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Posted by Perfect_Cheezit on Sep-27-2005 05:21:

Make a woman feel pretty?

My girl doesn't think she's pretty. Common source of concern for women, I know, but it does concern me as well. She honestly doesn't see it in herself. I want her to be happy and I want some advice from women (or men i guess) as to what can be done for a girl to make her feel pretty overall. Not minor things like saying you're beautiful casually and often, etc, I do that already. I'm wondering if there are/is anything that can be done to make this girl feel like she's a star. Yes, my C0Rwhore friends, she is a hotty, I'd just like her to know it. Any advice?

oh yeah and -
Things i wont do:
1. post pics
2. stfu
3. stick it in tha pooper
4. send tha lettar

Posted by allcentury18 on Sep-27-2005 05:22:

Re: Make a woman feel pretty?

quote:
Originally posted by Perfect_Cheezit

oh yeah and -
Things i wont do:
1. post pics
2. stfu
3. stick it in tha pooper
4. send tha lettar

lol a CORe disclaimer... priceless!

in any regard, your girlfriends lack of self confidence has nothing to do with her looks. and by you telling her how awesome she is all the time is hurting your relationship. if you talk about how lucky you are to have her and how she is the center of your world, you my friend are in trouble.

remember as a social being(all humans are), qualification inside a social dynamic, in this case a relationship is completely determined by programming and tests. her test to you is whether or not she thinks you qualify. by you acting needy you are acting submissive to her needs.

ie. you are not showing alpha male qualites and instead she will be less attracted to you.

btw i do free seminars and night training if anyone is interested

Posted by Perfect_Cheezit on Sep-27-2005 05:23:

you have to cover all your bases here, after all

Posted by nchs09 on Sep-27-2005 05:26:

stick it in her mouth.
send the email
draw a pic
post some more.

Posted by Perfect_Cheezit on Sep-27-2005 05:28:

sigh i shouldve known

Posted by BTG on Sep-27-2005 05:29:

Re: Make a woman feel pretty?

quote:
Originally posted by Perfect_Cheezit
oh yeah and -
Things i wont do:
1. post pics

she must be ugly then.

Posted by Perfect_Cheezit on Sep-27-2005 05:30:

nah, shes not. theres something sort of immoral to me about posting pictures of your significant other online without their consent and i just thought of this idea now

Posted by nchs09 on Sep-27-2005 05:31:

quote:
Originally posted by Perfect_Cheezit
nah, shes not. theres something sort of immoral to me about posting pictures of your significant other online without their consent and i just thought of this idea now
then ur ugly

Posted by Emil on Sep-27-2005 05:31:

Posted by BTG on Sep-27-2005 05:31:

quote:
Originally posted by nchs09
then ur ugly

+1

Posted by Orbax on Sep-27-2005 05:33:

try porking softly with guitars wailing in the background.

Also, if she thinks she is too good looking shell dump your ass so keep the self esteem down if you can man, youll be happier in the long run.

there are so many cheesy things to do it hurts. try being more mushy about anything you do. They know its insincere and ridulawwwlze but the effort is usually appreciated more than words.

Posted by Perfect_Cheezit on Sep-27-2005 05:36:

quote:
Originally posted by Orbax
try porking softly with guitars wailing in the background.

Also, if she thinks she is too good looking shell dump your ass so keep the self esteem down if you can man, youll be happier in the long run.

there are so many cheesy things to do it hurts. try being more mushy about anything you do. They know its insincere and ridulawwwlze but the effort is usually appreciated more than words.

haha, yeah i know that the cheesy options are endless but i was hoping to find something a little more substantial if there is anything

Posted by Caela on Sep-27-2005 05:38:

in all seriousness though:

1. tell her she's gorgeous when she has no make-up on.

2. wake up next to her and just smile and say how lucky you are.

3. if u can, arrange it so that she catches you talking to one of your guy friends about how hot/beautiful you think she is, but don't set up a whole fake scene, just if she's in another room or something, talk loudly so she can hear.

4. give specific compliments (kinda hard if you're a guy i know), stuff like, oh your hair looks so good when you have it like that, or, wow that's a great color on you, it brings out your eyes.

little stuff like that, but don't cheese it up too much

oh and if she really is gorgeous and she doesn't think so, then you've definately picked yourself an awesome modest girl.

Posted by nchs09 on Sep-27-2005 05:38:

Re: Make a woman feel pretty?

quote:
Originally posted by Perfect_Cheezit
My girl doesn't think she's pretty. Common source of concern for women, I know, but it does concern me as well. She honestly doesn't see it in herself. I want her to be happy and I want some advice from women (or men i guess) as to what can be done for a girl to make her feel pretty overall. Not minor things like saying you're beautiful casually and often, etc, I do that already. I'm wondering if there are/is anything that can be done to make this girl feel like she's a star. Yes, my C0Rwhore friends, she is a hotty, I'd just like her to know it. Any advice?

oh yeah and -
Things i wont do:
1. post pics
2. stfu
3. stick it in tha pooper
4. send tha lettar
serious answer?

mmm just be one night like. get ready we are going out. take her to a romantic dinner @ a nice place. be sponatnious. that usually melts the girsl

Posted by Nrg2Nfinit on Sep-27-2005 05:39:

quote:
Originally posted by Caela
1. Breast Implants

i definatley agree

Posted by allcentury18 on Sep-27-2005 05:40:

Re: Re: Make a woman feel pretty?

quote:
Originally posted by nchs09
serious answer?

mmm just be one night like. get ready we are going out. take her to a romantic dinner @ a nice place. be sponatnious. that usually melts the girsl

dude you have no idea what you're talking about

Posted by Caela on Sep-27-2005 05:41:

quote:
Originally posted by Nrg2Nfinit
i definatley agree

wtf no, i did not say that...

boob jobs are so crazy degrading, any girl that has to do that has some serious issues.

Posted by nchs09 on Sep-27-2005 05:41:

Re: Re: Re: Make a woman feel pretty?

quote:
Originally posted by allcentury18
dude you have no idea what you're talking about
do u want to go to the park with me? buttsekz?

Posted by Perfect_Cheezit on Sep-27-2005 05:47:

quote:
Originally posted by Caela
in all seriousness though:

1. tell her she's gorgeous when she has no make-up on.

2. wake up next to her and just smile and say how lucky you are.

3. if u can, arrange it so that she catches you talking to one of your guy friends about how hot/beautiful you think she is, but don't set up a whole fake scene, just if she's in another room or something, talk loudly so she can hear.

4. give specific compliments (kinda hard if you're a guy i know), stuff like, oh your hair looks so good when you have it like that, or, wow that's a great color on you, it brings out your eyes.

little stuff like that, but don't cheese it up too much

oh and if she really is gorgeous and she doesn't think so, then you've definately picked yourself an awesome modest girl.

These are all things I do! She still questions and has doubts about herself though.

Posted by Caela on Sep-27-2005 05:48:

quote:
Originally posted by Perfect_Cheezit
These are all things I do! She still questions and has doubts about herself though.

hm..honestly-is she beautiful to JUST you?

Posted by D-res on Sep-27-2005 06:00:

quote:
Originally posted by Perfect_Cheezit
These are all things I do! She still questions and has doubts about herself though.

if you're a stuck-up and critical guy, you should remind her that. remind her how you always seem to find tons of shit wrong with other girls you've been with but she's so perfect for you. somethin along those lines...? idk im half conscious

Posted by nchs09 on Sep-27-2005 06:05:

quote:
Originally posted by Caela
hm..honestly-is she beautiful to JUST you?
pics or stfu

Posted by Caela on Sep-27-2005 06:11:

has she thought this way for a long time? cuz sometimes girls go through phases...like "oh i look great" and then "oh i look like crap". if not, then it'll prob pass soon.

maybe she just needs something new, to spice up her appearance, just like a haircut or new haircolor...but just make sure u don't tell her to do something new.

go out and buy her a new shirt or something, it's always nice to get something new esp when your bf thinks it would look hot

Posted by allcentury18 on Sep-27-2005 06:15:

quote:
Originally posted by D-res
if you're a stuck-up and critical guy, you should remind her that. remind her how you always seem to find tons of shit wrong with other girls you've been with but she's so perfect for you. somethin along those lines...? idk im half conscious

ummm, sorta. you're almost better to tell her you find her thoughts on this unattractive. this doesn't have to be mean, you can ask her the root of the feelings. discuss freely what brought them about, what needs to change and how both of your lifes can be better for it.

you can let her know what shes saying is affecting you, but that its also affecting your feelings for her. remember, this is more than likely a test thats not even aware of. think of it this way... a girl has to know shes with the best possible mate at any given time. THIS IS AN INSTINCT NO GIRL CAN OVERCOME.

knowing that, what do you think you are conveying?

Posted by D-res on Sep-27-2005 06:21:

^^^

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