Choice between your gf/bf or your friends

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Posted by stk on Dec-31-2001 20:33:

Choice between your gf/bf or your friends

What will you choose?

Your friends over your girlfriend/boyfriend

or your girlfriend/boyfriend over your friends?

Posted by eschala on Dec-31-2001 20:35:

it ultimately depends how much sex youre getting, maybe your friends would understand if they knew you were getting more sex than them or somehtign

but generally, friends, definately, friends before gf/bf

Posted by .montecarlo. on Dec-31-2001 20:49:

do you mean like when figuring out who to hangout with one night/what party to go to, or like forever? i think you mean forever...

its kinda hard to answer, because it obviously depends on how long you've been going out, how serious it is, and of course, how much sex you're getting. i've made that decision twice in my life. the first time i chose my gf, the second time i chose my friends. i dont regret either choice, it worked out for the better each time.

Posted by DjRendezvousSyx on Dec-31-2001 21:00:

Ehh, Id have to say it depends on the situation. In some cases, you dont have to choose, you can bring both, or that how it is at least wit my boys, and muh girl. And they understand when it "Our" time and I dont want thm to be there, and if its a serious relationship, then she/he too should understand there are times when you wanna chill wit your boys/girls...Like i said, it all depends on the situation.

Posted by nyczliquid on Dec-31-2001 21:19:

well u know the saying...

"BROS BEFORE HOES"

or the gurls version

"CHICKS BEFORE DICKS"

haha a lil comedy for ya'll

Posted by JM on Dec-31-2001 22:26:

quote:
Originally posted by nyczliquid
well u know the saying...

"BROS BEFORE HOES"

or the gurls version

"CHICKS BEFORE DICKS"

haha a lil comedy for ya'll

tru that!

greater chance of gettings screwed over by any girlfriend on any given day than a friend (guy or girl)...

shit, my friend's gf (now his ex) cheated on him with another guy, and they were together for like 2.5 years!!! how screwed is that?

>JM<

Posted by dj alonzo on Jan-01-2002 14:25:

Definetly friends!
Like Juricimo said, more cance of getting screwed by a g/f then by a friend..

Posted by SmellsExcellent on Jan-01-2002 17:33:

the girlfriend that i ***HAD*** would defenately not be chosen over my friends, but one maybe would. I guess not on a day-to-day scale, but in the end, when I have to chose to be in heaven with them or her, its them. Maybe some chick would be so great that i would chose her over my friends, i have some good friends BTW. That would be love, kiddies!

Hmm, a relevation.

-Marc

Posted by Gekhous on Jan-01-2002 17:39:

funny u brought it up... 2 mates of mine r choosing their gf over us (the friends)...

they both dont hang out with us anymore, just SOMETIMES in the weekends, when we go out (they dont really go out anymore either), and now, one of em wont even go on vacation with us anymore...

the really radical one has gone through an entire make over since hes with his gf, he dressed different (read: being 20, dressing like 40), his personality has TOTALLY changed, the guy we knew doesnt exist no more...

i think its just sad that some1 leaves his/her entire life just cuz he/she is in love...

i will never choose a girl over my friends, friends r forever, a relationship can end just like that, and where r u when u broke up while u chose for her, and not for ur friends?? thaz right, ur totally on ur own then...

Posted by StereoPrincess on Jan-01-2002 17:46:

ummm, your girlfriend should be you friend also. I mean you don't always have to hang out with one or the other, why not both??

Posted by Miss Proximus on Jan-01-2002 18:06:

quote:
Originally posted by StereoPrincess
ummm, your girlfriend should be you friend also. I mean you don't always have to hang out with one or the other, why not both??

tr00 dat

and besides...neither my b/f, not my friendz would force me to choose!

Posted by Rustang! on Jan-01-2002 21:22:

I've had to make this desicion before......and i ended up choosing my gf. The reason for this is because this "friend" was just using me for rides since he was too stupid to pass his driving test. sometimes i would go almost 2 weeks without seeing my gf due to work/school, and when i went to her house he'd say to my other friends "jeez, why does Danny have to go out with Suzy so often? I don't feel like staying home today!". when i found this out I just told him that i saw his ex cheating on him numerous times (which is true) and laughed at him. haven't spoken to him since, and don't want to. But at the moment i would choose neither. My true freinds understand if i want to spend time with my gf, and my gf understands that i like chilling with my friends. any1 who asks me to choose can go fuck themselves.

Posted by {b.s.e.} on Jan-01-2002 21:25:

that'll teach em.

really depends on who's been more faithful to me when it comes to my decision. i don't like the idea of having to make new friends, too much of an investment. but then again, so is a girlfriend. i hate change.. everything should just stay how it is.

Posted by trancearmada on Jan-01-2002 21:50:

friends most def.

i am surprised you would even ask!

but you can always think of it from two different perspectives:

long run - your are likely to brake up with your gf/bf in the long run
and you if you don't have any more friends that you are fucked for life! LOL!

short run - *quality time* together with your gf/bf is more likely important to you right there and than

I would have to pick my friends, I am sure you can find a gf/bf that can tolerate all your friends, I mean it's not like your GF/BF has to go out with your friends, she is going out with you. BUt than again, your friends can fuck you over (meaning your girlfriend can start going out with one of them), it's very complicated as you see!

Posted by hypronix on Jan-01-2002 22:31:

To hang out... friends should understand U, and if Ur gurl gets jumpy about it... it helps U see what kind of girl she is (goes to boys as well)

I pretty much like to "mix'em", but if they don't go togerther... I'll "share" myslef between them...

tho in my actual case (which I hope will not change... ever ) they go together great! in fact, my friends helped me find my love...

hyp

Posted by Renegade on Jan-02-2002 07:00:

quote:
i will never choose a girl over my friends, friends r forever, a relationship can end just like that, and where r u when u broke up while u chose for her, and not for ur friends?? thaz right, ur totally on ur own then...

Exactly.....

I've had friends who have fucked me and the rest of my mates off for girls (and it's still going on now) and they're basically putting too much faith into the hands of a creature that, god bless her, just doesn't know what it wants. When the girls are older, more mature, and less likely to play head-games, then you may be prepared to put your faith into them, but until then you're playing with fire. If you choose your girlfriend over your friends, they will notice. Even if you haven't been given an official ultimatum, explicitly preferring the exclusive company of your other-half to the company of your friends is the quickest way to piss off a bunch of people you care about. I don't care if my friends spend time with their girlfriends, but it's when they're lead around on a leash and change themselves that I begin to get concerned.

Friends are forever - it's one of the few things I can be sure of.

And I'm hungover.

Posted by Laun19 on Jan-15-2002 15:43:

i beg to differ

My gf dumped me little over a week ago, and the day after my best friend moves and and tries to take her now the only time that i have seen or talked to him is when i call or make a point to talk to him he is more conserned in getting in her pants than talking to me about how i feel about all this, so i say friends and gf's are both fucking fickle.

Johnny :-)