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Posted by Chris Crossland on May-13-2007 02:54:

My Grandma died last night

Me and my buddy were drinking last night, tanked of course. Made a nice beeramid. My friend passes out and i check my myspace and my sister says grams just passed away. What a buzz kill, seriously. I went out side and smoked almost a pack of cigs still drinking and crying my ass off. Worst night ever. I'm having trouble coping with this, i'm lost. I never really felt like this before. When my great grandma(s) passed away it wasnt that bad cause i wasnt really that close to them.

Posted by Sunsnail on May-13-2007 02:58:

Shit, I am so sorry to hear that.

Posted by jonSun on May-13-2007 02:59:

Damn, sorry to hear that. I would be the same way or worse if my grandma were to pass.

Posted by tranceDJ on May-13-2007 03:01:

Shitty that you had to find out through myspace...didn't help either if you were drunk, would make it that much more emotional for anyone.

Sorry to hear that

Posted by AlphaStarred on May-13-2007 03:02:

My condolensces. My grandma passed away not too long ago too, try to understand that if you are alive than perhaps you should concentrate on living and to be strong in somehow coping with the tragedy. "We are born to die," to quote David Mamet, and may we all live to 120, to quote my mother. I hope she lived to an advanced age, and hope the best for you.

Posted by Lira on May-13-2007 03:04:

Sorry to hear that, I wish I could feel the same if it happened to me

Posted by Chris Crossland on May-13-2007 03:04:

I knew she had a stroke a while ago but i thought she got through it. I havent seen her in over a year. I fucking hate being overseas, I hate the military fuck this shit. I'll never get to talk to her again ................................ I feel like going into a dark hole a dying.

I think im going to make a song for her.

Posted by jfk-pilot on May-13-2007 03:04:

wow im sorry to hear that dude, may she rest in peace. I live with my grandparents and im really close to them, and i just dont know what i would do if they passed.

Posted by LeopoldStotch on May-13-2007 03:06:

condolences to the marines (figuring your first initial is 'g' and your middle initial is 'w' ) family. tough loss for you. yeah i lost both my grandparents already. i received news my grandmama passed away while i was in school, and i received the news my grandpapa passed away when my mom picked me up from high school back then.

r.i.p.

Posted by tranceDJ on May-13-2007 03:10:

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Originally posted by gwrmarines
I think im going to make a song for her.

One of the best things you can do at a time like that.

Posted by Sushipunk on May-13-2007 03:12:

Sorry to hear that dude

Best wishes.

Posted by Marc Summers on May-13-2007 03:15:

Grandparents own! It's always sad if one of them passes.

Posted by Spacey Orange on May-13-2007 03:20:

i fucken hate my grandma, who despite enduring many infermities, still manages to cling to life.

Posted by idoru on May-13-2007 03:22:

The first death in the family that actually hit me fairly hard was my great grandmother. I don't feel like going into the details, suffice it to say she was one of the coolest, most badass people ever. My condolences to you and your family.

My advice to you is not to dwell on the fact that you didn't get to see or talk to her for the last year or so. If you had a good relationship with her before then then she more than likely still cared for you, supported you and loved you. Don't dwell over the negative thought of not speaking to her, try to remember the good times you'd spent together. If she was anything like my great grandmother (who would've laughed along with my dad, brother and I at the priest kissing the Bible during her funeral), that's probably what she would've wanted.

Posted by trewqy on May-13-2007 05:04:

I had a similar experience in the sense I had an in camp training.

When the officer in charge told me the news, i literally broke down and cried my eyes out. My grandma was the one person who would be there for me if there was no one else..

I had just learnt CPR the week before and i just kept thinking what I could have done when she had that heart attack. I know i shouldnt be pissed at myself but couldnt help myself thinking I could have done something.

Posted by L.E.N. on May-13-2007 05:06:

Sorry to hear...when my Grandma passed it didnt hit me until I saw the tombstone with my last name on it...CrUsHeD!

Posted by CranberryJuice on May-13-2007 07:13:

im sorry

my condolences to u chris

Posted by woscar on May-13-2007 07:57:

I'm very sorry to hear about your grandma. I went through my great-grandma's death not to long ago and it was the toughest thing I've ever had to go through. I was really close with her since she lived with my mom's parents and when I was a kid I practically lived there, spending my summer vacations there and sleeping over on weekends.

I know you feel miserable and angry and cry a lot. My friend, cry your heart out and allow all those feelings you have to come out. It's the best advice I can give you. Soon you'll get over it and life will go on. You'll probably miss her like hell just like I miss my great-grandma, who was the coolest, most amazing person ever, but soon all those feelings will turn to happiness every time you remember all those great moments you had together. Her body may not be here anymore, but her spirit will live forever inside you and it will only make you stronger.

Posted by Fledz on May-13-2007 08:28:

Condolences from me. That's sad to hear

Posted by Lilith on May-13-2007 08:45:

It's rough, cheer up soon.

Posted by djsphere on May-13-2007 09:20:

very sorry to hear that mate.

may she rest in peace!

Posted by wotyzoid on May-13-2007 12:04:

sorry dude, my gramma passed away 2 years ago , too. Now i only have a grandfather. I wasnt so close to her but i still felt it, its life man just hang in there.

Posted by Capitalizt on May-13-2007 13:22:

Sorry to hear it...Take care of your mom when you see her. It's going to be even harder on her...especially considering today is mothers day.

Posted by Jackson on May-13-2007 14:11:

My Nan died on Good Friday, it didn't hit me until i played Tears in Heaven on my guitar a few days afterwards...i just stopped about 5 strings in and couldn't do anymore.

She was my last grandparent

I'm sorry to hear about it gwrmarines...im not overly religous but i think that wherever my nan is now...her mother, father and other relatives are with her...and that gives me peace.

Posted by Andryuha on May-13-2007 14:25:

Re: My Grandma died last night

quote:
Originally posted by gwrmarines
Me and my buddy were drinking last night, tanked of course. Made a nice beeramid. My friend passes out and i check my myspace and my sister says grams just passed away. What a buzz kill, seriously. I went out side and smoked almost a pack of cigs still drinking and crying my ass off. Worst night ever. I'm having trouble coping with this, i'm lost. I never really felt like this before. When my great grandma(s) passed away it wasnt that bad cause i wasnt really that close to them.

I know the feeling man. My grandpa died 4 years ago from a stroke. That was unbelievably painful. He struggled for a few months and that was extremely hard to witness. He was always athletic and was miserable 2 months prior to death. It took my a long ass time to recover from the emotional shock. Just hang in there bro, time will heal everything.

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