Give to receive or Give for pleasure?

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Posted by benwaa on Oct-17-2006 19:20:

Give to receive or Give for pleasure?

Question is a simple one i think,

Is it better to give to receive or just give for the pure pleasure of the other person?

I know my answer, give for the pleasure of the other.

Really curious to find out other peoples take on this, especially the ladies...

edit:

This is not a sex related question, it's about gifts in general

Posted by aNYthing on Oct-17-2006 19:22:

Re: Give to receive or Give for pleasure?

quote:
Originally posted by benwaa
Question is a simple one i think,

Is it better to give to receive or just give for the pure pleasure of the other person?

I know my answer, give for the pleasure of the other.

Really curious to find out other peoples take on this, especially the ladies...

there's already a thread devoted to oral sex. must you create another one? Or is it just a desparate attempt to get noticed?

Posted by benwaa on Oct-17-2006 19:26:

I'm on about general gifts, not oral sex or anything sexual for that matter.

Posted by StanVoid on Oct-17-2006 19:27:

to me, freedom means being able to walk through the streets of Austria holding hands with my boyfriend, and not having people looking at us.

Posted by Silky Johnson on Oct-17-2006 19:32:

Yeah I definitely think it's better to give purely for the other person's sake.

It makes me feel good because I've done something kind. It also makes me feel good because I genuinely like to see people happy, and I don't have shady motives when I display my generosity.

I couldn't imagine what it must be like to go around with a "give only because you receive" mentality. Ugh...it's so ugly and miserable to me.

Posted by jonSun on Oct-17-2006 19:35:

Recieve

Posted by Orpheus Is Dead on Oct-17-2006 19:35:

quote:
Originally posted by jennypie
Yeah I definitely think it's better to give purely for the other person's sake.

It makes me feel good because I've done something kind. It also makes me feel good because I genuinely like to see people happy, and I don't have shady motives when I display my generosity.

I couldn't imagine what it must be like to go around with a "give only because you receive" mentality. Ugh...it's so ugly and miserable to me.

As fucked up as I am... I totally agree with this and live by it too

Posted by KilldaDJ on Oct-17-2006 19:39:

who gives for pleasure?

Posted by EarnYourKeep on Oct-17-2006 19:39:

Posted by Slylee on Oct-17-2006 19:41:

give to please.

Posted by IronDragon on Oct-17-2006 19:43:

Definetly the latter

Seriously-if I ever meet you I'll probably buy you a $50 dinner and free booze just because I'm that kind of guy.

Posted by david.michael on Oct-17-2006 20:07:

Give for butsaix.

Posted by Silky Johnson on Oct-17-2006 20:09:

I don't think it's a coincidence that the people who expect things in return are usually the most miserable fucks you'll ever meet. All the people I know who are like that have SO much drama all the time. Haha, suckers.

Posted by EXTREMUM on Oct-17-2006 20:11:

Posted by Slylee on Oct-17-2006 20:17:

yea can we stop with the friggin sex threads?

i know i kind of started it, but jesus!!

it's hot in hurrr!

Posted by IronDragon on Oct-17-2006 20:21:

quote:
Originally posted by Slylee
yea can we stop with the friggin sex threads?

i know i kind of started it, but jesus!!

it's hot in hurrr!

I didn't think of this as a sex thread

Posted by jdat on Oct-17-2006 20:31:

if there's a cumshot at the end of the giving then I am all in favor of offering pleasure

Posted by Arbiter on Oct-17-2006 21:27:

My motives can't be generalized so simplistically, but I certainly don't give gifts with the intention of receiving something in return. I wouldn't even call it a gift if that were my objective.

Posted by benwaa on Oct-17-2006 21:36:

quote:
Originally posted by Slylee
yea can we stop with the friggin sex threads?

i know i kind of started it, but jesus!!

it's hot in hurrr!

i didn't start this with sex in mind at all, I was thinking about a recent situation that a present was given to someone, then when they gave a present back, some time later, they expected to share half of it surely making it a non-present.
I wanted the CORs views without giving enough away to encourage too many far out replies.
No sex here love, I'm Welsh!

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Posted by all-nite-freak on Oct-17-2006 21:54:

quote:
Originally posted by dallastar
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selfish selfish selfish....

i bet when you go to a hotel, you don't just eat the mint but the whole pillow

Posted by dallastar on Oct-17-2006 21:57:

quote:
Originally posted by all-nite-freak
selfish selfish selfish....

i bet when you go to a hotel, you don't just eat the mint but the whole pillow

Fine then,

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Posted by Ygrene on Oct-17-2006 21:59:

I enjoy giving for pleasure. I get a big kick out of people really enjoying the gifts that I give.

Posted by RandomGirl on Oct-17-2006 22:04:

Give for the pleasure of giving. It's so satisfying to see someone's face light up when you have done something nice for them.

Posted by Xenocreator_PG_ on Oct-17-2006 22:05:

It depends on what deodorant she is wearing. If I like the smell, then I could be licking those armpits for ages, if I dont like the smell, well, then I will call in the guards & banish her from my chambers

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