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Wow this sucks major monkey balls

I guess I was wrong when I said I was over my ex. I thought I would be friendly and reach out to him via email the other day because my ex boss� client finally got arrested last week in this huge pharmaceutical scam that he was involved in and it was in the newspaper.

I wanted to share this info with my ex because I put him in contact with that client because he�s like 300 lbs and a millionaire and needed a personal trainer, so he made some decent money off this guy training him for a month or two last October. Not to mention, my last 2 weeks at that job, he was actually working with me doing filing and stuff because he's in grad school and had 3 weeks off and wanted to make some extra money so we were working together (this was at the end of our relationship too when we were breaking up, but we were getting along fine) which made him familiar with that whole case, so i figured he'd want to know that they all got arrested.

So to make a long story short, we�ve been going back and forth via email this week ever since i sent him that first one, and he�s being extremely flirty and suggestive and sweet�exactly how he was when we were first dating. Like he's trying to reel me in again. It�s brought me right back to square 1. I�m really anxious and sad and scared today. I thought I could handle a friendship with him, but the thought of us hanging out really makes me nervous. I was feeling so independent and like I had moved on, and I feel like I�m puddy in his hands again.

As I said early... move slowly, maintain communication, and once you're certain that he has acheived the requisit level of maturity then consider something more. Additionally, don't fall into his power games.

wave your ass in the air and scream - come butthax me big boy!

i suggested some good new R&B/hip hop tracks for him to download and he asked me to just burn him a CD of "my favorite songs" (meaning, mine, not his) and mail it to him. i responded and said sure.

now he just wrote me back being all funny and asked me to add on a bunch of other songs too...3 of them are songs that totally remind me of us and when we were together, as i'm sure it's the same for him too and he also wanted me to include the Adam Freeland remix of that nirvana song. i used to play the shit out of it back when it was popular. i didn't realize he liked it too, but it's like why is he asking me to put all those songs on the CD?

jerk!

I'd say have sex with his father and make him really jealous.

my "time to get over it" is usually, and roughly, 5 months.

during this time i sever all contacts, refuse to check their myspace/facebook. do not answer their phone calls. and delete voicemails without listening to them.

this is my advice for you. IF you don't want to be with him anymore.
however if you think things will work out and you won't get hurt/get fucked over/etc. (or whatever the hell happened the first time this didn't work) then maybe you should give it a chance, have an adult conversation about things and see where both of you see this situation going in the future.

people make mistakes sometimes and you never know, a second chance could turn into a lifetime of happiness. but that's for you to figure out and for me to read about on here

best of luck Jamie-poo.

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Originally posted by Aristronica people make mistakes sometimes and you never know, a second chance could turn into a lifetime of happiness.

+1... give Greg (?) a chance! Give peace a chance!! Give the c0re a chance to read a story about a successful 3some!!!

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Originally posted by Boomer187 I'd say have sex with his father and make him really jealous.

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I could tell he wanted to be friends when we were breaking up, but I decided against it because I�m that type where I just need to sever all contact like you said in order to move on. I haven�t called him, not even drunk dialed�I�ve been really good about it, but he was honestly like my best friend and we didn�t fight or anything, I loved him and loved being around him. Our breakup was really complicated, but drama-free. It went smoothly. I was crushed, did a shitload of crying and all that, but I�ve finally been dating and not thinking about him�but sometimes I find myself doing it and I guess I was curious to see if he would write back and now he�s totally back to emailing me a lot and putting on his charm.

I�m scared because I was feeling so good about being single and loving it, and I feel like he�s taking it away and making me vulnerable again.

damn i thought this was all over too. as previously suggested take it VERY slowly. dont even appear to be entertaining the idea of a relationship as this will give him the idea that he has a chance. make him work for it if it really is what you want. dont give in easy. play hard to get. be too busy for him. all that shit. its for the best if thats what you want.

my sister just went through this. her bf of 3yrs broke up with her and 3 months later, when she was appearing to be having fun and getting over it he was bending over backwards to get her back. now its great between them.

good luck and i hope for the best!

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Originally posted by Slylee ...and I feel like I�m puddy in his hands again.

Hi there!

Outta curiosity, why did you break up in the first place?

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Originally posted by Taranis Outta curiosity, why did you break up in the first place?

Because he raped her in her sleep and jerked off to pictures of 12 year olds.

**edit, seriously, I am not making this up.

well i don't know the situation obviously. my main concern is for you, he can go fuck himself for all i care. you know him better than any of us - if you can see something positive coming out of this situation then just go for it, see what happens. but if you think it's more than likely you'll have to go through all that crying and drama again (no matter how smoothly it went it still sucked i'm sure) then why bother. there's plenty of men, and n00bs on here, waiting to fulfill your every desire, don't settle for something just because it's familiar. like i said go with your gut instinct.

...and in march, invite him to come hang out with us.

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Originally posted by Moral Hazard Because he raped her in her sleep and jerked off to pictures of 12 year olds. **edit, seriously, I am not making this up.

maybe if she wasnt sucha log in the sac....

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Originally posted by Moral Hazard Because he raped her in her sleep and jerked off to pictures of 12 year olds. **edit, seriously, I am not making this up.

And she wants to be puddy in the hand that jerks off to these pictures? How romantic!

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Originally posted by Moral Hazard Because he raped her in her sleep and jerked off to pictures of 12 year olds. **edit, seriously, I am not making this up.

Psh, they just looked like 12 year olds.

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Originally posted by Justkillingtime And she wants to be puddy in the hand that jerks off to these pictures? How romantic!

in canada 14 + is legal

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Originally posted by Justkillingtime And she wants to be puddy in the hand that jerks off to these pictures? How romantic!

It seems to me that she doesn't want to be puddy, she mearly is.


And Bas... you know as well as I do that what their age actually is doesn't matter... for the period of time in which he was Fappin' they were 12 in his mind.

And these are the days of our internet lives. As the world wide web turns.

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Originally posted by wackedoutmule And these are the days of our internet lives. As the world wide web turns.

lolololGTFO

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Originally posted by Nrg2Nfinit in canada 14 + is legal

Not anymore... as of Jan 1/07 it's 18 unless there is less then 5 years difference between the two parties involved... then it's 15. 14 is now off limits. Looks like you'll have to leave that girl on the Rideau.

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Originally posted by Ygrene lolololGTFO

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Originally posted by FIU-PT Hi there!

lol very funny moral or ygrene...whichever

About the breakup...

Nothing really went terribly wrong�no cheating or fighting. He really pushed me to move in with him even though I warned him that it was a major step and he insisted he was ready. So we did and everything was great but then I discovered he likes to watch porn constantly when I�m not home and I confronted him about it and tried to be cool and accepting about it, but he was really shady about it and not willing to just be open with it. I honestly would have rather him just been like a normal pig guy and just been open about the fact that he watches porn. Big fuckin deal right? All of my ex�s have watched it, but he was so sneaky and embarrassed about it, which lead me to believe that he might have had an addiction to it. I honestly tried really hard to work with him and I think he just would rather let me go, than face that problem and me pushing him to talk about it made him withdraw from the relationship, so I told him I was moving out because there was zero communication between us and I said I couldn�t be in a relationship like that, and he didn�t even put up a fight. So we just like ended things. I moved out and on the last day there he just gave me a big hug as I left and that was the last time I saw him. This was last September.

So there it is in a nutshell. I can�t go back to that. That was a little too much for me to handle. Other than that, he was the most amazing boyfriend ever. Attentive, sexy, funny, smart, nurturing�we never faught. We were great companions.

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Originally posted by Moral Hazard Not anymore... as of Jan 1/07 it's 18 unless there is less then 5 years difference between the two parties involved... then it's 15. 14 is now off limits. Looks like you'll have to leave that girl on the Rideau.

shit..


jk shes 24 like me.. but colonelcrisp is borderline now lol

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