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Posted by Waxen on Apr-05-2002 17:20:

Abortion!

Who here believes in abortion and who here doesn't?
What do you think the circumstances must be to have an abortion and if it's okay in some circumstances. Feedback

~S~


Posted by AndoraStar on Apr-05-2002 22:32:

~ nope ~


Posted by torontotrance on Apr-05-2002 22:54:

Smile

Abortion is wrong.....only circumstance is if the mother's life is in danger besides that....it is wrong.


Posted by Eugene on Apr-05-2002 23:16:

Abortion should be legal, it's part of human life and let's not kid ourselves (no pun intended )


Posted by Waxen on Apr-05-2002 23:28:

I do not believe in it... maybe if a woman was raped I do.. but even then.. I would still have to say no.. and just put it up for adoption (in that case).. Im really surprised to see that "YES" is winning.. that's shocking.. and almost disgusting.

~S~


Posted by IronDragon on Apr-06-2002 00:14:

Not a good idea to be touching hot buttons like this....


Posted by Nightmonger on Apr-06-2002 16:13:

Like all delicate matters this should be discussed deeply and this is not the right place, but as long as it's not considered and handled as a contraceptive method, abortion could be right for lotsa reasons imho.


Posted by Nightmonger on Apr-06-2002 16:19:

I have to add that IronDragon is right, this is an happy and friendly community and certain matters are out of context ... imagine startin a poll tread 'bout death penalty ... what a fight and a mess .
Let's just keep talkin 'bout trance and frivolous stuff


Posted by Spyder on Apr-06-2002 18:48:

Sad

Me my self i wouldnt be able to doo it on any thing after a sertin age..
BUt if i got pregnet now.. i would .. i would get an abortion..
if i had of choise of giving birth and giving up for oddoption i would but i know i wouldn't have that choise.. so i would have to go for abortion.. .


othersie.. i dont think i would


Posted by Waxen on Apr-07-2002 07:41:

Well.. this forum is specifically for what it's titled--->"Everything Else"... which means that anyone is entitled to talk about anything and post a poll on anything in here... am I right or wrong?..
And I have seen a thread on the death penalty a few weeks ago about some girl in singapore sentenced to death for marijuana posession... I don't think I am out of context.. nor am trying to discuss anything wrong!.. I find it almost insulting how 2 fellow tranceaddicts would have the nerve to tell me I shouldn't be bring up such a matter, ESPECIALLY in a forum reserved for topics like this and whatever else people want to discuss. I think if you wanted to post something to my thread, then you should have gave me ur input on the topic.. not on if it's right or wrong to talk about or not. I know everyone is entitled to an opinion on this thing.. but think about what you just said? "you shouldn't be talking about stuff like that in OUR community" That angers me.. It's not like I posted it in the chillout room! Think before you speak next time.

~S~


Posted by Stilez on Apr-07-2002 07:49:

^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^
gotta agree with you! I personally HATE to see topics in the chillout room discussing politics...especially concerning ISRAEL & PALESTINE. I "personally" don't think that "THAT" is a topic that should be discussed here in TRANCEADDICT, nevertheless...they are being discussed. This topic is not only less controvresial...but it's also a topic that won't make someone want to bomb your house for. Besides it's a POLL. If u don't feel like discussing it,don't! Just vote, and if it bothers u...then avoid the whole thread just like u avoid many other threads.

As for the poll....I would support my girl 100% in whatever her decision would be. So long as she gives me a good reason for her decision.


Posted by tiesto14 on Apr-07-2002 08:09:

Abortion should be leagal....

and i cant beleive this is being brough up AGAIN....i hope this doesnt get heated like the other 40 abortion threads....

most people know my case so i wont post it....


Posted by Nightmonger on Apr-07-2002 08:20:

quote:
Originally posted by Waxen
I find it almost insulting how 2 fellow tranceaddicts would have the nerve to tell me I shouldn't be bring up such a matter, ESPECIALLY in a forum reserved for topics like this and whatever else people want to discuss. I think if you wanted to post something to my thread, then you should have gave me ur input on the topic.. not on if it's right or wrong to talk about or not.


I did it on my first post ...

quote:
Originally posted by Waxen
I know everyone is entitled to an opinion on this thing.. but think about what you just said? "you shouldn't be talking about stuff like that in OUR community" That angers me.. It's not like I posted it in the chillout room! Think before you speak next time.
~S~


You're right naturally but suggesting not to bring a matter out IS an opinion ... AND if you can't stand critics or different opinions from your just don't post threads on such vexed matters ...

PS: I won't continue on this matter 'cause i found lotsa friend on this board and i wish not to loose a single one (you included)


Posted by Waxen on Apr-07-2002 08:41:

Tiesto14 ----->... abortion is actually legal, at least in Ontario it is.. it's covered by OHIP. Most people think it's not legal because the abortion centres are very secretive about it for the clients purpose and to not attract attention and controversy..but it is legal.
And as for "NightMonger".. I respect the fact you don't want to loose friends, and I can see your point of view, and I CAN stand opinions and criticism where and when it's appropriate. I think you know what I mean. Enough about that!

~S~


Posted by Coup on Apr-07-2002 08:48:

Jerry Springer's "Final Thought" well coup's actually..

Being the mod here, im ment to be the one to stop you all and shut you all up and say in big letters, thread closed, well tuff
Im not gona stop anyone here, i agree with waxen and said this before. Im fed up to the backteeth of people being too "scared" to voice their opion, and would rather spend 2 hrs a day typing "lol" "yeah mate, i like that track too" or "have a good one", which is fine, but to be too scared to have a decent disscussion incase you offend someone with your opion, incase it dissagrees's with their, then there's no point you being here. I put them in bold to outline people have different opions, if you dont agree with the person above..so? whats wrong with that? if everyone agreed them there would be no point in forums at all!

Nitemonger, if you and Waxen want a decent disscussion, the fine, have one, im all for decent topics, there's no point anyone being here if we are too scared to speak. tiesto14, i didnt follow ur arguments before, but i am the only mod here so u can argue all you like on this matter, aslong as when i read i dont see "FUCK, SHIT, WANKER, PISS OFF" everywhere, if you argue with POINTS, and FACTS, then there is no problem.

If you are starting to appear like a tit, i will turn that post pink, and everyone will know, you're an arse!

if you want a arguement, have one, just dont be silly!

I could even join in, when i can be arsed


Posted by Nightmonger on Apr-07-2002 08:50:

Trance & Peace


Posted by NY1004 on Apr-08-2002 09:12:

Bottom line is no matter what you should be given a choice.


Posted by drizzt81 on Apr-08-2002 16:09:

Well, I am in favor of abortion, so flame me. I that there are many good points arguing against it, protection of life, making sure that people don't decide when a life is "worth" living (see 3rd Reich), but i thinks that some of these risks are less than what is to be gained.

First off, I believe that women will suffer enough if they have an abortion so that they will not think of having a 'casual' abortion. Apart from that, women need to be allowed to have a choice. Sometimes, people make mistakes and while the guy can just walk away as if nothing happened, the girl is stuck with a child. Do you really want to be responsible for another person being born with the mother not wanting it?

The adoption point: I have no idea on the laws about adoption in the US, so I am not sure which limitations they put on mothers, plus you have to give brith to the child first, which takes a lot of work for a while, methinks.


Posted by AndoraStar on Apr-08-2002 16:43:

quote:
Originally posted by tiesto14
Abortion should be leagal....

and i cant beleive this is being brough up AGAIN....i hope this doesnt get heated like the other 40 abortion threads....

most people know my case so i wont post it....


It is LEGAL in Toronto.. and free! But that doesn't make it anymore easier!


Posted by jasmyn on Apr-08-2002 17:06:

quote:
Originally posted by Julie_Spyder
Me my self i wouldnt be able to doo it on any thing after a sertin age..
BUt if i got pregnet now.. i would .. i would get an abortion..
if i had of choise of giving birth and giving up for oddoption i would but i know i wouldn't have that choise.. so i would have to go for abortion.. .


othersie.. i dont think i would



All women should have the choice - it's their bodies, they should be able to do whatever they want with it.

Personally, I agree with Julie_Spyder .. if I got pregnant now, I would get an abortion. I don't think that I would be able to bring a child into this world yet - I am not ready to have someone else's life in my hands .. too much responsibility.


Posted by Waxen on Apr-08-2002 19:16:

quote:
Originally posted by jasmyn

All women should have the choice - it's their bodies, they should be able to do whatever they want with it.

Personally, I agree with Julie_Spyder .. if I got pregnant now, I would get an abortion. I don't think that I would be able to bring a child into this world yet - I am not ready to have someone else's life in my hands .. too much responsibility.


But don't you think that it's your problem. I mean.. if you were stupid enough to get pregnant in the first place why should you end your creations life because of a mistake you made? It's just an opinion but I think if your responsible enough to have sex then you should be responsible enough to raise that baby. I think abortion is just a selfish act to cover up a mistake someone made.. you just have to wipe your hands clean like it never happenned and move on with your life.. I think that is somewhat wrong.

~S~


Posted by Coup on Apr-08-2002 19:39:

u have a valid point waxen, but i dont say i agree with it. sex (im still a virgin, so i cant talk from expirence) sometimes isnt intended, maybe the condom split? peeps were drunk? you can either have an abortion, or bring up a child in an infit environment, which could screw the kid up no end. no education, no money, no morals, no loving parents, and if it all goes wrong big-style, u end up with a mass murderer whos on a killing spree. lol!, ok thats extreme, but its plasuable, so in that sense, u would be saving many lifes with the death of one, and thats what the death penitly is for? argh, way to complicated! (read between the lines with what i tried to say, havent got enough time to write it all out in full, sorry)!


Posted by drizzt81 on Apr-08-2002 20:37:

quote:
Originally posted by Waxen


But don't you think that it's your problem. I mean.. if you were stupid enough to get pregnant in the first place why should you end your creations life because of a mistake you made? It's just an opinion but I think if your responsible enough to have sex then you should be responsible enough to raise that baby. I think abortion is just a selfish act to cover up a mistake someone made.. you just have to wipe your hands clean like it never happenned and move on with your life.. I think that is somewhat wrong.

~S~


maybe i am basing stuff too much on my own values, but i do not think that anyone will take an abortion lightly.


Posted by Orbax on May-02-2002 05:05:

this ones easy. No. because abortion should never happen in the first place. The mistake isnt made in saying Yes ill get an abortion. the mistake is made saying Ill have stupid unprotected sex when im not prepared for the consequences kind of stuff. Abortion shouldnt be a yes or no thing.Rape thats hard and all I can say is that people shouldnt be rapists lol. Im not even gonna try tot ell you about that. But too many people I know have had more than THREE abortions each because they love having unprotected sex...does that actually seem right to anyone? to me thats so wrong it hurts. another issue would be :the pill: because that probably kills more potential "people" than anything else. but main point is this. The decision to not be safe in sexual practices and the decision to not understand the consequences is/was your choice, live with it. I wont get into the religious side of it because thats a whole nutha argument. and when you say its your body you can do with it what you want that actually isnt true in my opinion. When you get pregnant you give up your bodily autonomy (morally) because there is another life dependent on your actions. Its the same reason that while you CAN drink alcohol and drop acid while pregnant you SHOULDNT. if the argument about life comes up...EEEK. Ill just say this though. It sure as heck isnt dead.


Posted by tiesto14 on May-02-2002 05:26:

quote:
Originally posted by Orbax
this ones easy. No. because abortion should never happen in the first place. The mistake isnt made in saying Yes ill get an abortion. the mistake is made saying Ill have stupid unprotected sex when im not prepared for the consequences kind of stuff.


Dont u think paying the price for having unprotected sex by having a BABY a little extreme if the mother or father is not ready for that responsibility?...yes they made a mistake...but the MAJORITY of abortions are not by the people u know but by women who really fucked up...women dont generally enjoy the procedure.

..also if u think having a baby is a good penalty for having foolish unprotected sex then i also suppose u feel someone who gets AIDS from having unprotected sex also deserves getting it for being dumb..or people who dotn ear seat belts in a car and crash and die deserve it also cus they knew the consequences before they took those dangerous actions?...thats ABSURD

quote:
Originally posted by Orbax Rape thats hard and all I can say is that people shouldnt be rapists lol..


ya and people shouldnt do alot of things..that made nosense


quote:
Originally posted by Orbax but main point is this. The decision to not be safe in sexual practices and the decision to not understand the consequences is/was your choice, live with it. ..


AGAIN so does tat apply to people who get sexually trasmitted diseases also?...so peopel with AIDS should DEAL with it...is that your rationale?


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