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how to spice up your sex life?

so i've been dating this girl for about 5 months now

we've certainly had some wild nights, dont get me wrong! BUT...


it's just gotten to the point where it seems like we've lost all the spark we ever had... maybe have sex ONCE a week, and when we do, it's nothing special we hardly ever make out any more (just when we're fucked up), and she even gets all pissy when i rub her the wrong way or bring sex up at all

i've tried to get her more interested in oral sex, getting toys, kama sutra books, playing games, crazy condoms, she just doesnt seem real interested in anything maybe i just need to change my attitude? be more romantic? who knows?

so what do yall do to spice up your sex life? suggestions?


help?! please? im dyinggggg here!!!

Are you getting her off.? But I dont think its the sex life thing. I think its the attraction thing or just bored of it all thing. Find a new girl.

tell her, not us.
if she cares about u shes want to make u happy, reasonably.
if she dont wanna do shit, move the fuck on.

BTW if u gotta work at it after only 5 months, its time to find some1 else. 5 months is still the honeymoon stage.

Butt plugs

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Originally posted by Ripped Bag Butt plugs

+1

Man you have problems if the spark is dying after only 5 months.

Oh yeah, anal beads.

Re: how to spice up your sex life?

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Originally posted by ATL_Trancer so i've been dating this girl for about 5 months now we've certainly had some wild nights, dont get me wrong! BUT... it's just gotten to the point where it seems like we've lost all the spark we ever had... maybe have sex ONCE a week, and when we do, it's nothing special we hardly ever make out any more (just when we're fucked up), and she even gets all pissy when i rub her the wrong way or bring sex up at all i've tried to get her more interested in oral sex, getting toys, kama sutra books, playing games, crazy condoms, she just doesnt seem real interested in anything maybe i just need to change my attitude? be more romantic? who knows? so what do yall do to spice up your sex life? suggestions? help?! please? im dyinggggg here!!!

You're obviously a homosexual.

I'm too young, and you're too ugly, but I know some guys who might be interested in you.

PM me.

www.pussysnorkel.com

Problem solved.

Re: how to spice up your sex life?

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Originally posted by ATL_Trancer so i've been dating this girl for about 5 months now we've certainly had some wild nights, dont get me wrong! BUT... it's just gotten to the point where it seems like we've lost all the spark we ever had... maybe have sex ONCE a week, and when we do, it's nothing special we hardly ever make out any more (just when we're fucked up), and she even gets all pissy when i rub her the wrong way or bring sex up at all i've tried to get her more interested in oral sex, getting toys, kama sutra books, playing games, crazy condoms, she just doesnt seem real interested in anything maybe i just need to change my attitude? be more romantic? who knows? so what do yall do to spice up your sex life? suggestions? help?! please? im dyinggggg here!!!

Thats sad if you ask me. Get a book called the Joy of Sex. Its old school but will teach nublars like you a trick or 10. Second. Condoms kill sensation. get her pregnant. Pregnant women get really horny. Get on welfare and medicade and repeat.

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Originally posted by jonSun Are you getting her off.? But I dont think its the sex life thing. I think its the attraction thing or just bored of it all thing. Find a new girl.

she must be a good faker if im not haha, but youre probably right

5 months did seem a little soon to me too?? shouldnt you be married for a good 10 or 15 years before this shit starts really happening?

If youve lost the sex "spark" after five months, Im sorry, but that means you need to put yourself back on the market.

Then again, I guess I dont know how that goes. My sex never loses spark.

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Originally posted by ATL_Trancer she must be a good faker if im not haha, but youre probably right 5 months did seem a little soon to me too?? shouldnt you be married for a good 10 or 15 years before this shit starts really happening?

Kiss her after she cums. If her tongue is warm she faked. If it is cold (and I mean cold) then it is real. Blood rushes towards the pelvis in an orgasm... and leaves all other major areas. The tongue included.

don't listen to all these bastards gav...most of them probably aren't getting any or worse then they let on

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Originally posted by Floorfiller don't listen to all these bastards gav...most of them probably aren't getting any or worse then they let on

Dont forget about insightful posts tho!

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Originally posted by Floorfiller don't listen to all these bastards gav...most of them probably aren't getting any or worse then they let on

Well, we at least know Sam isnt, seeing as that his fiance is in Hawaii.

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Originally posted by Ang ' ela_ie Well, we at least know Sam isnt, seeing as that his fiance is in Hawaii.

But the walls come tumblin down when we do see each other (and it isnt fiance yet. that will happen @ the peninsula in chicago come may)

http://chicago.peninsula.com/pch/accommodation_09.html is the room im getting for a discounted price! woot

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Originally posted by Floorfiller don't listen to all these bastards gav...most of them probably aren't getting any or worse then they let on

ya, maybe true



she's just gonna get the ultimatum "poooper or bust", and then we'll see where things go

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Originally posted by _Nut_ But the walls come tumblin down when we do see each other (and it isnt fiance yet. that will happen @ the peninsula in chicago come may) http://chicago.peninsula.com/pch/accommodation_09.html is the room im getting for a discounted price! woot

I hope its the weekend of a good show so I can party with you, Sma.

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Originally posted by Ang ' ela_ie I hope its the weekend of a good show so I can party with you, Sma.

Whats going on in the chi on the 21st to the 22nd? We are goin to the sox game on the 22nd

Bring another girl to the sack!

Re: how to spice up your sex life?

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Originally posted by ATL_Trancer we hardly ever make out any more (just when we're fucked up), and she even gets all pissy when i rub her the wrong way or bring sex up at all

that sounds like a girl who has lost all sexual/physical interest.

the emotional spark might still be there, but it sounds like she is becoming really bored and disinterested with the sexual part of your relationship. this shouldn't happen after 5 months.

in my experience, when this happens there isn't much you can do to fix it. for most girls, sexual attraction is almost entirely mental... it's either there or it isn't, and no amount of toys and tricks and kinky stuff will make her desire for sex with you any stronger. if anything, she will just feel forced and pressured into it and avoid it even more.

but here's what i think you should do... don't make any moves on her, don't touch her sexually, don't try to have sex, don't do anything that makes her think you want her. see how long this lasts before she either a) says something to you about it, or b) rapes you.

Or just dump her and sleep with someone new.

Re: Re: how to spice up your sex life?

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Originally posted by l�cid that sounds like a girl who has lost all sexual/physical interest. the emotional spark might still be there, but it sounds like she is becoming really bored and disinterested with the sexual part of your relationship. this shouldn't happen after 5 months. in my experience, when this happens there isn't much you can do to fix it. for most girls, sexual attraction is almost entirely mental... it's either there or it isn't, and no amount of toys and tricks and kinky stuff will make her desire for sex with you any stronger. if anything, she will just feel forced and pressured into it and avoid it even more. but here's what i think you should do... don't make any moves on her, don't touch her sexually, don't try to have sex, don't do anything that makes her think you want her. see how long this lasts before she either a) says something to you about it, or b) rapes you.

i'm gonna have to agree with that...from experience haha. when girls start getting a little distant like that...things are headed for a "let's be friends" situation.

so get some more sex while you can and move on

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