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Posted by Caela on Jan-05-2007 19:50:

probably the 2343th thread about this.

How do you get over someone you love without falling into the trap of "the rebound"?

And, unfortunately being friends with him won't work in my case.

Posted by david.michael on Jan-05-2007 19:51:

Re: probably the 2343th thread about this.

quote:
Originally posted by Caela
How do you get over someone you love without falling into the trap of "the rebound"?

And, unfortunately being friends with him won't work in my case.

Stick it in his butt?

Hmm. Just doesn't work the same when the OP is female.

Posted by asfdz on Jan-05-2007 19:52:

Re: probably the 2343th thread about this.

quote:
Originally posted by Caela
How do you get over someone you love without falling into the trap of "the rebound"?

And, unfortunately being friends with him won't work in my case.

Eat ice cream.

I don't know, it's hard no matter what.

Posted by Moral Hazard on Jan-05-2007 19:52:

Personally, I say do the rebound thing. Have a whack of meaningless sex with people you hardly know. It will make you feel better about yourself and help get your self-esteem back to where it needs to be in order to find a good relationship.

Posted by Caela on Jan-05-2007 19:53:

Re: Re: probably the 2343th thread about this.

quote:
Originally posted by Azia
Eat ice cream.

I don't know, it's hard no matter what.

shara, girl we're going thru the same thing. OMG you should come visit me for my birthday (20th)...we can party it up, there's an afterhours in burlington...say whaaaaaaat?

Posted by Omega_M on Jan-05-2007 19:53:

Kiss a few more girlfriends in front of him and tell him you have finally become a lesb.

/thread.

Posted by l�cid on Jan-05-2007 19:54:

everything you can do to get over someone is basically a rebound response... there's no magical way to just *instantly* be over someone you love(d), but there's plenty of great ways to forget about him! may i suggest...

- drugs
- alcohol
- more drugs
- more alcohol
- lesbianism
- slut it up in multiple states/countries
- poop on his car
- get pregnant
- get a pet

best of luck to you.

Posted by butterfly on Jan-05-2007 19:54:

Posted by Caela on Jan-05-2007 19:54:

shall i mention that he is officially psycho.

Posted by david.michael on Jan-05-2007 19:54:

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Posted by Caela on Jan-05-2007 19:56:

quote:
Originally posted by l�cid
- drugs
- alcohol
- more drugs
- more alcohol
- lesbianism
- slut it up in multiple states/countries
- poop on his car
- get pregnant
- get a pet

best of luck to you.

sounds good...except maybe the last 3.

i need to get myself a good ol english hottie. mmmmmm

Posted by l�cid on Jan-05-2007 19:57:

quote:
Originally posted by Moral Hazard
Personally, I say do the rebound thing. Have a whack of meaningless sex with people you hardly know. It will make you feel better about yourself and help get your self-esteem back to where it needs to be in order to find a good relationship.

+1

nothing wrong with rebounding, as long as you make it clear to whoever you're getting intimately involved with that you're still getting over your last relationship and that you're not looking for anything serious.

Posted by Slylee on Jan-05-2007 19:58:

Posted by l�cid on Jan-05-2007 19:59:

the best way to get over someone is to get onto someone else.

Posted by Halcyon+On+On on Jan-05-2007 20:00:

quote:
Originally posted by l�cid
- poop on his car

God that was hilariously gross.

Posted by Caela on Jan-05-2007 20:01:

UMM....he doesn't have a car to poop on.

Posted by Moral Hazard on Jan-05-2007 20:02:

quote:
Originally posted by l�cid
the best way to get over someone is to get onto someone else.

If you and Rob break up, call me

Posted by Moral Hazard on Jan-05-2007 20:02:

quote:
Originally posted by Caela
UMM....he doesn't have a car to poop on.

Dude doesn't have a car or a vagina... what were you doing with him in the first place?

Posted by asfdz on Jan-05-2007 20:04:

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quote:
Originally posted by Caela
shara, girl we're going thru the same thing. OMG you should come visit me for my birthday (20th)...we can party it up, there's an afterhours in burlington...say whaaaaaaat?

Afterhours?!?
No SHIT

Posted by l�cid on Jan-05-2007 20:04:

quote:
Originally posted by Moral Hazard
If you and Rob break up, call me

actually... we've discussed this before, and he's got first dibs on you.

Posted by Caela on Jan-05-2007 20:05:

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quote:
Originally posted by Azia
Afterhours?!?
No SHIT

i'm not even kidding. come up for sat night with your sis...you guys can crash at my place.

Posted by Caela on Jan-05-2007 20:07:

quote:
Originally posted by Moral Hazard
Dude doesn't have a car or a vagina... what were you doing with him in the first place?

textbook story...fell in love with the person he was, he changed, kept trying to hang onto who he was...lies/cheating (not on my part), stuck on a fucking lease with him so i had to ride it out, moved out...now he is spazzing because he "finally realized what he lost". ugh men.

Posted by Frenchie on Jan-05-2007 20:10:

Hmmm, you seem to be a strong girl, you'll get over it.

Just keep yourself busy and stop dwelling on it. You wont fall into the "trap" if you don't let yourself do so. Go on doing what you would normally do on a regular basis...you'll be fine!

Posted by Slylee on Jan-05-2007 20:12:

if he was a liar and a cheater, then you really should talk yourself into getting mad, not sad. it's easier to be angry. he sounds like a piece of shit. typical guy who can't keep it in his pants and then cries about the consequences later.

tough shit. move on. you should be happy that you are out of that joke of a relationship. time to start having fun and dating some REAL men

Posted by Caela on Jan-05-2007 20:14:

yayyy cocktail party tonight with the girls...and plenty of new guys to meet.

thx for the words everyone...i already feel better. nothing a little c0r/eve 6 can't cure. OMG i just realized i haven't listened to non-edm in...i don't even know.

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