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Ever since.....

Hey fellow TA f*ckers,here's a personal story for you,Njoy - as blank and jonsey would say....

Ever since I finished with my gf when I was 18 it hasnt been the same since....

Before I had the odd girl on the go - out of one relationship , in to another, this is now not the case - I'm now 21...

I'm pretty much at the end of hope, lol, TA's the only place I thought would be worth posting my "stress", this isnt a "help I cant get laid plea" (although wtf I need to), its more of a "has anyone had the same?" question...

Anyway ever since Its been "quick pulls" ,but, not one relationship.

Im releasing my built up irritation, if thats the word, on here about why I'm fed up...see if you can relate...

(get ready for this)

Tonight kind of topped it off so I came up with this thread...

I'm Fed up of...

- Getting started on for dancing next to an ugly girl I have no interest of getting with cause of some dickhead whos being protective, in a cheese club

- Bitches givin you attention for the wrong reasons (i.e. your dj'ing at a party, not because they've talked to you)

- Getting plastered on the night you get interest from a girl (due to being depressed about not getting with a girl)lol comedy

- Spending lots of money on your image (clothes, cars, expensive toiletries) without any improvement with girls

- Putting up with shit music all night with no reward ( the next weekend Ill go to a 9 hour trance set to make up for it and release some anger, again ,if thats the word)

- Failed "approaches" out and about

- Girls trying to get attention (from everyone)

- Girls not txting back

- Girls listening to their mates

- Spending �100+ a week on going out with no "results"

- seeing freinds get through 4 girls in a night then be depressed because they couldnt get them all to have an orgy, or something.That last bits a joke.

....

As you can see I try to look at it in a funny way so I dont "lose it". Its probably going to be pretty hard for you to relate as you dont know me, but ask me some questions if your having trouble....

Heres a few facts about me and my opinions(see it as a Q&A) if it helps, brought to you in byte-size facts for easy digestion.

- Im a very social person

- I have 2 sisters which makes me very comfortable around girls (maybe that scares girls who I do approach?!)

- I have fairly high standards, I cant love a girl who isnt attractive

- If I go with a girl I feel is below my standards, I feel harsh because I cant tell them that, I dont do that anymore

- I think I should turn A-sexual (forget sex) or something and give up on trying

- Do I need help lol

- My quality of work at uni has been degraded from constant thoughts of..err no girls, you try being close to someone then not having that for 3 years

- I cant live without girls : / boohoo - hence running on my last bits of hope

- I think I should get a job that invovles working with girls,talking in that situation is allot easier than in a club,however, Im an I.T graduate, I dont want to work in a cake shop or nursery to obtain that result

- I think im just pretty unlucky? nah this is all TOO unluckly

- Being in a 2 year relationship have I lost all skill in attracting girls since?

- I think I should put an age restriction on who answers this thread, 18+ only please, watever, thats not gonna happen

- should I get with an ugly girl for abit to get nicer girls attention then move on to the interested ones (this might work, I might risk throwing up during sex with the ugly girl)

- should I spend �30 on a pulling guide - nah fuk that, I dont need that

- who the fucks gonna have time to read,analyse, and reply to this thread wtf? If i was replying to this Ide probably post something to get my count up alomng the lines of "ahhh haaa"

- can someone give me an answer to all my problems..give up ?

Re: Ever since.....

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Originally posted by daeus - who the fucks gonna have time to read,analyse, and reply to this thread wtf? If i was replying to this Ide probably post something to get my count up alomng the lines of "ahhh haaa" - can someone give me an answer to all my problems..give up ?

just keep trying

Hey at least you're still trying - which is more than I can say.

yea i'm tired of girls giving me attention just cause i'm djing

find a new crowd.


club girls are whores. clearly, you are not looking for a whore.

AFC

Re: Ever since.....

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Originally posted by daeus - Im a very social person - I have 2 sisters which makes me very comfortable around girls (maybe that scares girls who I do approach?!)

maybe you come off as one of the girls. not a good thing.

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Originally posted by daeus - I have fairly high standards, I cant love a girl who isnt attractive

you better be really attractive too cos beggars can't be choosers. and you better have a great personality too.

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Originally posted by daeus - I think I should turn A-sexual (forget sex) or something and give up on trying

or pack some fudge

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Originally posted by daeus - I think im just pretty unlucky? nah this is all TOO unluckly

luck has nothing to do with this.

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Originally posted by daeus - Being in a 2 year relationship have I lost all skill in attracting girls since?

u probably never had that skill to begin with. sorry.

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Originally posted by daeus - can someone give me an answer to all my problems..give up ?

let me think about it.

Some nice replies, Ive got an idea - move to America where all girls supposedly fall for the english accent, nahh thatd be like entering a cheat code in a game , no challenge.

jk

I LOL'd @ this thread.

you're not alone.

David DeAngelo - google.

whats your definition of ugly? not a supermodel or just plain hideous?

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Originally posted by RapidFire whats your definition of ugly? not a supermodel or just plain hideous?

Couldnt think of another way to put this across...

Last girl I saw for a few months NOT dated, who is my kind of standard -




My idea of an ugly girl -



LOL

^^ i'd hate to think what you'd call a "Scary" girl

im in the same boat only my opinion of our situation is qite different.

where you seem to mourn the fact that you're young and single and in college i celebrate it. i havnt had a proper relationship since i started uni and i dont intend to have one again until i finish.

wtf is the rush? you're young - get out and break a few hearts!

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23 y.o. here, so I should qualify for your +18 status

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Originally posted by daeus - can someone give me an answer to all my problems..give up ?

Aye: stop looking for girls, and it doesn't mean "give up".

You see, when you make friends, were you expecting to make friends? You just make them, naturally. When you look for girls, it's like the whole planet's bad mojo gathered together and decided that you're a bad child and you want have your toy just because you're annoyingly asking everyone for it.

All the times I found someone important in my life I was completely oblivious to my surroundings. All the times I got frustrated at girls, I was "hunting", "looking for a relationship" or "trying too hard".

Also, if you're going to spend money on clothes, expensive toiletries and whatnot, do so because you like it, not because you want girls to notice you. I've been quite lucky in spite of my not-so-great looks, and I haven't spent a dime on perfume, ever (I did get one from my current girlfriend, but after two years, it's still half full ), and I sure couldn't care less about my looks: I was emo before emo existed

What the hell!? I'm 23?!

2006 - 1983 = 23

Jesus Christ, I am!!! Where did all these years come from?

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Originally posted by Lira 23 y.o. here, so I should qualify for your +18 status Also, if you're going to spend money on clothes, expensive toiletries and whatnot, do so because you like it, not because you want girls to notice you. I've been quite lucky in spite of my not-so-great looks, and I haven't spent a dime on perfume, ever (I did get one from my current girlfriend, but after two years, it's still half full ), and I sure couldn't care less about my looks: I was emo before emo existed

I do enjoy buying clothes etc...

I went thru a period of not trying, just going out, enjoying it, working hard, but I know its my lifestyle that is why i dont interact with girls each day, I.T classes dont have many, nor does my job.

I dont think I'm a club puller even though I do ok in clubs ...its a hard one, I think every single bloke wants a lifestyle that has new girls they meet every day

if you're looking for something serious you might never find it at a club cause that's just not the reason why most people go to clubs!

If you go to clubs you'll get:
whores
crackwhores
deadbeat whores
( well at least most of the time ).


You need to widen your social interaction circle if you're hoping to find a keeper.



Ps: you also sound needy " bouhouhouhou I haven't had a gf in months bouhouhouhou I'm at the end of my rope ". That is a bit pathetic.

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Originally posted by jdat if you're looking for something serious you might never find it at a club cause that's just not the reason why most people go to clubs! If you go to clubs you'll get: whores crackwhores deadbeat whores ( well at least most of the time ). You need to widen your social interaction circle if you're hoping to find a keeper. Ps: you also sound needy " bouhouhouhou I haven't had a gf in months bouhouhouhou I'm at the end of my rope ". That is a bit pathetic.

hello..what is this thread about?.. i dont want to read that whole thing

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Originally posted by arcadia190 hello..what is this thread about?.. i dont want to read that whole thing

Then don't post in here.


Wow.

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Originally posted by jdat Then don't post in here. Wow.

ok

you're trying way too hard... and girls hate that.

stop worrying about your image and how you can impress the ladies. just be yourself, do what YOU like, and eventually you'll run into someone who you'll hit it off with. the best relationships usually happen when you least expect them... and the more you try to force it, the less it seems to work.

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Originally posted by l�cid the best relationships usually happen when you least expect them... and the more you try to force it, the less it seems to work.

A big thumbs up to that comment! That was my situation!

part of everyone will always love their first loves but you're only 21 so all things considered, you neednt worry. if you hit 70 and you're in the same boat, kill yourself. until then, be yourself and dont let the memories of one great past relationship kill or deny you chances of a new and better one. i think a lot of people will use that one great relationship they had and compare every relationship theyve had since then to compare it to and when it just doesnt compare in every sense, they get distraught and grow bored, eventually giving up.

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Originally posted by l�cid you're trying way too hard... and girls hate that. stop worrying about your image and how you can impress the ladies. just be yourself, do what YOU like, and eventually you'll run into someone who you'll hit it off with. the best relationships usually happen when you least expect them... and the more you try to force it, the less it seems to work.

See I have the problem, if I'm not expecting them I miss the cues.

I've been out with mates, chatting idly with a chick at a bar or somehting (can't remember exactly now) and anyway she's made some comment about having to leave and I said something like "oh yeah, ok, well, cya later". She went and my one of my mates slapped me over the back of the heaed and said I was a fuckin idiot and that chick was definitely interested in me. Cos I was just there having a few with my mates and relaxing I didn't even notice!

I need to find a happy medium (cos believe, I go waaaaaaaaay too hard when I try)

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