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5 years? 10 years?
where do you see yourself?
i honestly don't really see a white picket fence, a nice hubby and a bunch of ankle biters running around in my life. not my thing. since i was a late bloomer with college, the remainder of my 20's will be spent in school and i honestly think my 30's are going to rock. i'll have a great career and money to travel and buy a home and a kick ass ride, shop when i want and where i want, be able to help my family out if they need it, etc...and i think 30's is still a great age too where you can still feel youthful and do crazy things.
and i have a feeling that if i decide i want kids, i'm going to end up adopting like an 8 or 10 year old when i'm in my 40's. if i had my own kid around 30, that's how old he/she would be anyway when i'm 40 lol. i don't know if i'm cut out for the beginning part of motherhood. breast feeding, crying, diaper changing, talking to other mom's while passing each other in the diaper aisle at the grocery store. 
as for marriage. i have no opinion of it at this point in my life. if it happens, it happens...
i see a lot of travelling too when i'm finally done with school. i can definitely see myself doing something like moving to italy or the uk for a year or 2. just to get the hell out of the US and expand my horizons a bit...switch it up. but i'll probably end up back here obviously. maybe california.
so...what about you guys? marriage & kids? career? location?
at the end of my school, beggining of an internship, maybe the second year of my internship... or getting my masters... what a fucking lame thing to think about for me :/
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| Originally posted by nchs09 at the end of my school, beggining of an internship, maybe the second year of my internship... or getting my masters... what a fucking lame thing to think about for me :/ |
starting a family.
Probably doing a masters, living in a tiny appartement and feeding off kraft dinner twice a week.
i already have it planned out. in 5 years i will own my 5th income generating property and on a plane to italy to study arhitecture in venice for 3 years. when i return i start land developing
oh and add rough anal sex with slylee somewhere in there
In 5 years I will have just graduated school and started working, gotten my first apartment...or maybe a house with the bf. I'd like to live on my own for a few years, just to say I did it...and because I want to decorate, lol.
In 10 years...dunno...I'll prolly be married to the bf. Whether or not we'll have any brats or not is a whole different story. I'm on the fence about kids right now.
I will definitely have done some travelling by that point. I would take time off after school to do that, but I REALLY want to start nursing. I jones to do it. So perhaps after a few years of work I'll take some time off to travel.
Overall my future plans are pretty vague...the only thing I'm sure of is my career, and that I want to travel, and stay with my bf. Anything could happen, so I keep things flexible. 
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| Originally posted by jennypie Anything could happen, so I keep things flexible. |
u guys are slow.
maybe im a bit older ... dont know.
graduated, check.
tavelled, check.
i just need to free myself of the chains of alchohol.
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| Originally posted by Vivid Boy hahah this sentence rocks if you take it out of context |
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| Originally posted by washout u guys are slow. maybe im a bit older ... dont know. graduated, check. tavelled, check. i just need to free myself of the chains of alchohol. |
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| Originally posted by Frenchie Why are we slow? Just because some people have a different order of doing things or want to wait a little longer? To each their own man. |
5years, mostly out of debt, paid off last investment property or will have liquidated it. Partner will have finished uni and hopefully working with a good wage for a few years by this point (so I won't have too!) and that's as much wishful thinking as anything at this point.
10years... that's a frightening prospect! 
Don't know about kids, I would like them, I just don't know if I want to be the one giving birth to them... somewhere there's going to be an extended vacation from working because it's basically all I've done for the last 12 years 
Haha. You're so cute Jamie, always projecting the future and envisioning a life story...
I do that sometimes...but things change so fast I'm hesitant to dream so far ahead...
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| Originally posted by washout u guys are slow. maybe im a bit older ... dont know. graduated, check. tavelled, check. i just need to free myself of the chains of alchohol. |
why do humans feel the need to change or progress? I am happy where I am. I got pink skin and a sore bum. If I still got that pink skin in 5 years, ill be laughing. if I dont, then I might have to bleech it.
As for my career, id like to be demoted. Nothing like freeing ones self from responsibility!! *puts feet up* Why do I want more. less pay, less work, less hair; all in a centuries work!
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| Originally posted by jennypie Yeah well I dunno about you, but the bumps on the road of life that I've encountered haven't made it easy for me to get things done. I don't really give a shit to rush anyways. Meh. |
I see myself mulling over the ideal: English professor, actor, and writer who is also able to enjoy his leisure.
in 5 10 years..
graduated
djing
travelling wit my band
making money
having fun
have a nice girl
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| Originally posted by washout cant argue with bumbs in the road. what doesnt kill u can only make u stronger. btw, it wasnt a rush to me, i was in college for 6 years. between the failed courses and a few dropped classes. i was able to travell several times with my folx money. of course, ive had my bumps. |
If they havent invented hover cars in 10 years, ill be spewing!!! 
5 years:
Well I'm done school , so that's checked off. Working in radio, or doing some sort of media business. I may or may not go back to do something different, nothing wrong with going back to school to further your edu-ma-cation. I want to travel more, I did the whole Europe thing so maybe somewhere different? I used to want to go with a travel buddy or a boyfriend but now I'm think that I want to do it alone. I'm 21 , so between now and being 26 I used to want to be married by 25 and then start popping out kids but that has somewhat changed. If that is what happends then I'll be happy but if it doesn't...that's quite ok too. I just want to have my kids at a young enough age so that I can grow up with them and not be too old do be active and not lazy.
10 years:
This is a little tougher. If I went back to school, I'd be done and working. Deffintatley married and with kids ,1 or 2. I would have travelled alone as well as with my family. Living somewhere fairly warm with a vacation home somewhere nice and snowy. I'll be 31, so I suppose living it up like any average 31 year old. Happy with my husband and my beautiful kids, making some benjamins and saving for....I don't know something worth while.
This could all change within a few years. I may or may not have found the man I want to potentially marry, if so I know we have the same goals and thoughts for the future and if not then so be it, I'll find him eventually or he'll make it to me. No matter who I end up with what I want to do, I'll do. I wont let some penis get in my way! lol
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| Originally posted by Frenchie This is a little tougher. |
Ok, a lot more?
Satisfied?
probably dead in 10 years.
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