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so...anyone hav good ideas for romantic dates? If you are in your early 20's, then will girls like going to restaurants for dinner? yeh i reckon they will - but any other good ideas?

cheers.

Re: Romantic dates

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Originally posted by trancey_spacer so...anyone hav good ideas for romantic dates? If you are in your early 20's, then will girls like going to restaurants for dinner? yeh i reckon they will - but any other good ideas? cheers.

lolvirgin

im early 20's love going to restaurants....
just depends if i like the food though

so make sure you know which type of food she likes, get a good bottle of wine, nothing beats good old fashioned dates

lol @ lolvirgin

Instead of asking people you don't know how about asking the person you'll be taking out.

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Originally posted by Frenchie Instead of asking people you don't know how about asking the person you'll be taking out.

That could be viewed as a "lack of initiative." Which is fucking bullshit, if you ask me, but whatever. What better way to help ensure a good time than actually asking somebody what she (or he) likes doing instead of going about things by guesswork in the hope that it will be "surprising" and thus supposedly more "romantic?"

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Originally posted by MrJiveBoJingles That could be viewed as a "lack of initiative." Which is fucking bullshit, if you ask me, but whatever. What better way to help ensure a good time than actually asking somebody what she (or he) likes doing instead of going about things by guesswork in the hope that it will be "surprising" and thus supposedly more "romantic?"

Bingo. It's not even necessarily asking them directly what they would like on a date. Take your conversation(s) and slip in comments or questions that may seem random and meaningless to her but will help you make a move that will make her smile. A positive surprise is the goal, and it's always worked for me.

It's easy to say that shit though. You're more likely to be on your own when the girl is smokin hot but all she can say is "I like doing everything!" or "I'm up for anything" or "I'll do whatever you want to do." In that case, it's entirely in your hands as to guessing what she actually wants you to do. Take her out for dinner at a semi-nice restaurant but nothing too fancy and get some semi-nice but not too expensive wine. Then take her back to your place for more drinks and some music. Then you're set.

you need a pregame either drinks or mini golf

then restaurant. Subway mcd's and the likes are good for first dates. Don't want to spend too much on something when you don't know if it will be a long lasting investement ( aka more guaranteed dates with the person ).

avoid the movie thing. It's expensive and chances are you'll both like different types of movies.
Go to an open mic bar or karaoke party. Try to both sing the silliest songs ever make it a mini contest.

If you feel your broad is drunk enough for you to shag her seize the day!
Take her home, the car or bench park can also subsitute fairly well.
Remember it's a first date and trust isn't there quite yet so make sure you double wrap the johnny!

yeh but how does he slip in the buttsekz question without it being perceived as too forward on her part

Don't spend alot of money on this girl if you really like her.I've seen how easy money turns women into whores, no matter how good they think they are.Like Ted Diabiase said....
If you only want to fuck her spend away;.Think of it as an investment, because if she thinks your loaded there is more chance of getting condomles buttsex right off the bat.

Take her to a strip club or down to the pub with all your mates!

Restaurant make sure it's classy though no two bob cheapjack eatery. Opt for an Italian, French or a Spanish place.

Split the bill 50/50 make sure you don't pay for everything or she'll think your a mug and you'll pay for everything else from then onwards. Remember your not just there to impress her she's got to impress you too so don't go forking out cash for everything.

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then restaurant. Subway mcd's and the likes are good for first dates. Don't want to spend too much on something when you don't know if it will be a long lasting investement ( aka more guaranteed dates with the person ).

Maccy D's! That's an awful idea, unless you 12 or a Chav.

hes jewish AND french...thats the ultimate in cheapology

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Originally posted by all-nite-freak hes jewish AND french...thats the ultimate in cheapology

A Yiddish Frog you say?

i fucked a girl silly in my dad jeep at the beach when i was 18.
try fucking in front of a french resteraunt.

Don�t Ever pay for a girl on your first date and not even on the second or third.
At the end of dinner just pay for your own food and if you get a confused look out of her just say something like: "its time you start paying for yourself for a change you stupid ****" if she's really hot then you will probably be getting some buttsex by no time�

For Valentines Day I took her out to a restaurant on the water that had a view of the city's skyline and got a 2 person table at the bay window.

Upon our arrival I had a single red rose and a $70 dollar bottle of champagne waiting for us with rose petals scattered over the table and candles.

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When I gave her her ring I took her to restaurant on an island in Miami that had a 270 degree waterfront. You had to check in at a gate guard that called in ahead to see if you had a reservation or they wouldnt let you in.

We got in and there was a live pianist with a flute player playing Berserk style crazy sounding music that was just hauntingly cool.

Had appetizers, few drinks, awesome dinner. Then ordered a flaming bahama-mama dessert that was a pineapple with top cut off and filled with ice cream and caramel that had 1 foot of blue flame coming off of it to caramelize the whole thing and melt the ice cream a bit.

Between dinner and dessert gave a little speech and gave her the ring :*)

Also, since we are both Christian, start the dinner off with a prayer and held hands and stuff.


Romantic dinner = cash though. Unless you want to go on a short hike with a heavy pack full of wine, bread, cheese, a groundcloth, etc... open that check book hehe.

Romantic dinners FTW

Gareth take note!

My wife and I had a nice romantic dinner last Saturday. I had to work a show in New York on Sat/Sun so I made hotel reservations for Sat evening. My wife took the train up and met me at the hotel after the show was over. She brought a bottle of wine with her and we both had a relaxing glass before our dinner reservation. We took a cab from the hotel to Ruth's Chris steakhouse (my choice, since I had been once before but my wife hadn't) and we had a few cocktails before our dinner. Afterwards, we took a cab back to the hotel and we just relaxed and enjoyed each other's company.

It was nice because it was different than our normal routine. Being able to have wine before leaving for dinner (since we don't normally do that because we are driving), cocktails at a nice bar, seeing Manhattan, staying in a hotel, pretending we are young and hip (lol); sometimes an evening doesn't even have to be planned out and it can still end up being very romantic.

Wait - Walkers engaged? Congrats! [why didn't I hear about this earlier a-hole??]

And Jdat substitute a pizza place for that mcd's/subway idea and I would think that was a totally awesome first date. Or any kind of date. That just sounds like a lot of fun.

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Originally posted by Ygrene pretending we are young and hip (lol)

Yes...drinking wine and staying at a hotel on a business trip is what all us young'uns are doing

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Originally posted by dj_bas Yes...drinking wine and staying at a hotel on a business trip is what all us young'uns are doing

shhh don't burst his bubble

take her out for chinese. Nearly everyone likes it and, though it can never really get to expensive it won't seem like you're being cheap since, well, nearly everyone likes it.

Maybe even pretend like it's your fav chinese place around.

lol do what you like to do, fool

and take her along for the ride

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Originally posted by squirrelly Wait - Walkers engaged? Congrats! [why didn't I hear about this earlier a-hole??] And Jdat substitute a pizza place for that mcd's/subway idea and I would think that was a totally awesome first date. Or any kind of date. That just sounds like a lot of fun.

lol I was half joking

and Subway or Mcd's hell no
I never eat there anyhow!

In regards to forst dates I prefer to avoid the formal restaurant type deal.
If the place is too nice it can make you uptight and conversation difficult.
Bouncing around to different places on a first date, maybe a little art gallery vernissage followed by some drinks then food maybe walk around club music whatever

so many options so many girls to date


(I'm such a bad liar ... haven't been on a date or anything serious with a girl in such a long time )

Improvise. It'll keep things natural. And interesting, if you're at all compatible.

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