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is it weird

that i dont like my gf being as attractive as she is? like, i wish she was fatter or somthing?

i need pics....

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Originally posted by BTG that i dont like my gf being as attractive as she is? like, i wish she was fatter or somthing?

I feel the same way...


...about your gf

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On second thought, no, she's fine the way she is, man:

It happens. Have you spoken with her about your interests?

try thinking of ugly girls when your having sex so you dont cum so early lol

I'll keep her safe.
Don't you worry.

as in shes too skinny and you want her to fatten up?

or in the way shes too attractive and you get jealous of other blokes?

or in the way you prefer rank girls

lil help.

I predict a river of tears for your loss.

If you have a problem with her being "too" attractive than you actually have a problem with your self-confidence and don't think you're attractive enough for her. There are two ways to resolve this ... one is to find an uglier girlfriend that you think would be more suitable for you. The other is to come to terms with the fact that despite your perceived insecurities you actually have some redeeming qualities that are attractive to her that you fail to take into consideration with your doubts. I would opt for path #2.

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Originally posted by occrider I predict a river of tears for your loss. If you have a problem with her being "too" attractive than you actually have a problem with your self-confidence and don't think you're attractive enough for her. There are two ways to resolve this ... one is to find an uglier girlfriend that you think would be more suitable for you. The other is to come to terms with the fact that despite your perceived insecurities you actually have some redeeming qualities that are attractive to her that you fail to take into consideration with your doubts. I would opt for path #2.

yea, what he said.

it's ok lira, i go through the same thing with my boyfriend. he's pretty damn hot...and he's thought about modeling too just because he's in grad school and doesn't want to work but needs money. i'm sure he could easily get a few gigs here and there and when he was seriously thinking about it, i thought, "nooo! you're going to be surrounded by hot models all day and probably get hit on left and right"

it made me feel insecure. i'm pretty confident about my looks. i know i'm no damn victoria's secret model, but i'm content knowing that i'm just "girl next door" pretty, but i'm human, and i get stuck feeling insecure sometimes when i sit on the bed and watch my bf dry off after a shower and i can't find one fucking flaw on him and i think, "damn...how'd i end up with him?" insecurity happens to the best of us.

from what i've seen, you're good looking and ur very smart too, so you are definitely a great catch. she's lucky too

If you want to be happy for the rest of your life, never make a pretty woman your wife. Go for my personal point of view, got to get an ugly girl to marry you.

punch her in the face

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Originally posted by Slylee it's ok lira, i go through the same thing with my boyfriend.

I'm flattered that you thought Occrider was me

Strangely enough, it happens the other way round in my relationship. My girlfriend is really insecure because she thinks I'm out of her league (whereas I really don't think of myself that way). And it does bother me because she's easily insecure, even though I don't even see other girls as being attractive anymore (they've become like "pandas"), so there should be nothing to worry about.

It seems she's just not used to have someone really liking her though, as her past experiences with blokes wasn't lucky at tall.

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Originally posted by Lira I'm flattered that you thought Occrider was me Strangely enough, it happens the other way round in my relationship. My girlfriend is really insecure because she thinks I'm out of her league (whereas I really don't think of myself that way). And it does bother me because she's easily insecure, even though I don't even see other girls as being attractive anymore (they've become like "pandas"), so there should be nothing to worry about. It seems she's just not used to have someone really liking her though, as her past experiences with blokes wasn't lucky at tall.

no no, i was quoting occrider and saying, "yea...what he said" meaning i agreed with his advice..but i know who you are dork


a lot of pretty girls are insecure for some reason. i guess they go through life with people wanting to talk to them or hang out with them on the basis that they are just "hot" and so i guess maybe it gives them a complex or something. i dunno...


in the beginning of my relationship, my bf was like that with me too. kinda clingy and sensitive to me admitting someone was hot or something and i would always be like, "are u f'n kidding me! have u looked in the mirror lately?" lol


now he's totally arrogant. i bust him looking at himself in mirrors all the time and i make fun of him.


jk, he's not obnoxious or anything. he's not really used to being a total hottie since he had some acne problems growing up and never really got paid attention to by chicks. i think he still looks at himself in the mirror and thinks, "damn that's me? sweet!"

i think u rather should be glad that people think your gf is attractive and not the other way .....i agree with slylee and occider points of view i think u have some insecurity feelings ..don't let them take over your relationship

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Originally posted by jennypie If you want to be happy for the rest of your life, never make a pretty woman your wife. Go for my personal point of view, got to get an ugly girl to marry you.

OMFG I HATE THAT SONG.

But it is humourous

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Originally posted by igottaknow punch her in the face

+1

Ur stupid. Going out with hawt chicks is great. Boosts your ego and suddenly every guy out there that you barely talk to wanna be your close friends.

Besides, when it comes to the sack.. having pretty eyes looking back at you as shes choking , thats just sweet.

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Originally posted by Slylee no no, i was quoting occrider and saying, "yea...what he said" meaning i agreed with his advice..but i know who you are dork

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Originally posted by Slylee a lot of pretty girls are insecure for some reason. i guess they go through life with people wanting to talk to them or hang out with them on the basis that they are just "hot" and so i guess maybe it gives them a complex or something. i dunno... in the beginning of my relationship, my bf was like that with me too. kinda clingy and sensitive to me admitting someone was hot or something and i would always be like, "are u f'n kidding me! have u looked in the mirror lately?" lol now he's totally arrogant. i bust him looking at himself in mirrors all the time and i make fun of him. jk, he's not obnoxious or anything. he's not really used to being a total hottie since he had some acne problems growing up and never really got paid attention to by chicks. i think he still looks at himself in the mirror and thinks, "damn that's me? sweet!"

Hehe, I have some of these "Whoa, that's me!?" moments too - although I still bear some scars from my teenage years, myopia is my friend

What worries me about my girlfriend though is that she seems to consider me way out of her league (which is non-sense) even after two years together (29 months the day after tomorrow).

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Originally posted by BTG that i dont like my gf being as attractive as she is? like, i wish she was fatter or somthing?

If your GF was not as attractive as she is, would she have been your gf in the first place ?

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Originally posted by igottaknow punch her in the face

LOL I don't know why I love this type of humour so much, but I can never seem to pull of saying things like that

(feel too guilty )

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Originally posted by Wicked Neo If your GF was not as attractive as she is, would she have been your gf in the first place ?

No, Neo, he's saying his girlfriend is attractive, and that's what he doesn't like

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Originally posted by Lira No, Neo, he's saying his girlfriend is attractive, and that's what he doesn't like

and i am saying, if his gf was not attractive, would she have been his GF in the first place as in, her being a pretty girl is prolly what attracted him to her at the start of it and if she had been a fatter uglier girl, she would not have even got to have known his name let alone be his gf because he would not have been attracted to her

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Originally posted by Wicked Neo and i am saying, if his gf was not attractive, would she have been his GF in the first place as in, her being a pretty girl is prolly what attracted him to her at the start of it and if she had been a fatter uglier girl, she would not have even got to have known his name let alone be his gf because he would not have been attracted to her

Oh... I had thought something else, got it now

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Originally posted by BTG that i dont like my gf being as attractive as she is? like, i wish she was fatter or somthing?

I hear marrying her solves the problem.

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Originally posted by fayraree LOL I don't know why I love this type of humour so much, but I can never seem to pull of saying things like that (feel too guilty )

i was going to say "throw battery acid in her face" but i had to draw the line somewhere.

yes even i have my limits.

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