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Posted by Zombie0729 on Jan-29-2007 20:10:

My GF got roofied Saturday Night... scariest night of my life

Here is an email i wrote to my friends today... i thought i'd share because i had no idea how a night i'm DJing would ever turn into this

quote:


What up guys, I’ll make this brief. I know I talked to most of you regarding the story with my girlfriend and that scumbag Saturday night. Just to recap, my girlfriend came in with her friends around 10p.m. and went to the bar where there was a long line. Some guy with a backwards blue hat went up to Danielle and was like ‘you’re too pretty to be standing in line’ and Danielle went outside to join her friends instead of being near this guy. Later he came outside, tried to befriend her again and while talking to her friends gave her a drink.



At this point she’s had 1 drink at dinner (7pm) and now this second drink at 10pm. Thankfully Sam called her over to get rid of the guy and he left. About an hour later when she was with her girlfriends and Robin (she thinks) the guy came up to her again. This time she walked away with her girlfriends and met me inside. To me this is the point in the story that hit home; he gave her a drink an hour prior and almost ‘checked up’ on her to see if anything had happened.



From there on, my gf was near the DJ booth barely able to stand. She was side-stepping, bumping into me and the dresser next to the booth. A bunch of people came up to us, said hi, cheers’d me, asked for some music etc. My gf doesn’t remember ONE instance of any of those encounters. Okay, my gf also weighs 100lbs, maybe she’s just an extreme lightweight? I thought maybe two drinks in 4hrs could make someone drunk… I know not any of us but it’s a petite girl so who knows. So once I saw her like this I told her to stop drinking. She told me she never even got half way thru the drink and trashed it an hour ago. So my gf hasn’t had a drink now in an hour(probably around midnight now) and is getting worse.



I leave at 1a.m. because she’s barely standing now so we get in a cab. We made the cab driver pull over 5 different times on the freeway because she kept saying she was going to puke. Every time she went outside she crouched down into a fetal position(still standing) behind the cab. Every time I had to pick her up and put her head over the guard rail where she would dry heave. 5 times, just on the highway. Twice once we got into P.B. I held her head up in the cab but every time I told the cab driver which way to turn her head would fall against the door or into my lap, eyes completely glazed over. We get to my house and as I’m carrying all my equipment, her belongings and her she blacks out and falls straight to the cement, hits her head and goes unconscious. I call 911 because after 30 seconds of shaking her I didn’t know if she was still breathing(single scariest moment of my life). She wakes up, starts watching the traffic go down the road and starts talking gibberish. I get her to stand and again carry her into my house. I try and give her water but she’s having trouble swallowing it. She went to the bathroom over 10 times to puke before she went to bed. I stayed up until about 4 a.m. making sure she was still breathing. I woke up in the morning and she had no clue what happened and puked over 15 times on Sunday, still feeling nauseous.



First, I just wanted to say THANK YOU. Her roommates told me multiple times that you guys constantly went up to her said hello and stuck with her for a while. I know you guys didn’t know she was as fucked up as she was but I can only imagine what would of happened if she was by herself for any moment. It scares the fuck out of me. She was quite thankful for it and although she doesn’t’ remember all the people that came up(she barely remembers anything past 11) to her I know it was all of you so thank you. Sam I owe you big and Robin as well.



Second, do you guys remember the girl that fell down the stairs? Well last night as I’m digging through Danielle’s story she had a point. The girl that fell down the stairs said that one of those two guys(Minnesota hat and thermal guy) slapped one of her friends. They told me this when I was packing up my equipment and that the girl who fell down the stairs punched the thermal guy in the face. Then Danielle goes, well do you think one of those guys gave that girl a roofie too? Granted I don’t know the girl and I have no idea how much she drank but if you guys saw her she was out of her mind.


anyways i figured i'd share this story because this is the most fucked up thing i've ever seen happen to anyone. yeah my gf gets hit on a lot and yeah i gave her a long fuckin speech about taking drinks from people she doesn't know but i'm wondering if anyone else has had this experience and found a way to deal with it?

i know pressing charges on this is hard because no rape occured(thank god) and roofies are nearly impossible to detect after 24hrs(did some research on it today).


Posted by m o 0 g on Jan-29-2007 20:20:

damn man, glad things got stopped before they really could have gotten bad...she could have gotten kid napped then raped or something


Posted by Clovis on Jan-29-2007 20:21:

Damn Anthony that sucks ass. Does she/friends remember what they looked like?


Posted by shaw on Jan-29-2007 20:23:

+1. Very glad to hear all turned out about as well as it could have, but hope she's ok from falling later on. I can't even imagine...


Posted by gypsygirl on Jan-29-2007 20:23:

wow, that is really scary!!! so sorry that happened.


Posted by Jansa on Jan-29-2007 20:27:

Glad it worked out like it did. Except the cement incident of course.


Posted by denys envy on Jan-29-2007 20:29:

sucks balls dude. if i was you and i'd encounter that f*cknut again, i'd probably be in jail.

glad things didn't get worse than that tho.


Posted by Moral Hazard on Jan-29-2007 20:29:

sorry 'bout that.


Posted by denys envy on Jan-29-2007 20:30:

quote:
do you guys remember the girl that fell down the stairs


this made me lol because of your av.


Posted by montie on Jan-29-2007 20:34:

shit man that sucks. luckly you were there to take care of her and nothing worse happend.
there are some fucked up people out there. unfortunatly there probably isn't much you can do about it though. filing charges and so forth without enough proof and indentification of the dude isn't going to get anywhere.
I'd keep your eye out though next time yout at this club for this creep.


on a side note, one of my male friends got roofied once. he was at this frat bar with some friends. some random deuchbag frat guy gave one of his girl friends he was with a drink. she accepted the drink but didn't have any of it. after the dude who gave her the drink left, she said she didn't want it and put it down. my buddy saw this and was like "fuck if your not gonna drink I am." so he did.
several hours later he woke up in the bushes by his apartment

Apparently, from the stories I've heard from my friends with him that night, he ended up having a pretty good time.


Posted by denys envy on Jan-29-2007 20:35:

i took a roofie on purpose once.

waking up with your female roommate's dildo in your arse is something else let me tell you that... I TRUSTED YOU BITCH!


Posted by Zombie0729 on Jan-29-2007 20:45:

quote:
Originally posted by Clovis
Damn Anthony that sucks ass. Does she/friends remember what they looked like?


multiple people said the guy was a friend of a friend of a friend... so i'm trying to track him down. if i can get his phone number i'm going to call and record the conversation... if i can get him to admit it, i might have something better to work with.


Posted by donnybrasco on Jan-29-2007 20:48:

You should go back to the club with your g/f a.s.a.p. and review their security camera tapes (assuming they have cameras), talk to the promoters and security to see if they remember these guys (they may have I.D. on him already based on the punching incident) and try to indentify this guy so that you can file a police report. Your case aide, you never know if the cops have been watching this guy already and could use any help in prosecuting him for similar cases that they're working on. You can also put the club on notice as to who he is, so they can ban him permanently.

I appreciate what you're doing in here by writing about it, but if you really want to make a difference, you'll need to be more pro-active than just posting here. Think about all the ways you can indentify this guy and then try to do it. You'll truly be helping some other poor victims-in-waiting out there if you do.

Good luck.


Posted by david.michael on Jan-29-2007 20:49:

Damn, that's pretty shitty.


Posted by Zombie0729 on Jan-29-2007 20:50:

quote:
Originally posted by donnybrasco
You should go back to the club with your g/f a.s.a.p. and review their security camera tapes (assuming they have cameras), talk to the promoters and security to see if they remember these guys (they may have I.D. on him already based on the punching incident) and try to indentify this guy so that you can file a police report. Your case aide, you never know if the cops have been watching this guy already and could use any help in prosecuting him for similar cases that they're working on. You can also put the club on notice as to who he is, so they can ban him permanently.

I appreciate what you're doing in here by writing about it, but if you really want to make a difference, you'll need to be more pro-active than just posting here. Think about all the ways you can indentify this guy and then try to do it. You'll truly be helping some other poor victims-in-waiting out there if you do.

Good luck.


i plan to. thanks your advice.


Posted by Clovis on Jan-29-2007 20:55:

quote:
Originally posted by Zombie0729
multiple people said the guy was a friend of a friend of a friend... so i'm trying to track him down. if i can get his phone number i'm going to call and record the conversation... if i can get him to admit it, i might have something better to work with.



Doubt that he would though, sounds like a total asshat.


Posted by Igaryok on Jan-29-2007 20:58:

Your icon makes the last part of this story funny.


Posted by Caela on Jan-29-2007 21:00:

FUCK! man, why the hell do people do this???? especially @ frats, there are only thousands of slutty freshman that will put out without roofies.

I was roofied about 2 years ago at a frat. I went with my girlfriends, and one of the brothers came up to me. We were making small talk, and he offered me a shot...I was a little hesitant but said ok, only if he took one with me. I watched him open the Goldshlagger and pour two shots...and down the hatch they went. My friends came up to me and said they weren't comfortable staying since it was sketchville. I left with them, and while we were in the car, I started to sweat and feel REALLY out of it. They brought me back to my apartment, stumbled to the couch, and the next thing I know, my ex-bf was waking me up...TWO HOURS LATER

I talked to this kid I knew that was a brother and told him what happened...he believed me, but none of the other guys did. They accused me of being a 'lightweight' (that was the only thing I had to drink that night), 'not eating enough', and/or 'faking it'. The guy that had poured the shot was super defensive...sorry buddy, you're plan backfired.

I was lucky...but there are tons of other chicks that aren't. I've even had some of my guy friends get roofied because they got their drinks mixed up with a girls.

It's mad fucked up...but more importantly, why would a guy want to fuck an unconcious chick?


Posted by distant on Jan-29-2007 21:01:

Something like that happened to my aunt once. Luckily she got out of there when she started feeling woozy though.


Posted by david.michael on Jan-29-2007 21:01:

quote:
Originally posted by Caela
It's mad fucked up...but more importantly, why would a guy want to fuck an unconcious chick?


Nothing wreaks of desperation more.


Posted by shaw on Jan-29-2007 21:02:

quote:
Originally posted by Caela
It's mad fucked up...but more importantly, why would a guy want to fuck an unconcious chick?


indeed...sick.


Posted by Clovis on Jan-29-2007 21:02:

quote:
Originally posted by Caela
It's mad fucked up...but more importantly, why would a guy want to fuck an unconcious chick?



Talk about no fucking self esteem whatsoever.


Posted by Vlad on Jan-29-2007 21:03:

quote:
Originally posted by Caela
It's mad fucked up...but more importantly, why would a guy want to fuck an unconcious chick?



Personally, I cant get off if the girl isnt into it... I just cant get turned on at all.


Posted by Caela on Jan-29-2007 21:04:

quote:
Originally posted by Clovis
Talk about no fucking self esteem whatsoever.


I know...at this specific frat I went to, the guys would get in their cars and drive 2 blocks away...OH MY GOD, what if someone saw them...actually....walking? wow.

And they went to the bathroom with each other. Talk about fucking pussies...losers.


Posted by l�cid on Jan-29-2007 21:04:

quote:
Originally posted by Caela
but more importantly, why would a guy want to fuck an unconcious chick?

because unconscious chicks can't say no.


Anthony - sorry to hear about what happened to your girl. that's scary shit, but at least you were there with her and you were able to take care of her! i would definitely go back to the club and talk to the management there, at least warn them of the situation... and tell all your female friends to be more cautious about their drinks.


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