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Posted by yankeeBaby on Mar-31-2006 03:31:

Question for the boyzz

I was just reading this magazine article in a men's magazine (sorry I was reading it, so I can't post a link) but it said that ALL men cheat, and finding one that doesn't is near to impossible.

Is this really true?

I know that a lot of men do, but I didn't think it was THAT severe of a case? Am I just naive or what?

Boys (and girls), whats your opinion on this? Is the article right or what?

btw: the article was not talking about people who cheat once or twice in their lives, it was saying that men tend to cheat on everyone they are with, regardless of if they love them or not....JESUS!

Opinions plz.....

Posted by FunkyCrew on Mar-31-2006 03:32:

Re: Question for the boyzz

quote:
Originally posted by yankeeBaby
I was just reading this magazine article in a men's magazine (sorry I was reading it, so I can't post a link) but it said that ALL men cheat, and finding one that doesn't is near to impossible.

Is this really true?

I know that a lot of men do, but I didn't think it was THAT severe of a case? Am I just naive or what?

Boys (and girls), whats your opinion on this? Is the article right or what?

btw: the article was not talking about people who cheat once or twice in their lives, it was saying that men tend to cheat on everyone they are with, regardless of if they love them or not....JESUS!

Opinions plz.....

if that's true, it would suck big time...

Posted by Nikitha on Mar-31-2006 03:32:

I sure hope this isn't true...

but sadly.. i can see it being so...

Nikitha

Posted by chinamon on Mar-31-2006 03:32:

i never have cheated and never will
i have met women that cheated and i cut them off right on the spot
i hate cheaters

edit: people who cheat are not really in love. if the person really was in love then they are perfectly happy with who they are with and have no need to cheat.

Posted by Endlesswave on Mar-31-2006 03:33:

I'd say that's completely wrong. Just another generalization.

Posted by Cosmic Fur on Mar-31-2006 03:33:

I don't think it's true, but then again, we would need a very clear definition of "cheat" in order to argue this further. What some people would constitute as cheating, other people wouldn't.

Posted by neuromancer on Mar-31-2006 03:35:

well cheating may not be the proper word, but i guess that if a guy have the oportunity he goes for it.

i do know guys that have never 'cheated' on their gf tho.

Posted by Endlesswave on Mar-31-2006 03:35:

quote:
Originally posted by Cosmic Fur
I don't think it's true, but then again, we would need a very clear definition of "cheat" in order to argue this further. What some people would consiute as cheating, other people wouldn't.

I'd tend to put it like this as well...if by cheating they mean full blown physical stuff then yeah it's a huge generalization.

Posted by chinamon on Mar-31-2006 03:37:

quote:
Originally posted by Cosmic Fur
I don't think it's true, but then again, we would need a very clear definition of "cheat" in order to argue this further. What some people would constitute as cheating, other people wouldn't.

very true.
i believe if a guy has a gf and he meets a new girl at a club and starts talking to her because he has the *intention* to hook up with her, that is already cheating.
this also goes the other way for women

Posted by yankeeBaby on Mar-31-2006 03:40:

The article never clarifies but they IMPLIED that it meant WELL beyond kissing.....for instance they made a reference to "scoring."

What are you impressions of your male friends? I actually have a few males friends that cheat, and I am put in a bad spot because, I may like thier girlfriends. I want to say something, because I would want the same, but I feel like its not my place

Unfortunately I see it quite a bit, thus this article concerned me a little

*Also an important note: the new stats on HIV in US: The #1 increase in HIV cases are married women ages 40-50....because so many husbands cheat (with both men and women), and women who are unsuspecting sleep unprotected with their "seemingly" faithful men. I learned that in my grad class the other day...SCARY!!!

Posted by yankeeBaby on Mar-31-2006 03:41:

*btw I am in no way counting out the fact that women cheat, because they DO, but, again, I was just referring to this alarming article, especially with all the nasty shit and STD's out there .....

Posted by Stingray on Mar-31-2006 03:43:

That fuckin retarded.

Waste of text.

Posted by nusty on Mar-31-2006 03:44:

quote:
Originally posted by yankeeBaby
*Also an important note: the new stats on HIV in US: The #1 increase in HIV cases are married women ages 40-50....because so many husbands cheat (with both men and women), and women who are unsuspecting sleep unprotected with their "seemingly" faithful men. I learned that in my grad class the other day...SCARY!!!

Yeah I was reading that too. 1 in 4 men now have one of the two strains of Herpes in North America and 1 in 5 women.

two things freak me out. knee injuries and herpes/other std's. therefore I would not cheat based on those figures alone. I would also never cheat because I've had it done to me and it felt like shit. I would never want to do that to someone I love.

Posted by Reza on Mar-31-2006 03:48:

i love my gf.
i cannot see myself with another girl. id never cheat on her.

Posted by Cosmic Fur on Mar-31-2006 03:50:

quote:
Originally posted by yankeeBaby
The article never clarifies but they IMPLIED that it meant WELL beyond kissing.....for instance they made a reference to "scoring."

Ok, so if cheating happens at sexual intercourse, then no, that is far from true.

Posted by Yohan on Mar-31-2006 03:50:

In my observation, I have seen a general trend from 'don't lie', to 'don't get caught lying' among various segments of population. Not just in relationship, but among other things, like evading taxes or lying to boss, whatever.

Correspondently I have spoken to guys who are willing to go for one night stands even with a steady gf. (What happens in another area code, stays in area code...) Combine that with such high divorce rate these days...

Sad really.

This general lack of integrity is like a slow rot in the society. Things like loyalty you can't buy, at least true loyalty. You'd think such things are valued, but often I have seen them scorned.

Posted by Hantu on Mar-31-2006 03:50:

Posted by Misanthrope on Mar-31-2006 03:53:

I have a question for men...

Why can't you be straight up and honest?

in fact don't answer.

fuck it.

Posted by Hantu on Mar-31-2006 03:54:

quote:
Originally posted by Misanthrope
I have a question for men...

Why can't you be straight up and honest?

in fact don't answer.

fuck it.

We can also ask the same question.

Posted by Stingray on Mar-31-2006 03:54:

quote:
Originally posted by Misanthrope
I have a question for men...

Why can't you be straight up and honest?

in fact don't answer.

fuck it.

Another waste of space brought to you by Beatjunkie...I mean Missburnhamthorpe...or whatever it is...

Posted by chinamon on Mar-31-2006 03:54:

quote:
Originally posted by Hantu
PS. I have never cheated on my girl in the three years we have been together.

thats good to hear.
wanna date my sister?

Posted by naillil on Mar-31-2006 03:57:

quote:
Originally posted by chinamon
very true.
i believe if a guy has a gf and he meets a new girl at a club and starts talking to her because he has the *intention* to hook up with her, that is already cheating.
this also goes the other way for women

I agree with you 100%

Cheating, even if it seems "innocent", completely breaks the trust in a relationship. It'd be so hard to continue loving and trusting the person after they do something like that...

For the cheating Guys/Girls - just think if your girl/guy was doing that you were doing and how it'd make you feel. Hopefully you'd think twice before doing anything stupid.

You can work so hard at a relationship then f**k it up in a matter of seconds.

PS I hope that article isn't true... we need more input from the guys... although they'd probably never admit anyway

Posted by Hantu on Mar-31-2006 03:58:

quote:
Originally posted by chinamon
thats good to hear.
wanna date my sister?

Well then, would that not make me a lier.

Posted by chinamon on Mar-31-2006 03:59:

quote:
Originally posted by Hantu
Well then, would that not make me a lier.

hahha...
you said you didnt cheat.. you never said anything about lying..
jk

Posted by FunkyCrew on Mar-31-2006 04:01:

quote:
Originally posted by ** TigerLily **

PS I hope that article isn't true... we need more input from the guys... although they'd probably never admit anyway

i was about to say so

that study is surely annonymous, and you wouldn't expect that male TA's here would suddenly stand up and be like hey, i've done it...ya know what i mean?

but i would love to believe each one of you tho

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