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Advice......

Alright so theres a slight problem I have: I have never been on a date before! Theres this girl that I like and we quite often exchange sms's and talk to each other on msn, but I'm not sure if I should ask her out or not. Thats just it, I don't even know how to ask! I rather find out if she even likes me because I'm not even sure that she does (as she seems to be just as nice to everyone else), should I wait to find out if she does before I ask?

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Originally posted by djphatt Alright so theres a slight problem I have: I have never been on a date before! Theres this girl that I like and we quite often exchange sms's and talk to each other on msn, but I'm not sure if I should ask her out or not. Thats just it, I don't even know how to ask! I rather find out if she even likes me because I'm not even sure that she does (as she seems to be just as nice to everyone else), should I wait to find out if she does before I ask?

It sucks, but you have to make a decision one way or the other. You risk a bit of "Oh damn, I feel like a dick" if she says no, but if you say nothing, she could very well figure you're not into her, and hook up with somebody else.

Soon you're gonna have hair growing in funny places.

I would recommend waiting until then.

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Originally posted by Mmanu Soon you're gonna have hair growing in funny places. I would recommend waiting until then.

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Originally posted by djphatt Alright so theres a slight problem I have: I have never been on a date before! Theres this girl that I like and we quite often exchange sms's and talk to each other on msn, but I'm not sure if I should ask her out or not. Thats just it, I don't even know how to ask! I rather find out if she even likes me because I'm not even sure that she does (as she seems to be just as nice to everyone else), should I wait to find out if she does before I ask?

asking for dating advice from the cor is almost as stupid as asking an etheopian to show you how to cook.

just ask to go see a movie or smth, most girls are fine with that, especially if they like you. If not, she is very likely to be emo.

do this:


chill w/ 1 friend

girl comes+parks at your house

go to movies w/ girl and 1 friend (to show not 100% interested)

say LATER to 1 friend

take girl to your place and tell her youve got shit to do but she can chill for a bit... "i guess you can...." (that kind of reluctant shit)
A-she says ok
B-she has to go

A. find a movie and tell her to put it in dvd player while you get drinks

watch movie/drink/cuddle

afterwards stick to your guns and let her know you DO have stuff to do but you enjoyed chillin

give her a goodbye kiss: hello date #2 and make out session.

B. look really dissappointed in a half faking way and say "ok..." but tell her to give you a goodbye kiss and point to your face in a way that could mean either your cheek or lips.

enjoy wherever she chooses to plant her lips

get some damn sleep! you earned it!

main point is to not care what happens. dont WORRY about doing this or doing that. either do it or dont do it, but dont regret silly little shit!

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Originally posted by all-nite-freak asking for dating advice from the cor is almost as stupid as my ignorant posts.

I agree.

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Originally posted by djphatt I rather find out if she even likes me

Ask her out and you shall find out. Why wait? Do you only do things when you know there's no risk of failing?

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Originally posted by RickyM I agree.

Who pissed in your lucky charms tinkerbelle?

gimme her email addy and i will foward on this thread to her

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Originally posted by Lira Ask her out and you shall find out. Why wait? Do you only do things when you know there's no risk of failing?

Yeh basically! But is it too dodgy to ask her out to a movie over msn?
Otherwise I was thinking that I'm just gonna send her a msg telling her that I gotta crush on her....which seems kinda stupid, but I don't know any better!

put it in her butt.

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Originally posted by djphatt But is it too dodgy to ask her out to a movie over msn?

Yes, however it is not too dodgy to ask for buttsex over msn.



Edit - Damnit.

take her out to Mc Donalds. It will be A Date to Remember

Asking for date advice on here will always make me laugh.

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Originally posted by djphatt Yeh basically! But is it too dodgy to ask her out to a movie over msn? Otherwise I was thinking that I'm just gonna send her a msg telling her that I gotta crush on her....which seems kinda stupid, but I don't know any better!

Of course it is! Girls like confidence, what kind of impression do you think you're going to convey if you're not even able to ask her out personally?

All you have to do is say "Want to go out Friday night?" looking straight into her eyes. If she says "no", she would've said "no" over msn anyway probably, so what's the difference?

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Originally posted by djphatt Alright so theres a slight problem I have: I have never been on a date before! Theres this girl that I like and we quite often exchange sms's and talk to each other on msn, but I'm not sure if I should ask her out or not. Thats just it, I don't even know how to ask! I rather find out if she even likes me because I'm not even sure that she does (as she seems to be just as nice to everyone else), should I wait to find out if she does before I ask?

what a panzy! Where are your balls??? Are you not a man??? Do us all a favour & commit suicide you no hoping girly man!!!

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Originally posted by djphatt Yeh basically! But is it too dodgy to ask her out to a movie over msn? Otherwise I was thinking that I'm just gonna send her a msg telling her that I gotta crush on her....which seems kinda stupid, but I don't know any better!

read my post you pussy fuck

i did NOT spend 5 mins typing trying to help your sorry ass for nothing.








ps. ask her over msn for movie its not like its a big deal. srsly...

Just tell her you like her online, if that's what you find easiest.

Less potential awkwardness, and any girl worth a damn won't care how you say it, especially if she likes you back.

pffft what a girly man with his little girly doodle. Such a girly man that doesnt even have the courage to ask the females out for a cuppa tea and some girly scones. Mother would be ashamed that she gave birth to such a girly man; Needless stretching of her vagina!!!

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Originally posted by MrJiveBoJingles Just tell her you like her online, if that's what you find easiest. Less potential awkwardness, and any girl worth a damn won't care how you say it, especially if she likes you back.

eh...


if youve never been on a date for christs sake dont tell her you "like her" lol


you DONT like her. its just your fucked up animal mind saying:


"omg this girl is giving me attention she might like me!!! omg what can i do to make sure she stays around?... hmmm how about 'i like you' lol but what if she doesnt like that? OMG IM SO NERVOUS HAHAILIKEBOYS!!!!"



yea so point being dont fucking let her know how you feel about her. maybe you just want to be friends (you might depending on her character... hence; dates)

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Originally posted by wizniz you DONT like her. its just your fucked up animal mind saying: "omg this girl is giving me attention she might like me!!! omg what can i do to make sure she stays around?... hmmm how about 'i like you' lol but what if she doesnt like that? OMG IM SO NERVOUS HAHAILIKEBOYS!!!!"

I was assuming that the guy actually does like her and wasn't just grasping and desperate for any little crumbs of attention he could find. If he is in fact desperate, he should probably get his own life and confidence together before trying to date anybody in the first place. Very few girls will want to deal with a clingy dude.

Either A:

Don't act like it's a date. Just ask her to hang out and see where it goes. If you make it sound easy, it is.

Or B:

Ask her out point blank, and then you have your answer as to whether or not she likes you. Done and done.

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Originally posted by Lira Of course it is! Girls like confidence,

That's why you should order for her...

"The lady will have the 'Le Big Mac' with fries and a coke."

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