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Posted by Slylee on Mar-05-2007 21:53:

I realized over the weekend...

that I really don�t like going out any more. Walking around in sexy, but extremely uncomfortable shoes, getting hit on by dumbasses, getting drinks spilled on me as I squeeze my way through the crowd to wait on line for 10 minutes to pee. It�s just not fun any more.

Not to say that it has anything to do with me being anti-social, because I�m a very social creature and love being around my friends, but I just realized over the weekend that I really DON�T enjoy being in a bar or club that much any more. I force myself to go because that�s pretty much what people my age do when they want to go out and have �fun�. I hate coming home and stinking of cigs and beer. I don�t even like getting wasted any more. It sucks. It was so much more fun when I had an 8ball in my purse. Lol

I�m much more of a day time person. Maybe it�s because I�m getting older but I just love when it�s beautiful out and I hit the beach with my friends or do something cool outdoors. Love getting up early on a Saturday and going for breakfast and then the beach. I can�t wait for daylight savings so I can stay at the beach even longer.

I mean I'll go hit up a club if someone major is going to be there like Sasha, but no more of this every weekend bullshit Friday & Saturday night partying...I guess I'm a dork.

Posted by ak87 on Mar-05-2007 21:58:

well i can agree with you somewhat on this
for me i love sunny days because up here in Canada, its not always warm
so as the days get nicer i just love the daytime more and more
but since ur from florida, u r blessed with always having this

but for myself
a day in the sun, beach, pool, waterpark or even a picnic is way more enjoyable and relaxing then any club/bar experience

this thread is making me sad tho
i want summer nowwwwwwwwwwwwww

Posted by nchs09 on Mar-05-2007 21:58:

chill bars ala gordon beersh > clubbing..

i enjoy going to drink in bars more than clubbing... u can def make a night out of bar hoping and what not instead of paying cover, not being able to talk to anybody..

going clubbing is stil nice every once in a while.. last time i went clubbing was in november.. well 1nce in december but that doesnt count , and i dont miss it one bit

i think the next time im going clubbing is in august when i go to europe.... so all this waiting will pay off.

Posted by Silky Johnson on Mar-05-2007 21:58:

Yep, you're getting older.

I've felt this way for a long time. Going back to school had a lot to do with it, but it was also the fact that at the end of the day, I can't relate to most party people. I've seen more bad than good in the past year, and it was enough to really turn me off of the scene up here.

But, it was a blessing in disguise. I've grown up and my tastes have matured, so now I only hit the parties that really interest me musically.

Posted by KiNeTiC ENeRgY on Mar-05-2007 21:59:

yup yer getting old =p

Posted by Slylee on Mar-05-2007 22:02:

quote:
Originally posted by nchs09
chill bars ala gordon beersh > clubbing..

i enjoy going to drink in bars more than clubbing... u can def make a night out of bar hoping and what not instead of paying cover, not being able to talk to anybody..

going clubbing is stil nice every once in a while.. last time i went clubbing was in november.. well 1nce in december but that doesnt count , and i dont miss it one bit

i think the next time im going clubbing is in august when i go to europe.... so all this waiting will pay off.

yea or places on lincoln road. btw gordon beersh owns! i'd rather get my drink on at sushi samba or something with a group of friends during the 6-10 pm brackett...and like jenny said, i'm picky about going out now...depending on the DJ and if i can get VIP. lol

Posted by tubularbills on Mar-05-2007 22:06:

join the club

ps, i hate wearing sexy, yet uncomfortable shoes too

Posted by kthnxbye on Mar-05-2007 22:07:

i LOVE going out. i havent been out though in like 3 weeks. money has kept me in. and i just need a break for other personal reasons.

Posted by nchs09 on Mar-05-2007 22:08:

quote:
Originally posted by Slylee
yea or places on lincoln road. btw gordon beersh owns! i'd rather get my drink on at sushi samba or something with a group of friends during the 6-10 pm brackett...and like jenny said, i'm picky about going out now...depending on the DJ and if i can get VIP. lol
i dont know any of those places i dont live in miami hehehe, but i know u guys have one there.... blond boch ftw...

i have stolen every glass they use in that restaurant and i have them all under my cdjs

Posted by Danny Ocean on Mar-05-2007 22:13:

Posted by luisjb82 on Mar-05-2007 22:24:

Ohh I can relate so much to what you're going through as well... it's not that fun without that 8ball, believe me, been there too =/

I was partying hard like crazy, hitting the club every weekend till one night it got so nasty I decided to take a break... then when I got back to my usual routine I did enjoy it a lot so that's what I do now and then, party hard and then chill for a few weeks...

I suggest you take a small break and see how it goes, hitting the club each and every weekend will get boring, or at least for most people. It has nothing to do with getting older, you just get bored of doing the same thing every weekend no matter how fun it can be for certain people...

Try to mix things up, going to the beach usually does the trick for me...

My 0.02

Posted by Dj O'Callaghan on Mar-05-2007 22:29:

I've been like that for the past year or so. I so cannot be bothered to go out to same bars and clubs I've been too one million times.

Out of the bars in central Northampton five decent ones but unfortunatly their inhabited by pretenious knobends in their early thirties who think they own the place, along with a DJ playing overly loud funky or electro house records you've heard a thousand times on a shit soundsystem so speaking is impossible.Your lucky if you get served at the bar in 20 minutes.

The rest of the bars you might as well take a shotgun inside as a fights on the cards, as the booze is a bargain and the chav's love their watered down stella.

I was out on Saturday with my mates ended up going all over the place, and too the main club which is a meat market shithole where you have to wear shoes. I was so unbothered I wore trainers that night and ended up wearing my socks over them

These days I go to my local pub it's quite like a bar in some aspects, I know loads of people in there who are a good bunch. These days If I have a decent meal in a good restaurant, or drinks with friends round my house, a trip to the local, and the odd house party I'm happy.

Posted by Silky Johnson on Mar-05-2007 22:30:

quote:
Originally posted by tubularbills

ps, i hate wearing sexy, yet uncomfortable shoes too

LOL

Posted by l�cid on Mar-05-2007 22:42:

only reason i ever go out these days is if RJT or myself (or both of us) are playing, or if there's gonna be a lot of TAs/friends out for a particular night.

in fact... i can't remember the last time i went out just for the sake of going out.

Posted by Frenchie on Mar-05-2007 22:43:

VIP is for pussies.

Posted by Boomer187 on Mar-05-2007 22:44:

yea you are old.

but im the same way. I hardly go out at all. there just is nothing cool to do in vegas

Posted by Silky Johnson on Mar-05-2007 22:45:

Isn't our culture weird? Veteran clubbers before the age of 25, retired by 27...hah!

Posted by emc^2 on Mar-05-2007 22:52:

I'm with you, sweetheart! I also am fed up with putting on all the make up, shaving armpits, doing the brazilian wax, shaving legs, picking out that perfect pair of nylons to go with my dress and pumps, getting my hair done and that damn lacey g-string always ends up riding up my a$$ and makes my ballz itch too!

Posted by Igaryok on Mar-05-2007 22:52:

Meh I don't really like the club scene either anymore, the sad thing is that I'm only 21.

Posted by emc^2 on Mar-05-2007 22:53:

quote:
Originally posted by Igaryok
Meh I don't really like the club scene either anymore, the sad thing is that I'm only 21.

that's because you're in Ohio.

Posted by AndreaCKY772 on Mar-05-2007 22:55:

i get annoyed by lot of the strange guys at the club and guys who think they can grope you, but i can't say i'm quite sick of the club scene yet ...but it can only be edm music or an artist that i like...

i am sick of college parties and lame half assed house parties

Posted by l�cid on Mar-05-2007 23:00:

i tend to enjoy smaller clubs/lounges a lot more these days... i feel much more comfortable in a chilled out laid-back atmosphere, rather than a huge laser-shooting bass-pounding grimey-sketchball-grinding mega-club.

Posted by mezzir on Mar-05-2007 23:08:

quote:
Originally posted by l�cid
i tend to enjoy smaller clubs/lounges a lot more these days... i feel much more comfortable in a chilled out laid-back atmosphere, rather than a huge laser-shooting bass-pounding grimey-sketchball-grinding mega-club.

big +1 to that

quote:
Originally posted by AndreaCKY772
i get annoyed by lot of the strange guys at the club and guys who think they can grope you, but i can't say i'm quite sick of the club scene yet ...but it can only be edm music or an artist that i like...

i am sick of college parties and lame half assed house parties

yeah i never really partied much at all, mostly because there's really not much of any good music in this town, just people getting trashed for the sake of it
its funny that umass is the like #9 party school in the country, and i have no desire to go to any of the parties

Posted by Frenchie on Mar-05-2007 23:17:

I love smaller lounges. More of an intimate feeling.

Posted by Ygrene on Mar-05-2007 23:19:

I love having a few beers and spinning for my wife while she plays video games. The cover is cheap, I always like the music, and I know I'm pretty much gonna get laid every time.

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