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How long before you're allowed to go postal?

How long?? I've just sooo HAD it with people!

People who say they will show up to be there for you but instead they can't show up cause the did their body weight in cocaine and can't function. Or years of support and attendance.. counts for what in the end?? Nothing!

people who are supposed to meet you for dinner but smoke too much pot and eat at home leaving you going ummmmm... hello?

People who live 3 states away, you make plans to go visit and see some dj, first being your birthday.. they don't show and owe ya one... same for the next... then on the third try... same thing! Despite a months notice to get your shit together??

Roommates who get fired from their job and spend what little money they have left on 40-bags rather than contributing to rent.


WHAT THE FUCK IS WRONG WITH PEOPLE!!!!!!?????

I guess everyone kinda goes through those phases where they think they can't rely on anyone and nothing around you is real.

Sometimes I think that if I weren't into EDM I wouldn't be surrounded by completed idiots/douchebags/selfish junkies.

I feel this post! Been through this, a lot.

i'm sorry.... i have had my share of friends who i shouldn't consider real friends that do a lot of nonsense and you can't keep pushing it aside for letting you down after a certain point...

the more reason to do hard drugs..

you need new friends, you have shitty ones.

But part of me feels like I should know better.

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Originally posted by Boomer187 you need new friends, you have shitty ones.

i agree with this very much.

ive been through some bad roommate situations and i have dumped most of those so called "friends." this is also one of the reasons why i dont use the word friend so loosely anymore. you are an acquaintance until i consider you a friend. this means that i trust you to be just as good a friend that i am. i can rely on you. you can rely on me.

don't you think it's kind of unfair to blame your poor decisions in friendships on EDM? not everyone who enjoys dance music is a sketchball... in fact most of my friends are into EDM, and they aren't unreliable wastoid drug-addicts like the people you speak of.

it seems that most people who make poor decisions always look for somewhere else to place the blame.

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Originally posted by Boomer187 you need new friends, you have shitty ones.

+1

Reminded me that twice in my life, I asked a girl out, she said "yes", made plans with her and then she would simply disappear. The last time it happened, I called the girl and she said she couldn't remember what day of the week it was - patiently, I forgave her and we met.

That was the worst date I've ever had in my whole life

There are lots of leeches and douche bags in the world. The quicker you can identify and avoid them the better your life will be.

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Originally posted by l�cid don't you think it's kind of unfair to blame your poor decisions in friendships on EDM? not everyone who enjoys dance music is a sketchball... in fact most of my friends are into EDM, and they aren't unreliable wastoid drug-addicts like the people you speak of. it seems that most people who make poor decisions always look for somewhere else to place the blame.

Maybe... and definately probable. I'm not trying to blame EDM, but it's the medium through which I make bad decisions then.... people who seem one way... then end up another.

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There are lots of leeches and douche bags in the world. The quicker you can identify and avoid them the better your life will be.

And I'm not good at it; obviously. I get dupped all the time.


But how can you really go about re-vamping everyhting like that? It's not like you can return the people you know to blockbuster and check out new ones. You can't go to the bar and stroll up to someone and go "hey... wanna be friends?" they'll think you're a nutjob!

It seems to me that you've been pretty unlucky in who you have around you. It has to be hard to just leave a group of friends behind, but I'd be on the lookout for opportunities to hang with new people. There are so many cool, interesting people out there. Now you just have to cross paths with them.

hi heather

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Originally posted by ColorDancer And I'm not good at it; obviously. I get dupped all the time. But how can you really go about re-vamping everyhting like that? It's not like you can return the people you know to blockbuster and check out new ones. You can't go to the bar and stroll up to someone and go "hey... wanna be friends?" they'll think you're a nutjob!

There is no magic bullet but you just need to start paying more attention to ppl behavior and when you see something you don't like you don't ignore it. You just need to start spending less time with these types of "friends". As far as finding trust worthy ppl maybe you need to look else where, other than bar/dance clubs. You'll find groups/clubs with constructive activities that don't involve drugs would be a step in the right direction. For example take dancing lessons or join a dance group. The rest will take care of itself.

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Originally posted by ColorDancer But part of me feels like I should know better.

well darling , now u do !

You need friends like me.

Yeah shitty friends for sure. A few of my friends (lol the Day's) have done their body weight in cocaine and still been there for me

i have had plenty of problems with some of the people i was friends with. some of them were only there to stick around if i broke up with my boyfriend (one of them actually told me he really never intended to be my friend and he was only there so when i broke up with my bf, he could try).

my best friend that i used to be friends with was a backstabbing person and i never saw it coming...we were best friends from 5th grade all the way till my second year of college.

some people i have dealt with were hardly there when i needed them...

i woke the hell up and realized i needed to get some better friends. i was a little ignorant to avoid having girls as friends because i felt i couldn't trust them but then i realized that obviously not all girls are backstabbing.

can't trust anyone

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Originally posted by AndreaCKY772 i have had plenty of problems with some of the people i was friends with. some of them were only there to stick around if i broke up with my boyfriend (one of them actually told me he really never intended to be my friend and he was only there so when i broke up with my bf, he could try). my best friend that i used to be friends with was a backstabbing person and i never saw it coming...we were best friends from 5th grade all the way till my second year of college. some people i have dealt with were hardly there when i needed them... i woke the hell up and realized i needed to get some better friends. i was a little ignorant to avoid having girls as friends because i felt i couldn't trust them but then i realized that obviously not all girls are backstabbing.

Sound like a familiar tale.... But Realizing it is the easy part. It's not like you can pick up good friends at CVS. I'm not necessarily resistant to girl friends; I just don't really have many/any. I work with old people, and go out scene wise so I don't have to stay home with the cats all the time... doesn't necessarily shed light to a solution.

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Originally posted by medinaM5 can't trust anyone

Yeah.... I think that I don't...

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Originally posted by Vlad You need friends like me.

How so?

maybe they aren't your friends.
maybe they just want to
1. look
2. tap

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Originally posted by ColorDancer How so?

IT'S A TARP!

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Originally posted by ColorDancer How so?

if u like quagmire then yes, and if u don't or if u don't know who he is, just say no politely and never mention it again

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