house that night, and then I went to the toilet and got some more drinks and I came back and she was kissing another guy. That stuff hurts, but honestly its important not to give anyone your time if they don't treat you with respect and they like you back.
Its important to realise that these type of jealous, angry, hurt feelings where you think you need to prove something to the other person is a road that leads to unhappiness. These type of feeling are what can lead some guys to become stalkers. Its important to be happy that you found out that the person was not into you and find someone that is. If you get attached to people that don't give you respect you will never be happy.
Re: screw this world and everyone in it
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| Originally posted by Perfect_Cheezit ...Well anyway I told Sarah outright how I felt about her et cetera and she responded by telling me now that "You're wonderful...You're everything I want I just don't think it will work." ... ...Yeah, I'm still in high school still, so you can right all this off as trivial but goddamn, I am so upset. |
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| Originally posted by t�bias Its important to be happy that you found out that the person was not into you and find someone that is. If you get attached to people that don't give you respect you will never be happy. |
your friend is not a friend. What a low life asshole. He should of spoken to you first before getting with Sarah.
At least now you know where you stand. You can get over her now & move on. Dont waste any more time thinking about that Sarah girl. It's her bad luck for turning you down. She misses out.
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