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Posted by Keo_Nade on Mar-26-2006 05:59:

Kicked out of party/frat

About 2 weeks b4 spring break I accepted a bid at a fraternity here on campus. I accepted bc I really love their parties and I am very good friends with a few brothers there. About 4 days later I realized that it was a bad decision and left. In the following week I spoke to some brothers and they said everything was OK and I was still cool in their eyes.

Tonight, I went to a party at said frat, and about 45 minutes after I got there I was pulled aside, told that what I did was equivalent to them "giving you a hand-job, you saying you love us, then leaving b4 we wake up." Then some brother whom I have NEVER seen before cameup and said "why dont you just leave?" I said: "If that's honestly what you want then I will." They then opened the back door for me and told me to leave. What The Fuck. Im pissed off.
My best friend here on campus is in this frat, I thought I was good friends with atleast a few elder-brothers and that every thing was "cool" between me and teh frat. apparently not. I guess that Im never going back there again. honestly this may just be a rant but how can this happen? If someone calls me tommorow and trys to make-up with me should I be like "fuck off" or should I actually listen and give it a chance? how can they be such asses? Its not like I became a brother and then quit, I decided after accepting a BID that frat life isnt the life for me and I told them within DAYS so I hardly made any commitment. so newaysimdrunkandpissedattheseguys, but a pizza is coming and I shoudl feel better after eating that.


Posted by Sunsnail on Mar-26-2006 06:02:

damn dude. I would move out of state.


Posted by MeLLyMeL on Mar-26-2006 06:05:

u should be glad you left that shit. i dated a guy who took that stuff way too serious. never again.

what a bunch of dorks.


Posted by Protege on Mar-26-2006 06:14:

I hate fraternities, its not like it (apparently) was back in the day (a la Animal House) and this is a prime example why.


Posted by Aureus on Mar-26-2006 06:36:

Re: Kicked out of party/frat

quote:
Originally posted by Keo_Nade
If someone calls me tommorow and trys to make-up with me should I be like "fuck off" or should I actually listen and give it a chance?


only women do that


Posted by Nrg2Nfinit on Mar-26-2006 06:56:

Re: Re: Kicked out of party/frat

quote:
Originally posted by Aureus
only women do that


do you guys really give eachother hand jobs in fraternities.. if so.. like it would suck if your not gay.. like its hard to gety hour shit up


Posted by AnotherWay83 on Mar-26-2006 07:20:

quote:
Originally posted by Sunsnail
damn dude. I would move out of state.



Posted by all-nite-freak on Mar-26-2006 07:21:

join a street gang instead...then you can steal all their shoes.


Posted by Gillis maximus on Mar-26-2006 08:01:

quote:
Originally posted by Protege
I hate fraternities, its not like it (apparently) was back in the day (a la Animal House) and this is a prime example why.



I think u may have a distorted view of what Fraternities may be like.


Posted by Protege on Mar-26-2006 08:34:

quote:
Originally posted by Gillis maximus
I think u may have a distorted view of what Fraternities may be like.


What are they like? I went to a small school (about 5000 students) where most people joined because they had no friends or they thought it would look good on their resume. Is it different elsewhere?


Posted by Gillis maximus on Mar-26-2006 08:57:

quote:
Originally posted by Protege
What are they like? I went to a small school (about 5000 students) where most people joined because they had no friends or they thought it would look good on their resume. Is it different elsewhere?


I dont know where u live or what school u went to so its hard to say. I'm from the south so the two big frats (where i live and went to school) are SAE & KA. You could say Tranceaddict is a frat, right? What do u get from it?


Posted by CranberryJuice on Mar-26-2006 08:59:

i only heard about fraternities on TV and all but what is the point of them .....is the main goal to organize party together or is it more like a club and u share interests or ?
im sorry if my question might sound dumb for you but here we don't have these things .....


Posted by jonSun on Mar-26-2006 11:39:

Frats are so small time & they are for fucking nerds. Dont worry about it dude. Fuck the geek partys & hit the clubs.


Posted by Keo_Nade on Mar-26-2006 21:18:

quote:
Originally posted by jonSun
Frats are so small time & they are for fucking nerds. Dont worry about it dude. Fuck the geek partys & hit the clubs.


xactly! fuck paying like $600 every 4 months to get drunk with a bunch of guys! Using that money get cdjs and some guido-gear!


Posted by beats and beeps on Mar-26-2006 21:19:

johnny got kicked out of the frat guys
ITS TIME FOR A PICKLE HARBOUR!.
WOOOOOOOOO SPRING BREAK SPRING BREAK!


Posted by Xenocreator_PG_ on Mar-26-2006 21:27:

Why didnt you just start a fight & knock them out?

Frats are stupid. They are as lame as a WOW guild


Posted by Keo_Nade on Mar-26-2006 21:29:

quote:
Originally posted by Xenocreator_PG_
They are as lame as a WOW guild
...no comment.


Posted by Floorfiller on Mar-26-2006 21:29:

can't say i'm surprised they didn't want you going to their party after you changed your mind on joining...


Posted by ivanbee on Mar-26-2006 21:29:

frats are for people that dont know how to make their own friends


Posted by Allied Nations on Mar-26-2006 21:36:

The idea of joining a frat sounds stupid to me..


Posted by jonze on Mar-26-2006 22:19:

i remember you posted the thread asking us for advice on what to do about accepting a frat bid. you should have listened to us on this one. frats are really stupid. whats the point in paying money for friends? what do you get out of a frat? you live in a shithole of a house, get treated like shit by the upperclassmen, and you pay them money for this.


Posted by Spartan on Mar-26-2006 22:57:

About 99 percent of my friends from high school joined frats, and they are a ton of fun but I'm w/ you they just weren't for me.


Just know that frats are all about excluding people, because it makes some of the insecure brothers feel special about themselves.

Not everyone is like that ofcourse, they're just the same kids we are, its just that I've never been to a frat where at least a small portion of the kids didn't take the whole thing too seriously, and suck the fun out of it.

I also think pledging is the dumbest shit on Earth. That shit was fun in like freshman year high school football but when I hit 18 I wasn't gonna let another grown man paddle my ass or make me eat a jar of maynaise or some dumb shit, and then we'll be "friends" afterwards.

One of my friends (who recently got his frat tattooed on his leg) said he joined b/c he wanted a deeper than friend relationship that he could only get at a frat. I told him that was one the stupidest things he'd ever said.


Posted by Spartan on Mar-26-2006 23:00:

quote:
Originally posted by Xenocreator_PG_
Why didnt you just start a fight & knock them out?


aha, a great idea, then you'd have 50 frat brothers beating you senseless in a corner.

My friend was making fun of this frat we were at and he pissed behind their bar.

Thank god nobody saw it cause we would have died.


Posted by phuzzyfish12 on Mar-26-2006 23:29:

quote:
Originally posted by Gillis maximus
I dont know where u live or what school u went to so its hard to say. I'm from the south so the two big frats (where i live and went to school) are SAE & KA. You could say Tranceaddict is a frat, right? What do u get from it?


Well Tranceaddict lets anyone in right?? No fees?? NO wondering are they going to pick you?? I went to school in the south also and crazy enough where I went to school our towns nickname was G-vegas as in your location and at that school Frats where a joke there where more then enough friends that you could make for FREE you never had to join greek life.

Anyway my 2 sister's went "greek" for lifelong friend shit and all that LOL what a joke after paying to be there friends for 4 years when my younger sister needed them the most they all turned there backs on her.

As for the original post, these guys take this shit seriously, sometime way to much, don't expect a phone call and don't expect those previous friends of yours to be such good friends anymore, you did the right thing, I mean seriously do you need to pay to have friends?? I don't think so!!


Posted by Nobody_Special on Mar-26-2006 23:50:

I also think the idea of a frat is stupid. I guess that is why I hate my job so much. The army is kinda like a fraternity but I get paid, and not nearly enough to put up with the bullshit.


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