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Posted by SmellsExcellent on Mar-19-2002 21:12:

GIRLS, a question for you....

ok, first of all, go to this thread and check it out:

http://www.tranceaddict.com/forums/...&threadid=37789

now go here and get the jist of what that thread is talking about

http://www.galaktek.com/cgi-bin/ind...e=deffect2.html

and then please tell me that it isnt true that "nice guys finish last." How can this kid just be an ass and get two chicks?? Fuckin A.. i wish i could be meaner.. no, not really, but its too bad that that's what it takes.

-Marc


Posted by biznology on Mar-19-2002 21:32:

you gotta remember there may be a difference in what they say and what they practice marc! late/


Posted by AnotherWay83 on Mar-19-2002 21:44:

i dont think that that d00d actually nailed those 2 chix...i mean c'mon, how would he get those chix to pose so he could take those pix..also, read the disclaimer...i think he's trying to say "believe it at ur own risk"...

that said, i do believe that nice guys finish last...


Posted by TranceSeeker on Mar-19-2002 22:59:

Hmmm I read it too and I can say that could be true guys, but not with everyone.

Be bad boy and let the girls catch you instead of you catch them.
Show interest and then let them run after you.
If u r nice to them, I experienced it myself (Im talking here of one girl) I was very nice to her, I told here I wouldnt loose her ever.
The next day she broke up (that bitch) --> I was very nice to her.
So on that moment I realised. Dont be nice to bitches(not every girl no way!!!) If I had been the bad guy "beeing the man" --> getting a higher status over her --> she wouldn't have broke up (that bitch) hehe.
I just wanna say -> Let a girl be beneath you, have a sort of power over them, psychologically (OMG what am i saying here) but I think (and that my opinion on that) its true.
Not with every girl but what I experienced its true.


Posted by Eugene on Mar-19-2002 23:00:

hehe, nice guys finish last, eh?


Posted by Lost on Mar-19-2002 23:25:

i'd have to say that nice guys finish last unless that girl really loves you. this came up in a conversation at work last year. i had to share my office with seven women so i got to overhear a lot of girl talk. anyways, this one girl said something like some dude she took home with her was up the next morning making her breakfast and she thought what a loser and never dated him again. then i said wtf?!?! wouldn't you be impressed that he would do that for you? and she said no way. she said that she would only be impressed if she really loved that person. she couldn't explain it but to her she only respects the man she loves if he does that and not anyone else. which brings me to the point i was making. i have the nice guy problem to, and relationships never worked out for me until i met my girl back in august. i was the same old me and this time it worked and my girl loves me like i can't explain. it made me think of that conversation and how dead on it probably is. so if you want to find a girl that loves you be a nice guy and wait but if you want to find any girl and quickly then start taking prick lessons.

lost


Posted by infinity HiGH on Mar-20-2002 00:03:

Nice guys do finish last...

...hehe, this reminds of a story...I was in love with this girl and ya, it was all good and shit, but she wasn't ready to be in a serious relationship again...so I told her that I can give her all the time in the world. I was nice to her, treated her with respect...joked around, etc etc etc, had fun, basically. And, ya, all of the sudden she turns into this bitch and tells me that its not going to work out, completely ignores me, and just gives up on the friendship me and her had.


Posted by Slylee on Mar-20-2002 00:10:

i dont have time to read those stories right now but i will say that the reason why nice guys finish last is because girls are stupid. the whole mentality of the "game" is blown way out of proportion these days i think. girls are needy and want the attention of the guys who dont give it to them....it's all very simple


Posted by Miss Proximus on Mar-20-2002 00:18:

this method would prolly work for a one-night stand kinda date..but not if u're into a serious relationship eh

i think it's the fact that this guy keeps very distant that attracts those girls

cuz hey..we all want what we can't have!!!

reading that story made me feel very denegrated (??) cuz it makes women look like hopeless victims rather than being in control...

i think in my entire dating history it was me that had to take the first step, cuz i always thought "what the heck" and came on to the cuties....and i can't remember any of them being half as lame as that deacon-impersonator...

what i do remember is that those sick-ass lamers that hurt and terribly tease women to get layed, are the most insecure ones and also the ones that won't respect u for who u are and what your qualities are

there


Posted by whiskers on Mar-20-2002 01:02:

quote:
Originally posted by Lost
i'd have to say that nice guys finish last unless that girl really loves you.
lost


looks like a good way to find the right person...

as for playing a badass... how about just being yourself? so i'l still be myself, and i don't care if i finish last, at least i'll finish.


Posted by SmellsExcellent on Mar-20-2002 01:19:

quote:
Originally posted by TiestoInTheMix


looks like a good way to find the right person...

as for playing a badass... how about just being yourself? so i'l still be myself, and i don't care if i finish last, at least i'll finish.


What a good point.. I agree totally. I dont wanna change my niceness to meanness just to get any girl even thought it seems like such a great thing. I just couldnt stand myself any other way.. Hopefully I can just find chicks ho like me for me.

-M


Posted by Lazgti on Mar-20-2002 01:46:

I have been played enough and have even been dissed off by a chick because I didn't put out. I wasn't sure if I liked the girl as more than a friend and I didn't really make out with her. Some guys would just get in there and get some action to me there is no point if I like her yeah I'll work on it if I am not down why do that and possibly hurt her feelings when I tell her I am not down. Well...I looked quite the fool and now I have shared. I have seen all these stupid girls go for complete losers with no education, shitty jobs, no respect for the girl, total asshole attitude and yet these stupid chicks stay with them. I have even known girls that stayed with abusive boyfriends. Dumb broads these days.

The game is way overdone like Slylee said...Toronto here is fahking classic these days. You say "Hi" to a girl after you notice her give you a look and she'll dis you off with a "Yeah do I know you" or she'll turn her back...how fahking rude.

I am doing shit differently from now on. Fahk respect and all that shit. I ain't into no bullshit game, how fahkin old am I now. 25, my parents were married and pregnant at my age...I am not going to chase around after some stupid chick who doesn't know what she wants...

Prick Laz has been unleashed...feel his fury! LOL But I still think chicks are really immature these days and the only ones who know what they want are the ones in their very late twenties and early thirties maybe cos they are getting desperate to find a hubby so they become a bit more serious in how they approach relations. Maybe gotta find a suga momma...hehe

PS: That dude Sabastian was a total fahking champ if he really did that. I doubt he did but some of it has to be real....the best was

"Hi I'm Sarah" answers "I'm thirsty"


Posted by JM on Mar-20-2002 02:21:

man...i have always notice that when i'm rude to girls or i ignore them, they just follow me around and want me more. thing is i'm not ignoring them or being rude to them for no reason, it's cos i dont like them!!!!!...so yeah....

nice guys DO finish last, most of the time, there are exceptions..but i wont post any examples

>JM<


Posted by JM on Mar-20-2002 02:23:

quote:
Originally posted by Lazgti ...all these stupid girls go for complete losers with no education, shitty jobs, no respect for the girl, total asshole attitude and yet these stupid chicks stay with them. Dumb broads these days.




i must say i agree with you on that one. i know girls that take total shit from guys, i'm not really sure what it is - i actually dont go and ask them why they're so stupid.

>JM<


Posted by Eugene on Mar-20-2002 03:31:

Look guys, all this stuff about "nice guys finishing last" is complete bullshit.
It's all about finding the right girl.


Posted by integrity1 on Mar-20-2002 03:52:

i kinda had the same thing happen to me, infinity high. there was this girl, we were amd close, and she gave me the friends line. now i dont even talk to her anymore.

juricimo, when ever im rude to girls, they just mace me and push me down a flight of stairs. hmmmm, maybe im doing something wrong.

in all serious i like to think that i am a nice guy. im polite, i never try to act like an ass or force myself on a girl and you know what? i get no women. its been a year since i last hooked up with anyone. why? i dont know. but ive seen a lot of loser get with quite the pretty girl while ill sit around with a stupid look on my face. o well, i guess thats how life is


Posted by Lost on Mar-20-2002 03:56:

quote:
Originally posted by Eugene
Look guys, all this stuff about "nice guys finishing last" is complete bullshit.
It's all about finding the right girl.


agreed. it's what the last line of my post was trying to say.

lost


Posted by OrZonE on Mar-20-2002 04:09:

quote:
Originally posted by Eugene
Look guys, all this stuff about "nice guys finishing last" is complete bullshit.
It's all about finding the right girl.


Agree and disagree. But mostly Agree.

There are many girls out there (hard to believe i know ) and they all like different things, just like guys.


Posted by elena on Mar-20-2002 05:28:

nice guys finish last...unfortunately...
well at least for now..maybe not when it comes to getting married n such seriousnesss...

but ya "bad" boys are more appealing cause theyre harder to get and the chase is always fun yeah ask anyone...
however girls will probably end up falling for the nice guy at the end like sappy love stories cause the nice guy has always been by her side and etc...

the same goes for girls though...guys wold probably WANT a girl that was hard to get


Posted by kolkiewolkie on Mar-20-2002 09:27:

TOTALLY agree with Lost and Eugenne...

personally I always try 2 b nice to everybody. OK, atm it is not working out yet, but I think that, for me, that is the right way... I mean, I can be an asshole if I want and try, but I:
1) can't STAY bad
2) probably would end up with the sort of girls I don't like...

nevertheless, for a ONS (one night/week stand), I am gonna try it once...... but then I'll first have to lose a sort of "this is bad" feeling.......still.... it remains attractive ofcourse to try it.....LOL..

anywayz, I'm surprised about the story Lost told (the first part)....men if a girl did that I'd be a BAD BOY at ONCE and kick her out .. o wait.. you can get sued for that...mmmmmm

greetz


Posted by Miss Proximus on Mar-20-2002 09:44:

My boyfriend is the sweetest man I know...he can be a little ignorant about women-things, but hey..he treats me like I'm Princess Sissi and does anything to please me (he spoils me )

He won my heart 4 years ago and we've been together since 3 yrs.....so sweet guys.......don't lose hope cuz that one girl is defo out there for u

Good luck finding her...and when u do...treasure her


Posted by Drifter on Mar-20-2002 09:52:

hmmmmm......i'm friends with everybody cause i'm just a friendly guy.....they say don't try let it come to u, what an absolute load of bullshit i say, but truth is i don't care that much, i ain't desperate


Posted by ExOn on Mar-20-2002 14:45:

Smoking ..umm..something

No this is actually true. Be an asshole at first.. make her think she is in control, then gradually be more nice to her.
You cant be an asshole all the time because then she will get tired and break up with you or leave you.
Then be an asshole once in awhile to "spice up" the realationship.
If you are to nice they will get tired of you..that's a fact!


Posted by trance_freak on Mar-20-2002 14:47:

Re: GIRLS, a question for you....

quote:


and then please tell me that it isnt true that "nice guys finish last." How can this kid just be an ass and get two chicks?? Fuckin A.. i wish i could be meaner.. no, not really, but its too bad that that's what it takes.

-Marc



HAHAH, its called the Deacon effect...



http://www.galaktek.com/cgi-bin/ind...e=deffect1.html

Read it and tell me what u guys think...


Posted by Miss Proximus on Mar-20-2002 20:33:

Re: Re: GIRLS, a question for you....

quote:
Originally posted by trance_freak



HAHAH, its called the Deacon effect...



http://www.galaktek.com/cgi-bin/ind...e=deffect1.html

Read it and tell me what u guys think...



O god.........did you actually read the thread??? I feel so much like slapping u in da face!!


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