Howdo you deal with this?? Insecurity....

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Posted by DJ E-s*it on Mar-31-2006 08:11:

Howdo you deal with this?? Insecurity....

How do you deal with this? i just started a new relationship almost 2 weeks ago, but i already have the insecure feeling..eventhough my girl stays home and always go out with me.
I dont think im a bad looking guy and i find GFs fairly easy,but damn wuts wrong with me?
someone with me here? with the insecurity feeling on relationship..help.thanx

Posted by Allayla on Mar-31-2006 08:20:

just dont let your insecurities show.. we all have them, stay confident in the relationship until there's something to worry about.

Posted by Estella on Mar-31-2006 08:21:

hmmm I'd say your relationship is already doomed.

Before you start to control & beat her bloody black, let her go because you care. Then, work out your issues on your own before proceeding onto another relationship.

Posted by bas on Mar-31-2006 08:27:

Estella is totally wrong, you need to regulate on this bitch and QUICK! I remember when I first met my girlfriend, the first thing I did was punch her in the stomach. Just to show her what's what, right off the bat she knows i'm in charge and if she doesn't do what I say...BAM sucker punch.

Also don't be a pussy.

Posted by DJ E-s*it on Mar-31-2006 08:29:

I didnt want this realtionship at first cause i just finishe done bout 2 month ago and i wanna stay single. Met her through friend she jumped on me telling me "luv@ 1st sight" stuff.. so i give her a chance and tried to get to know her better which turned out great. So then i decided to try again with this relationship thing.
all is good just feeling of insecurity sometimes.
PS. i dont hit woman, thanx

Posted by Estella on Mar-31-2006 08:30:

quote:
Originally posted by dj_bas
Estella is totally wrong, you need to regulate on this bitch and QUICK! I remember when I first met my girlfriend, the first thing I did was punch her in the stomach. Just to show her what's what, right off the bat she knows i'm in charge and if she doesn't do what I say...BAM sucker punch.

Also don't be a pussy.

Posted by DJ E-s*it on Mar-31-2006 08:31:

quote:
Originally posted by starboy
just dont let your insecurities show.. we all have them, stay confident in the relationship until there's something to worry about.

Thanx.

Posted by Estella on Mar-31-2006 08:34:

Bas is right, I suppose. Punch her in the stomach. RELEEASSSSSSSSSSEEEEEEEEE those insecurities. Become one with the white knuckles. Yes. Yes. You'll have to pry her off of you.

Posted by bas on Mar-31-2006 08:35:

quote:
Originally posted by DJ E-s*it
I didnt want this realtionship at first cause i just finishe done bout 2 month ago and i wanna stay single. Met her through friend she jumped on me telling me "luv@ 1st sight" stuff.. so i give her a chance and tried to get to know her better which turned out great. So then i decided to try again with this relationship thing.
all is good just feeling of insecurity sometimes.
PS. i dont hit woman, thanx

Why not? Try it out, just a quick slap in the face. It's actually pretty invigorating. Just start a normal conversation and right when she's mid-sentence *slap*. You'll feel 10,000x's better. Guaranteed!

Posted by DJ E-s*it on Mar-31-2006 10:07:

HAHHA, i knew i would feel better after posting on chill-out room, thanx, very intertaining

Posted by jonSun on Mar-31-2006 10:12:

I dont blame your feelings. Your girl is giving me some knobby slooby right now.

jk, u need to relax.

Posted by insecurity on Mar-31-2006 11:50:

Re: Howdo you deal with this?? Insecurity....

Phew, for a moment there I thought this question was directed at me.

My advice, stay single, that is all!

you will thank me later

or wish that you had listened

Posted by Marc Summers on Mar-31-2006 11:52:

Just shit on her chest, d00d!

Posted by wee_nee on Mar-31-2006 12:34:

she's probably way too hot for you isn't she. or else why would you be insecure? yeah, as soon as she gets the chance she'll probably dump you and get with someone who at least looks good enough to be with her. maybe someone who can make her laugh. if you can do that now, make sure you keep coming up with brand new ways to do it, because it's going to wear off fast. what will happen when she stops laughing and thinks of you as a boring loser, even though you're the same old you? dang buddy, you got problems.

Posted by pkcRAISTLIN on Mar-31-2006 13:51:

people that turn to message boards for relationship advice are losers.

Posted by Ygrene on Mar-31-2006 13:53:

I have a leash that I make my wife wear. It is roughly 1200 miles long. She is wearing it in Indiana right now. When I begin to feel a little suspicious I just start reeling it on in.

Posted by superglo on Mar-31-2006 14:10:

i'm suprised theres no mention of pooper sex yet.
or was there.

Posted by l�cid on Mar-31-2006 15:16:

quote:
Originally posted by DJ E-s*it
I didnt want this realtionship at first cause i just finishe done bout 2 month ago and i wanna stay single. Met her through friend she jumped on me telling me "luv@ 1st sight" stuff.. so i give her a chance and tried to get to know her better which turned out great. So then i decided to try again with this relationship thing.
all is good just feeling of insecurity sometimes.

maybe it's your own conscience telling you you're not ready for a relationship yet.

Posted by peerpressure on Mar-31-2006 15:49:

am i the only who didnt understand what he is unsecure about ?

Posted by Slylee on Mar-31-2006 15:57:

just cheat on her...the feeling will go away.

Posted by l�cid on Mar-31-2006 16:13:

quote:
Originally posted by Slylee
just cheat on her...the feeling will go away.

this is why i love you and why you shouldn't leave c0r ever again.

srsly though, cheating on her will probably make things worse. people who cheat on their partners usually do it because they *are* insecure, and as a consequence they start having even more insecurities about the relationship... they might start accusing their partner of cheating or lying for no good reason other than the fact that they are doing it. they might start thinking "wow if i can get away with cheating, my partner probably can too... they must be cheating on me"

Posted by tubularbills on Mar-31-2006 16:20:

just have her say something about how big your pen0r is. that should get rid of any insecurities

Posted by Boomer187 on Mar-31-2006 16:26:

quote:
Originally posted by Ygrene
I have a leash that I make my wife wear. It is roughly 1200 miles long. She is wearing it in Indiana right now. When I begin to feel a little suspicious I just start reeling it on in.

didn't nachos....bah nvrmind.

Posted by Ygrene on Mar-31-2006 16:30:

quote:
Originally posted by Boomer187
didn't nachos....bah nvrmind.

That's it, yer outta my sig.

Posted by Boomer187 on Mar-31-2006 16:32:

quote:
Originally posted by Ygrene
That's it, yer outta my sig.

im in it 3 times. which one...

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