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i did something majorily stupid last night...what should i do...

so yesterday afternoon i went to a friends house for a graduation party. he's got the family all there grandparents and stuff all of it. i drank all day and night and towards the end of the night only a few of us are still hanging out. my friend had a couple of sisters there and one, who was my age, was really fun and good looking and so we kept doing carbombs all night. well eventually everyone goes to sleep, but we're both still up and have started to get a little close on the coutch. long story short...i ended up having drunken hottub sex with my friends little sister and i'm feeling pretty bad about it. not that i did it...i really did like her and my god it was great, but i really don't wanna lose a friendship over it. i'm a little worried someone somewhere in the house might've heard something or that it'll get back to him somehow...what do you guys think? if he finds out...what should i do?

before clicking, i was going to reply "tell the COR what happened"

but now....

i think you should follow everyone elses advice

u dont shag ur mates sister.

id be prepared for it all to flare up. i know its not the news u wana hear but it if all came out most of ur mates wouldnt be too impressed.

oof, that's a killer. Alcohol made you un-gayify?

Seriously though, I have not a clue as to this one. That's pretty majorly fucked up.

Probably best to suck it up and tell the truth, dude.

Your friend is going to find out eventually, one way or another, and it's better to hear it from you than somebody else.

Than again, do you think you can live with the secret, eating out your insides like acid and churning your guts like a vat full of butter.


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Man, i should become a writer with skills like this

kinda the responses i was expecting. shit. i know i fucked up on this one. i mean, i really did like this girl...sucks she had to be the lil' sis...

i'm gonna go to sleep, but please if anyone has more ideas...or comments...lemme know...

posting about it on a public forum... not sure if that's a good move.

tough call... you could either be up front about it, or risk him finding out another way (from her perhaps) and then you'll be in double trouble.

i'll second AJ - better to hear it from you then somebody else.

Option 1) tell ur friend what happened. theres a 0.005% he wont swing for u. i know if i told any of my mates id slept with their sister, id have a fist flying towards my face before i could say sorry. plus when all my other mates found out, i doubt id still be in the group anymore. depends what ur mates are like.

Option 2) keep it quiet. if u dont tell, and she doesnt tell, and no1 else knows. if u can live hiding it, do it. you'll have prob forgot about it in 3 months. is it worth risking ur friendship with pretty much all ur mates in that group over something u now regret?

something like that isn't easily forgotten about.

heck, how could you even look at the guy with a straight face when his lil sis is around?

ask your friend if it's okay for you to date his sister, and if he replies "ok" tell him i've already fucked her

seriously you did a reel n00b thing, but i feel for you. The real question is do you really want this girl or was it just a one niht stand ?

seeing as how i dont even know you, or anyone in this forum board ; i feel obliged to help you sir.

alright. 1. you secretly keep dating the preteen girl you molested, then see if the love is there. right now you might be just scared and falling in love with her for the wrong reasons.

2. you tell her brother, expect a bag of ice and a 3 month of silence from him. p.s even if you can fuck him up, dont swing.

3. i come to your house and confiscate your crack.

peaceeeee.

*edit . shit i didnt know it was uncool to bear the canadian flag under your name status shit... why didnt anyone tell me.

*sigh* boys boys boys. talk to the girl first, let her know that you do like her, you had a good time, etc...see what she thinks about her big brother knowing. i would NOT go to him first, is what i'm saying. you should definitely talk to this girl about it first. i mean, it's her business before it's her brother's business, and i know i wouldn't want MY brother knowing too much about my sex life. see how she reacts...if you feel like she'd be okay with you telling your friend, do it. honestly my sex life is absolutely none of my brother's business, i doubt this girl will feel much different than me. she's a grown woman, she can (and did) make her own decisions. i think the whole macho "touch my little sis and die" mentality is really immature and really stupid. if she's old enough to drink, she's old enough to have sex, and if she's old enough to have sex, it's not her brother's business who she does it with. that's just my opinion. whatever though, do what you like.

alright i was reading thru elfs shit right.
so i came to this conclusion.

let me take this excerp ; some shit like this "i wouldnt want my brother knowing about my sex-life" if he did know, he would probably beat up your partners or something right? so like thats just like masking the truth. i dont see that being the best solution...

-flag change bitchs.

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Originally posted by prolikewhoa *sigh* boys boys boys. talk to the girl first, let her know that you do like her, you had a good time, etc...see what she thinks about her big brother knowing. i would NOT go to him first, is what i'm saying. you should definitely talk to this girl about it first. i mean, it's her business before it's her brother's business, and i know i wouldn't want MY brother knowing too much about my sex life. see how she reacts...if you feel like she'd be okay with you telling your friend, do it. honestly my sex life is absolutely none of my brother's business, i doubt this girl will feel much different than me. she's a grown woman, she can (and did) make her own decisions. i think the whole macho "touch my little sis and die" mentality is really immature and really stupid. if she's old enough to drink, she's old enough to have sex, and if she's old enough to have sex, it's not her brother's business who she does it with. that's just my opinion. whatever though, do what you like.

yeah but its still like.. dude, you fucked my sister. im glad i dont have a sister. cuz im sure id be a macho "hey, dont fuck my sister" type brother.





FF, not only was she fucked, you are now fucked too.




but i bet it was fun!

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Originally posted by prolikewhoa it's not her brother's business who she does it with.

spoken like a true woman.

maciek beat me to it. bastid.

yo im quick on my feet like that,

yo im brilliant. why are we defending your ass; dont ask us for help. you fucked up. lose lose situation, we're creating conflict inside the forum. im scared.

This is what you do Jason, you bring them to a quiet place in the woods, somewhere where the sun don't shine all too much often, and all the screaming in the world wont be heard. Take out a shovel and a bat from your trunk, and then rid yourself of both nuisances while never returning to speak about any of said events again.


Problem solved.

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Originally posted by maciek synergy alright i was reading thru elfs shit right. so i came to this conclusion. let me take this excerp ; some shit like this "i wouldnt want my brother knowing about my sex-life" if he did know, he would probably beat up your partners or something right? so like thats just like masking the truth. i dont see that being the best solution... -flag change bitchs.

WTF okay my sex life is my business. why the fuck would my brother beat up my partners?! that's retarded. how is that masking the truth? i don't ask him about HIS sex life

alright elf, you need to take a chill pill. im only here to help. simmer down_

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Originally posted by maciek synergy alright elf, you need to take a chill pill. im only here to help. simmer down_

i'm not upset, i'm seriously asking. as a little sister, i've never understood this "big brother can't allow little sister to get any cock" mentality. if both people consentually have sex, it's no one else's business, regardless of relation. you don't call your mom up after you get laid, why do you call this girl's family? i know it's a guy-to-guy testosterone friend thing but i honestly don't see why you wouldn't at least talk to the GIRL first.

i think the sisters and sluts theory comes into play here pro.

alot of guys look at girls as well.. meat. a conquest. somthin to fuck. chances are, this guys brother is one of em.

now thats all well and good for him, thats how he looks at women. but his sister is different. he doesnt like the thought of other guys lookin at his sister like that - especially a friend.

sorry im not explaining this too well but i remember reading abt it before in some sociology paper. hope ya sorta get wat i mean

props* you were sounding smart for a while.

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Originally posted by Basstard i think the sisters and sluts theory comes into play here pro. alot of guys look at girls as well.. meat. a conquest. somthin to fuck. chances are, this guys brother is one of em. now thats all well and good for him, thats how he looks at women. but his sister is different. he doesnt like the thought of other guys lookin at his sister like that - especially a friend. sorry im not explaining this too well but i remember reading abt it before in some sociology paper. hope ya sorta get wat i mean

i understand what you're saying but that's stupid. a guy should get over his own issues and accept the fact that his sister has a heartbeat and is going to have sex. my boyfriend said this to me, so it's actually coming from a guy and not a liberal girl. (short back story first) so basically, before my boyfriend and i got together, i hooked up with his best friend (just made out...but it was a very long make-out session and we were in the back of my current bf's car). after my boyfriend and i got together, i felt wierd about the whole best friend thing and this is what he told me. "you don't need to feel weird about derek...seriously. if there is one person i'd rather you be with other than me, it's him. i know he's a good guy. i would rather have you make out with him, who i know for a fact is a good guy, than to just go make out w/ some random jerk that would be shitty to you. it shows me you have good taste." not word-for-word, but defnintely almost exactly what he said to me.

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