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Lately I've been finding it really hard to find like minded people that are into the same music as me, and like the same taste in stuff.
Like someone said to me once one day, " they are there, it's just knowing they're there is the hard part."
Can anyone give me any advice on how I can find these people!
cheers
Re: Your friends
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| Originally posted by alexlosy Can anyone give me any advice on how I can find these people! |
Re: Re: Your friends
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| Originally posted by mellow_head MySpace |
The ppl you are talking about can be found in Latersville, South Dakota.
Do people need to listen to the same kind of music as you if they want to be your friend?
I have lots of friends but only 1-2 actually listen to the same stuff as me.
yeh it's hard finding other people that enjoy midget pr0n 
seriously though, try joining a social club for what you're interested in in your local area. get out there and meet people and open yourself up to the idea that people are different.
as for the music, go to clubs/parties that play your music (assuming you're referring to EDM) and make some friends.
I meet all my clubbing friends through forums 
Most of my friends right now ( where I have lived for the last year and a half ) I consider them acquaintances .... sure I have know 2 or 3 of them since I was a baby but I feel little to no connection to any of them.
I realize we can't all have similar interests but all they do is mock me and my tastes in:
books
movies
hobby
music ( and not just electronic .... I listen to anything under the sun and I guess that's too much for them to handle 
)
art etc
I have a very open mind about things and some people just don't understand that.
Most of them are annoying f*cks who are married now and are totally unavailable anyhow as friends. It really pisses me off. I miss my friends from where I lived before
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| Originally posted by jdat Most of my friends right now ( where I have lived for the last year and a half ) I consider them acquaintances .... sure I have know 2 or 3 of them since I was a baby but I feel little to no connection to any of them. I realize we can't all have similar interests but all they do is mock me and my tastes in: books movies hobby music ( and not just electronic .... I listen to anything under the sun and I guess that's too much for them to handle )art etc I have a very open mind about things and some people just don't understand that. Most of them are annoying f*cks who are married now and are totally unavailable anyhow as friends. It really pisses me off. I miss my friends from where I lived before |
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| Originally posted by jdat Most of my friends right now ( where I have lived for the last year and a half ) I consider them acquaintances .... sure I have know 2 or 3 of them since I was a baby but I feel little to no connection to any of them. I realize we can't all have similar interests but all they do is mock me and my tastes in: books movies hobby music ( and not just electronic .... I listen to anything under the sun and I guess that's too much for them to handle )art etc I have a very open mind about things and some people just don't understand that. Most of them are annoying f*cks who are married now and are totally unavailable anyhow as friends. It really pisses me off. I miss my friends from where I lived before |
i dont really have a problem making friends...it's keeping them that's hard.
i'm very moody and i get turned off easily and it's just hard to maintain a friendship with someone who already has friends and whatnot.
i guess it's just too much work. i hate the beginning phase of a friendship when you're both still kinda phony and feeling each other out n stuff. it's like dating. bleh...
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| Originally posted by Sunsnail which was... |
I have a LOT of friends, and I have VERY FEW who have the same interests as me. Take that as you will.
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| Originally posted by jdat say what? |
Alex (?), if I wanted friends who listen to trance, for example, I'd go to a trance party, I believe.
In my case, I lost touch many of my friends due to university and relationships, but it didn't keep me from befriending more people, specially those old friends who I always wanted to get to know better and never had the chance to
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| Originally posted by david.michael I have a LOT of friends, and I have VERY FEW who have the same interests as me. Take that as you will. |
You think it's hard finding friends who like trance, how about friends who like listening to german metal/industrial that aren't nazi's, haha.
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| Originally posted by eXo You think it's hard finding friends who like trance, how about friends who like listening to german metal/industrial that aren't nazi's, haha. |
i have plenty of friends, and i DID have loads that were into the same music [either hardcore or dnb] but now that i've broken off and got back into trance that number has dwinddled down to maybe 1 or 2 people that would be prepared to travel for trance events.
whereas i could name about 10+ people who i'd go to a core event with...
most of my friends are through people i've known since i was a kid, and through those people their friends from school etc. im not really close friends with anyone who was in my year at school.
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| Originally posted by david.michael I have a LOT of friends, and I have VERY FEW who have the same interests as me. Take that as you will. |
I could care less if my friends are into the same music as me or not. What matters most is if they posess the qualities I respect and/or admire in a person. I can't be friends with someone if I strongly disagree with their beliefs and values.
^^ i agree. and the same thing goes for my boyfriend too. when i was younger and less wise, i used to gasp at the idea that i would date someone who wasn't into edm or my kind of music. but as i get older, i realize that yea, it's nice if they do, but it's not going to make or break my relationship. i mean, if i dated a guy who HATED edm, then yea, i dont know if it would work. but if i dated a guy who just wasn't really that familiar with it but had an open mind, then that's fine.
that's how my bf is now. he's not obsessed with music like i am....he likes his R&B and hip hop and rock..he's just like a "whatever" kind of guy about music and i'm fine with that. what's important is that i can trust him, i can depend on him, he has a big dick , makes me laugh, etc...you know, the important stuff.
im the only one among my friends to like EDM Its frustrating sometimes but thats not the most important cuz we share a lot of similar tastes in others fields and have a good laugh together
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| Originally posted by babyvsrhino I'll trade you one of those for one that likes trance and isn't arrogant about how much more about trance he knows than you do. |
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| Originally posted by Slylee he likes his R&B |
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| Originally posted by Lira Now that's something unusual |
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