Long-distance relationships and the intraweb

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Posted by igottaknow on Jun-25-2006 02:06:

Long-distance relationships and the intraweb

most ppl are boring and ordinary once you get to know them. Girls are so mysterious and sexy until you've settled into a relationship with them. i so do like the chase but hate settling down. this leads me to my theory that long distance relationship and cyber love is appealing because distance makes the heart grow fonder and we aren't exposed to mundane crap of ordinary life.

Posted by Zenchowdah on Jun-25-2006 02:07:

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Posted by DarkAngel on Jun-25-2006 02:08:

igottaknowgotta stopmnaking threads and giving DA migraines

Posted by igottaknow on Jun-25-2006 02:13:

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Originally posted by DarkAngel
igottaknowgotta stopmnaking threads and giving DA migraines

its my deep thought of the week

Posted by tribu on Jun-25-2006 02:24:

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Originally posted by Zenchowdah
summary: which is more enjoyable, the question, or the answer?

They were the hands of ka and they knew no mercy

Posted by Psy-T on Jun-25-2006 02:30:

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Posted by KilldaDJ on Jun-25-2006 02:31:

its no fun masturbating to pics

Posted by igottaknow on Jun-25-2006 03:01:

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Originally posted by Psy-T
being an empiricist as far as romantic relationships go allows me to enjoy the mundane, not get bored of it, and somewhat loathe mystique.. you should try it

i'm not interested in dating a transexual but nice try

Posted by DjConfessions on Jun-25-2006 03:14:

i can't offer anything in a face-to-face relationship cus my face is ugly as fuck

isn't it too easy to teabag someone else?

Posted by _Nut_ on Jun-25-2006 06:15:

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Originally posted by igottaknow
most ppl are boring and ordinary once you get to know them. Girls are so mysterious and sexy until you've settled into a relationship with them. i so do like the chase but hate settling down. this leads me to my theory that long distance relationship and cyber love is appealing because distance makes the heart grow fonder and we aren't exposed to mundane crap of ordinary life.

Ahhh no. I disagree 100%. My fiance is 4000 mile away atm (me chicago-ish, her hawaii). Time apart is a bitch.

And for the fact that you are resorting to this as a means for starting a relationship is sad.... it goes to show that so many people lack the social skills to find and maintain a relationship outside of the realm of a computer screen. The 'mundane crap' is a part of life and essential in every relationship. All relationships, good or bad, are meant to prep you for marriage. Would you want to settle down with someone who you have met 3 times a year for about 2 years? You think you know them... but do you? Fuck no. There are so many traits, characteristics and hidden intricacies in people. You wont find those out unless you are with them. This excludes webcams, chatting and the likes....

Posted by klingklang77 on Jun-25-2006 08:02:

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Originally posted by _Nut_
Ahhh no. I disagree 100%. My fiance is 4000 mile away atm (me chicago-ish, her hawaii). Time apart is a bitch.

And for the fact that you are resorting to this as a means for starting a relationship is sad.... it goes to show that so many people lack the social skills to find and maintain a relationship outside of the realm of a computer screen. The 'mundane crap' is a part of life and essential in every relationship. All relationships, good or bad, are meant to prep you for marriage. Would you want to settle down with someone who you have met 3 times a year for about 2 years? You think you know them... but do you? Fuck no. There are so many traits, characteristics and hidden intricacies in people. You wont find those out unless you are with them. This excludes webcams, chatting and the likes....

LDRs are quite bad. i was in one with my fiance (me- NY him- Australia) but we are getting married in 3 weeks and he is here in NY with me now. the time apart was really rough. but if you can make it thru this you can make it thru anything.

just remember to think of the end to the time apart. i would always think when things were getting rough to remind myself XX amount of days. that always worked.

Posted by Mr. Pink on Jun-25-2006 17:49:

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quote:
Originally posted by igottaknow
this leads me to my theory that long distance relationship and cyber love is appealing because distance makes the heart grow fonder and we aren't exposed to mundane crap of ordinary life.
no

Posted by igottaknow on Jun-25-2006 23:47:

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quote:
Originally posted by _Nut_
Ahhh no. I disagree 100%. My fiance is 4000 mile away atm (me chicago-ish, her hawaii). Time apart is a bitch.

And for the fact that you are resorting to this as a means for starting a relationship is sad.... it goes to show that so many people lack the social skills to find and maintain a relationship outside of the realm of a computer screen. The 'mundane crap' is a part of life and essential in every relationship. All relationships, good or bad, are meant to prep you for marriage. Would you want to settle down with someone who you have met 3 times a year for about 2 years? You think you know them... but do you? Fuck no. There are so many traits, characteristics and hidden intricacies in people. You wont find those out unless you are with them. This excludes webcams, chatting and the likes....

actually you are in no position to disagree since you are one of those ppl who are in a long distance relationship.

if find it ironic most of you ppl are in LDR and are telling me I'm wrong

Posted by Vivid Boy on Jun-25-2006 23:57:

well imgonnablow, its sad to say that u are officially a geek. You are like kip from napoleon dynamite picking up hot babes on the internet all day. so sad so sad.

but then again u prolly wont get laid any other way so all the power to ya. btw ill give u permission to use my pics in order to pick em up. i wont tell.

Posted by igottaknow on Jun-26-2006 00:05:

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Originally posted by Vivid Boy
well imgonnablow, its sad to say that u are officially a geek. You are like kip from napoleon dynamite picking up hot babes on the internet all day. so sad so sad.

but then again u prolly wont get laid any other way so all the power to ya. btw ill give u permission to use my pics in order to pick em up. i wont tell.

you're too kind

vivid /on

"any of you bitches wanna do a line of coke off my dick?"

Posted by Ripped Bag on Jun-26-2006 00:07:

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Originally posted by KilldaDJ
its no fun masturbating to pics

I disagree sir

Posted by igottaknow on Jun-26-2006 00:08:

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Originally posted by Ripped Bag
I disagree sir
well said

Posted by Sunsnail on Jun-26-2006 00:09:

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Originally posted by Ripped Bag
I disagree sir

lol

Posted by MeLLyMeL on Jun-26-2006 00:36:

i'm in a LDR..

it sucks.. but its good in a way cuz he won't be able to put up with my shit if he lived here

Posted by igottaknow on Jun-26-2006 00:38:

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Originally posted by MeLLyMeL
i'm in a LDR..

it sucks.. but its good in a way cuz he won't be able to put up with my shit if he lived here

thx for agreeing with me (i'm sending the money to ur paypal account as we speak)

one day we'll be together i look forward to shooting alligators from our front porch snook'ems

Posted by {b.s.e.} on Jun-26-2006 01:01:

in soviet russia, alligator shoots you

Posted by igottaknow on Jun-26-2006 12:30:

me in a LDR...

"hellllllllllloooooooooooooooo"

Posted by BadBadNeil on Jun-26-2006 12:41:

did a LDR for 4 years, almost to the point of being married. Worst thing I've probably done my whole life. Waste of time, sex is infrequent, constant bitching by partner, too much crap to work out. Won't do that again.

Posted by Jase83 on Jun-26-2006 13:04:

igottaknow,
I thought your hand was only an arms reach away. Hardly a long distance relationship if you ask me.

(for calling me an Alt in the other thread!)

Posted by placebo on Jun-26-2006 13:59:

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Originally posted by Jase83
igottaknow,
I thought your hand was only an arms reach away. Hardly a long distance relationship if you ask me.

(for calling me an Alt in the other thread!)

Best alt ever