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Would you introduce your children to partying ???

Assuming you have kids and they have reached the legal age of 19. If you are still in the partying game, would you introduce the lifestyle to your kids? or would you keep it a secret till they discover it for themselves?

Stop asking hard questions man.

I really can't think of an answer

I wouldnt actively try to introduce them to it.

If they wanted to get into it though, i would not be opposed to it. How hypocritical would that be!

Don't plan on having kids. Unless the world takes a good turn in the next while.

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Originally posted by oldschool420 Don't plan on having kids. Unless the world takes a good turn in the next while.

im sure things will change once you meet the right lady

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Originally posted by _EuG_ im sure things will change once you meet the right lady

Highly doubt it. It has nothing to do with the proper lady. Has to do with how the world is gonna be when my kid grows up. Like I said, the next 10 years will tell, but right now, not a chance.

I'd tell my kid what the scene is like, what I found fun, what are potential dangers.

Then, I'd tell him/her, have fun. Stay out of trouble

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Originally posted by EvilTree I'd tell my kid what the scene is like, what I found fun, what are potential dangers. Then, I'd tell him/her, have fun. Stay out of trouble

I would do the same...


kinda like a sex talk!

but more interesting




So no one would take thier kid to the zone for thier 19th bday ?

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Originally posted by _EuG_ I would do the same... kinda like a sex talk! but more interesting So no one would take thier kid to the zone for thier 19th bday ?

My boy needs a trip to the rippers before the Zone

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Originally posted by EvilTree My boy needs a trip to the rippers before the Zone

FUCKIN EH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

family trip to whiskey-a-gogo!

If it's a lifestyle, then you shouldn't have kids.

You'd better hit the gym and take care of your looks metrosexual styles if you don't want to look creepy going out when your kids are of legal age.

I would seriously doubt one's ability to 'keep up' with the scene.

It all depends on context, man.

i would never introduce my kids to the scene. if they find the scene on their own with their friends then i wont oppose it. i will help guide them through the scene so they dont do stupid shit.

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Originally posted by chinamon i would never introduce my kids to the scene. if they find the scene on their own with their friends then i wont oppose it. i will help guide them through the scene so they dont do stupid shit.

Chinaman you are



MA FAZER !!!!!!!!


may the force be with you as you guide me through the difficult journey known as "the scene"

my first time at an afterhours club was with my dad.
expose them to the music early, tell them about the scene and your times in it (all things good AND bad). IF you have done your job and brought the child up with good morales and good values....you should have no trouble.


My dad and I have a truly remarkable relationship that goes far beyond a normal father / son relationship and I would'nt change that for the world!!!!


im not voting on this because that first option makes it sound like me and my kid are gonna go on 3 day party/drug benders and No i wouldn't do that....

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Originally posted by samhouse my first time at an afterhours club was with my dad. expose them to the music early, tell them about the scene and your times in it (all things good AND bad). IF you have done your job and brought the child up with good morales and good values....you should have no trouble. My dad and I have a truly remarkable relationship that goes far beyond a normal father / son relationship and I would'nt change that for the world!!!! im not voting on this because that first option makes it sound like me and my kid are gonna go on 3 day party/drug benders and No i wouldn't do that....

i wish i was the same with my dad, we barely talk. Mostly its arguing and screaming

no.

of course not.

No.

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Originally posted by rabbitjoker No.

Would you object or be opposed to them being in the scene (discovered entirely on their own accord) though?

Probably one of the best votes I have seen so far.

I will not be partying when or if I do have kids. Once I enter into parenthood, that will end this part of my life. I expect I will still go out once in a while, but only consuming a few alcoholic beverages.

Being a parent is alot of responsibility and I would not bring a child into this world where they are exposed to sketchy mondays and all night events on a regular basis. That just invites bad things to happen.

I am sure that if this was the road they wanted to choose and party as I have, then that is their choice without my own influences.

Who ever says yes to this is a sick bastard

just like chinamon said, i would let them find it themselves. although if i find them doing some bad shit at a young age, ill take em to zone and leave them to teach them a lesson

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Originally posted by jchung52 just like chinamon said, i would let them find it themselves. although if i find them doing some bad shit at a young age, ill take em to zone and leave them to teach them a lesson

the problem with that is they might enjoy it and never leave. then you've got a crackhead son/daughter to deal with.

If they wanted to get into it, I'd sit them down for a talk - def wouldn't let them out of the house for them until they were at least 18 unless I went with them.

But I don't really see myself having children when I consider myself such a work in progress that I don't see where I can fit in children.

Besides, little Kabels?!?!?!?! ACK! The world would shudder at their birth.

I chose no kids (not because I want to party, I just don't want kids) but if I were to have them I would be totally open and honest about everything. Here's why: my parents divorced when I was 2 and I was raised by my dad until I turned 16 then I moved in with my mother. My dad pretended to be this upstanding citizen who never did anything wrong whereas my mother was always open and honest about things. To this day I see my dad as a joke and my mother as someone to respect. Why? Because she respected me enough to tell me the truth and let me make the right choices on my own based on what she (and my dad) had taught me growing up. Would I bring my kid to a club? Possibly, that would depend on what sort of relationship we had and what sort of kid they were, what the club scene is like at that time, etc...

I have a niece in NWT, she lives in a small town you need to fly in to. A couple of years back when she was 14 she started getting in trouble with drugs and drinking, skipping school, stuff like that. My brother is long out of the picture and she wouldn't listen to her mom or grandad (my dad) so he asked me to talk to her. I told her I knew what she was going through (I had lived in Yellowknife at that age) and I understood but what she needed to do was be sensible. Rather then do what everyone else was doing and tell her to not drink or do drugs I told her to be smart about it, don't do it when you have school, don't get high everyday, don't skip school, remember that there's a life waiting for her when she grows up and this is the time when she could ruin that life. Guess what? It worked. She still has fun with her friends but at least she's going to school now and might someday do something with herself besides be a loser on welfare with 5 kids at the age of 25.

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