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suppose you were with a woman
(i know for a lot of TAs that's hard to imagin) but suppose you were, and you were hanging out until 4 am, and you were sitting on her porch, just hanging out...and then out of the blue she's like 'ok, i'm going in now..goodnight' and just like that she's gone...what would you think of that? i mean the night was fairly enjoyable for the both of us, and i dont' belive i offended her just like that and she went in...why are womens so confusing like that...she wasn't pissed when she went in, but ...wtf? she jsut went in. womens confuse me. 
Re: suppose you were with a woman
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| Originally posted by BTG (i know for a lot of TAs that's hard to imagin) but suppose you were, and you were hanging out until 4 am, and you were sitting on her porch, just hanging out...and then out of the blue she's like 'ok, i'm going in now..goodnight' and just like that she's gone...what would you think of that? i mean the night was fairly enjoyable for the both of us, and i dont' belive i offended her just like that and she went in...why are womens so confusing like that...she wasn't pissed when she went in, but ...wtf? she jsut went in. womens confuse me. |
shitty.
i take it you wanted to get your end away, ya might have made it obvious and she wanted to put you in your place.
quite rude not to have even a hug goodbye.
Ummm possibly upset that you didn't make a move? Just one theory.
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| Originally posted by BTG (i know for a lot of TAs that's hard to imagin) but suppose you were, and you were hanging out until 4 am, and you were sitting on her porch, just hanging out...and then out of the blue she's like 'ok, i'm going in now..goodnight' and just like that she's gone...what would you think of that? i mean the night was fairly enjoyable for the both of us, and i dont' belive i offended her just like that and she went in...why are womens so confusing like that...she wasn't pissed when she went in, but ...wtf? she jsut went in. womens confuse me. |
Maybe she just needed a shit.
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| Originally posted by Fundamental Maybe she just needed a shit. |
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| Originally posted by Theresa She was probably waiting for you to make a gaddam move on her, and finally got sick of waiting on your slow ass so left. That's my theory! |
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| Originally posted by Mr. Pink I think you mean.....she went to TAKE a shit. cuz if she NEEDED a shit....that's pretty gross and IF she did, in fact, NEED a shit.... ...why just one? Why stop there? Might as well get all the shit you can get your hands on! |
She may of only needed a 'sample' of shit, for 1 scientific experiment. I mean you could probably buy shit off eBay in bulk if you wanted it.
Anyway, women confuse you because they're naturally illogical, and that is a fact, at least they are too men. UNLESS you understand why they do the things they do. Women are 10 times better than men at picking up subtle cues and body language. She probably wanted something other than she was getting from you, and she probably felt you weren't planning it anytime soon.
Maybe you were thinking:
*HEY THIS IS GOING WELL, I HAVN'T SAID ANYTHING EMBARESSING OR DUMB YET, I THINK SHE'S HAVING FUN*
While she was probably thinking:
*I'm bored of talking now, it's fucking 4am, I want to go to sleep. I'll give him 5 minutes to do something unpredictable, or I'm off*
5 minutes later:
"G'Nite, don't call me I'll call you"
damn dude mad wierd. I've had similiar stuff but the girl would be like i'm really tired or damn i gotta get up in the morning, never just get up and leave. At least you should've slept over. Going home at 4 a.m. is a bitchazz
it was time to re-apply the cream ?
As a rule, I almost always end the conversation first. That communicates the idea that "I don't really NEED to keep talking, I decide when we're finished talking, I have other stuff to do (doesn't really work at 4am though)". This will intrigue her and make her curious.
What you did is just leave it up to her to end it. Then it made YOU look bad because otherwise you wouldn't be complaining about it. Think about if it was you who ended it suddenly, maybe then she would be thinking about YOU, which is what you want.
Attraction often increases when you're apart, and one person is thinking about the other. Do things that will make her think about YOU instead of the other way round. Things that make her curious, or even better, actually feel attraction.
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| Originally posted by Tech0rz As a rule, I almost always end the conversation first. That communicates the idea that "I don't really NEED to keep talking, I decide when we're finished talking, I have other stuff to do (doesn't really work at 4am though)". This will intrigue her and make her curious. What you did is just leave it up to her to end it. Then it made YOU look bad because otherwise you wouldn't be complaining about it. Think about if it was you who ended it suddenly, maybe then she would be thinking about YOU, which is what you want. Attraction often increases when you're apart, and one person is thinking about the other. Do things that will make her think about YOU instead of the other way round. Things that make her curious, or even better, actually feel attraction. |
she wanted teh action.
It's just the same as if she did it to him, you're just playing that card first. Be different to other guys. Girls go for unpredictable, as long as its in a way that creates attration. (Even though it may seem totally illogical to you).
Of course that advice was just a guide. It obviously won't work for every girl, just use your initiative and adapt it to your situation. Trust me if it doesn't work, you probably aren't doing it in the right way. If you want to take things to that elusive 'next level' successfully, you have to make it happen, and make sure she's primed for it.
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| Originally posted by Theresa She was probably waiting for you to make a gaddam move on her, and finally got sick of waiting on your slow ass so left. That's my theory! |
You were too passive.
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| Originally posted by Theresa She was probably waiting for you to make a gaddam move on her, and finally got sick of waiting on your slow ass so left. That's my theory! |
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| Originally posted by Fundamental Maybe she just needed a shit. |
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| Originally posted by Aquarian Yeah that's what I was thinking too. Why didn't she make a move? Stupid double standards. |
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| Originally posted by dinoXpress Yeah well thats the way it is.. we are supposed to make the 1st move. |
Females are freaking hypocrites!
So many females complain that in this day and age we should all be equal in the job place as well as home and in society but in romance they ALL live by old standards:
Men have to foot the bill when going out( it's changing but it's still the most common thing to do )
Men have to make the first move ( walking over and meeting the girl/kissing etc )
I'm sick of having that responsability.
No that doesn't make me a lesser man but it surely makes me angry one with all this female bs.
They insist on proclaiming their independence yet deep down inside all they want is to be rescued and taken away on a wild horse by her prince.
BTG girls are the most two faced gender
Become gay if you don't want to deal with this garbage.
I'm considering a switch myself
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| Originally posted by jdat Females are freaking hypocrites! So many females complain that in this day and age we should all be equal in the job place as well as home and in society but in romance they ALL live by old standards: Men have to foot the bill when going out( it's changing but it's still the most common thing to do ) Men have to make the first move ( walking over and meeting the girl/kissing etc ) I'm sick of having that responsability. No that doesn't make me a lesser man but it surely makes me angry one with all this female bs. They insist on proclaiming their independence yet deep down inside all they want is to be rescued and taken away on a wild horse by her prince. BTG girls are the most two faced gender Become gay if you don't want to deal with this garbage. I'm considering a switch myself |
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| Originally posted by jdat Females are freaking hypocrites! So many females complain that in this day and age we should all be equal in the job place as well as home and in society but in romance they ALL live by old standards: Men have to foot the bill when going out( it's changing but it's still the most common thing to do ) Men have to make the first move ( walking over and meeting the girl/kissing etc ) I'm sick of having that responsability. No that doesn't make me a lesser man but it surely makes me angry one with all this female bs. They insist on proclaiming their independence yet deep down inside all they want is to be rescued and taken away on a wild horse by her prince. BTG girls are the most two faced gender Become gay if you don't want to deal with this garbage. I'm considering a switch myself |
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