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Naked In Front of Your Friends?
Okay, so I have had this discussion with a few ppl, and the question is, is it weird to be naked in front of your friends? Eg, if you are having a sauna or showering after gym class?
My argument goes that it is totally natural to be naked in front of your friends in these circumstances, it's what makes sense so why not?! This is what 99.9% of the ppl in Sweden would think too. However, in other cultures (most?), it seems like this is a different thing. For example in some countries they split the shower rooms in small booths with one shower in every booth, so no one has to see someone else naked. It would be embarrassing to show your naked body to someone else in these cultures.
The argument would often too be that it would be "homosexual" to be naked in front of your friends, while I think it's the opposite - obviously if you have a problem with being naked you must have some kind of sexual attraction to ppl with the same sex since you can't be naked with them?
So, is it, or is it not?
it's only gay if there is insertion involved
true...
and, you can get a blowjob from a guy and not be gay. after all, he's the fag, he's the one sucking YOU off.
hehe
dr
i pull out my pecker right in front of my friends all the time and it doesn't bother me 
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| Originally posted by igottaknow i pull out my pecker right in front of my friends all the time and it doesn't bother me |
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| Originally posted by St_Andrew Okay, so I have had this discussion with a few ppl, and the question is, is it weird to be naked in front of your friends? Eg, if you are having a sauna or showering after gym class? My argument goes that it is totally natural to be naked in front of your friends in these circumstances, it's what makes sense so why not?! This is what 99.9% of the ppl in Sweden would think too. However, in other cultures (most?), it seems like this is a different thing. For example in some countries they split the shower rooms in small booths with one shower in every booth, so no one has to see someone else naked. It would be embarrassing to show your naked body to someone else in these cultures. The argument would often too be that it would be "homosexual" to be naked in front of your friends, while I think it's the opposite - obviously if you have a problem with being naked you must have some kind of sexual attraction to ppl with the same sex since you can't be naked with them? So, is it, or is it not? |
It isn't a problem to the guy with the biggest shoe size, that's for sure.
You know what's gay about it? Not being mature enough, or comfortable enough with your sexuality to have to even ask such a stupid question.
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| Originally posted by jennypie You know what's gay about it? Not being mature enough, or comfortable enough with your sexuality to have to even ask such a stupid question. |
Re: true...
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| Originally posted by DickRenegade and, you can get a blowjob from a guy and not be gay. after all, he's the fag, he's the one sucking YOU off. hehe dr |
Technically nothing wrong with being naked in front of others, one should be mature enough to handle it but society (American society at least) tells you that it's pretty much wrong to be naked in front of friends or even family members. Up to the individual though I guess, especially because someone is going to be more comfortable being naked in front of others if they are a fit person rather than someone a little on the heavy side but that again goes back to how society views/judges people.
This is a very interesting topic.
As for my opinion I agree with the opening post... that is it shouldn't be anything awkward.
I suppose what makes everything awkward is based on insecurity... Insecurity with their sexuality, "am I going to be seen as homosexual if I'm naked with another man?" and insecurity with themselves, "do I measure up"...
Both of these insecurities manifest into the excuse "No way I'm doing that... that's just gay..."
meh the US isn't ready for anything like that, lord no
i mean tons of guys think that even agreeing with a girl that some random guy's good looking makes them gay, which is, of course, a bad thing in and of itself.
idk, went to japan a while back and they had communal showers, and everyone was like wtf at first, but after a day absolutely no one cared
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| Originally posted by D-res w3rd.. i had a gay roomate once. i was cool with it as long as he knew i wasnt gay and wouldnt try to make moves on me. one night i went to sleep, like any night, but was awaken by a weird, but very pleasurable feeling. i looked down and my roomate was sucking my dick! i was like, "DUDE! WHAT THE FUCK ARE YOU DOING? Look... Finish up and get the fuck out of my room." |
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| Originally posted by D-res w3rd.. i had a gay roomate once. i was cool with it as long as he knew i wasnt gay and wouldnt try to make moves on me. one night i went to sleep, like any night, but was awaken by a weird, but very pleasurable feeling. i looked down and my roomate was sucking my dick! i was like, "DUDE! WHAT THE FUCK ARE YOU DOING? Look... Finish up and get the fuck out of my room." |
well, there is also a matter of privacy.
think about it. when you shower, you don't really feel like it is something you'd film and show to friends. you are ridding yourself of dirt. you wanna be able to grab your nuts, get a good scrub going on in that area, make sure you clean your ass right, and all that. while being naked in front of other people shouldn't be too much of a problem, i can seriously understand why someone wouldn't want to watch/be watched during these activities.
I wouldn't mind if my penis wasn't so small or my general appearance so grotesque.
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| Originally posted by Inertia well, there is also a matter of privacy. think about it. when you shower, you don't really feel like it is something you'd film and show to friends. you are ridding yourself of dirt. you wanna be able to grab your nuts, get a good scrub going on in that area, make sure you clean your ass right, and all that. while being naked in front of other people shouldn't be too much of a problem, i can seriously understand why someone wouldn't want to watch/be watched during these activities. |
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| Originally posted by jennypie Pfft. You should have seen the shit my girl's high school rugby team did in front of each other while in the shower together. No shame, all women are whores. |
girl rugby team ---> enough said. it just implies nastiness.
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| Originally posted by Inertia girl rugby team ---> enough said. it just implies nastiness. |
Re: Re: Re: true...
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| Originally posted by Emil Haven't you used this joke before? |
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| Originally posted by L.E.N. I saw that joke on comedy central.....at least quote the guy who actually wrote it. |
It wasn't problem to be naked in front of friend 10.000 yeras ago so why it should be today?
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